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Offline dj022

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Love bite and Fingering.
« on: May 24, 2011, 12:07:26 AM »
Hi,
Both exposures happened with a csw(protected).
A week before this exposure i had hiv test which was negative which put only this encounter in doubt.

Love bite:

After 15-20 minutes, when I came home I saw a love bite (blood collected under skin) just below my right jaw on my neck(I didnít notice it while having sex with her). I immediately washed it with antibacterial soap. I didnít see any blood near bite or on my neck.There was no deep cut in the skin. However, on noticing closely I saw a minute rupture of the skin (upper layer), just like teeth getting dragged against the skin (not more than 1 mm) and was not deep.

Fingering:
she was very wet as far as i remember.
I am in a habit of peeling skin near my nails with my teeth.While peeling the skin i peeled it rather hard and there was one drop of blood which i sucked, after it there was no blood just red skin.It was the size of a pinpoint. It was at least 6 hours(can be more,i can't exactly remember) before the fingering.After fingering i again checked it and pressed it quite hard but still no blood came out.

1.What is my risk?

2.Do i need testing? 


Offline RapidRod

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #1 on: May 24, 2011, 04:28:38 AM »
You never had an exposure.

Offline dj022

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #2 on: May 24, 2011, 05:07:36 AM »
She also performed oral sex on me for about 20-30 seconds.
Does that make a difference?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #3 on: May 24, 2011, 05:09:49 AM »
Oral sex does not pose a risk of HIV transmission.  So no it doesn't change a thing, you've never had a risk.

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #4 on: May 24, 2011, 08:06:28 AM »
DJ,

Love bites are not a risk for hiv infection and neither are actual bites where the skin is broken. This is because not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

Getting a blowjob is also not a risk for hiv infection due to saliva not being infectious. Not one person has ever been infected by getting their dick sucked and you are not going to be the first.

Fingering is also not a risk for hiv infection, regardless of small cuts, scrapes, hangnails or bitten fingernails. Hiv can only infect a very few, very specific types of cells and these cells are not found on or under the surface of the skin. Your skin is a very effective barrier against hiv even when there are small breaks in the skin present.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER A BLOWJOB, LOVE BITES OR FINGERING, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Offline dj022

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #5 on: May 24, 2011, 08:59:23 AM »
Thank you everyone for your help!

I have always used condoms for anal and vaginal sex.I know how to protect myself , my dad told me after i turned 18,he is just like my friend and he believes in me. I want to serve my parents in their old age,so i was very curious about this exposure.

1.What other things (apart from using condoms for anal vaginal sex),i should do while having sex to avoid hiv?

Thanks again.


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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #6 on: May 24, 2011, 09:29:06 AM »
DJ,

I've already told you what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection. Please re-read reply #4 again and again until it sinks in.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!!!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline dj022

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #7 on: June 19, 2011, 07:25:14 AM »
Hello, here I am worried again,
I have few questions which i hope you will answer.

1.Can ARS symptoms come after 9 weeks of encounter?

2.I am having skin coloured bumps on my feet and left elbows which  are very itchy.Does it sound like an HIV rash ?

I went for duo test after 45 days which was negative.

PLZ HELP !

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #8 on: June 19, 2011, 08:02:55 AM »
Hello, here I am worried again,
I have few questions which i hope you will answer.

1.Can ARS symptoms come after 9 weeks of encounter?

2.I am having skin coloured bumps on my feet and left elbows which  are very itchy.Does it sound like an HIV rash ?

I went for duo test after 45 days which was negative.

PLZ HELP !





Doubts and worries are not facts. It would be highly unlikely to experience ARS at 9 weeks after a risk and after a negative result at 6 weeks. (The average time to seroconversion is 22 days after a risk).

No, your skin problem does not in anyway sound like ARS rash. 

You are worrying needlessly about HIV.
Andy Velez

Offline Ann

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Re: Love bite and Fingering.
« Reply #9 on: June 19, 2011, 08:14:01 AM »
DJ,

You did not have a risk for hiv infection. Why on earth would you be experiencing ARS?

Your hiv test is conclusive. You do not have hiv.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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