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Offline Ajay1988

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blowjob/oralsex
« on: May 20, 2011, 09:19:52 AM »
Hello experts and my new friends,
I have been reading all the posts since May 1st  but still confused scared ,I want to hear from u again please with latest studies.
this is Ajay from India. I am a student, male,age-23 . On 01-05-2011 I had an unprotected oral Sex from a she-male and I am extremely sorry for that, but I did not have any anal or virginal intercourse. The oral sex was for maximum of 3-4 minutes. She was  using her lips only. During the end of the blowjob The head of penis may have touched her tounge  or upper mouth  for few times.

Now question :  how much  is the  chance of Hiv ?
If Std  may also be the problem. Then within how much time I will get symptoms for std ?
( Std symptom duration )
Sorry for repeating the same topic.
Thank you.

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2011, 09:53:10 AM »
Ajay, receiving oral sex is one of the most common of sexual activities. In the entire history of the epidemic there has never been even one confirmed case of transmission to a man in that manner. It's safe to say you are not going to make history by becoming the first. No matter what details you throw into the mix getting oral is not a risk for HIV. Period.

As for other STDs, we focus here only on HIV. We do advise anyone who is sexually active ought to at least once a year have a full STD panel done. Other STDs are easier to acquire than HIV. If you find you are having any troubling symptoms you should discuss them with your doctor.

But HIV is not a problem for you this time. And as long as you consistently use condoms for vaginal/anal intercourse you will not be at risk for HIV sexually.
Andy Velez

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2011, 10:20:52 AM »
Thanks SIR,
you are just like GOD of several depressed mind. Thanks.

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2011, 10:34:48 AM »
You're welcome.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #4 on: May 21, 2011, 10:11:23 AM »
So Ma'am .
U mean
1. Blowjob itself is a low risk case.
2. person who sucks is higher risk than who get the sucking.
So all it mean the person (-ve ) who get the sucking  by the person (+ve)  is the lowest risk. ???

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #5 on: May 21, 2011, 10:21:08 AM »
Ajay,

I removed the above post from another person's thread and placed it here in your own thread. You are not permitted to post in any thread apart from your own. Do not post elsewhere again.

Make sure you read the Welcome Thread like you should have before ever posting and abide by the posting rules found there. Thank you for your cooperation.

Getting a blowjob is not low risk for hiv infection, it is NO RISK.

Giving a blowjob is nothing more than a hypothetical risk. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

You did not have a risk for hiv infection when you got your dick sucked. NO RISK.

Ann
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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #6 on: May 21, 2011, 10:31:20 AM »
Extremely sorry for the mistake ma'am. I apologize . . .



1..A Hiv -ve person getting his dick sucked by a hiv + person .

2..A Hiv +ve person getting his dick sucked by a hiv -ve person.

which one got more hypothetical / theoretical risk ?

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #7 on: May 21, 2011, 10:35:31 AM »
HIV is NOT transmitted by oral sex. PERIOD.

Offline Ajay1988

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« Reply #8 on: May 21, 2011, 10:42:34 AM »
Extremely Sorry Sir,
Excuse me, but still u did not reply to my question . Which one got more theoretical/ hypothetical risk ?

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #9 on: May 21, 2011, 10:47:22 AM »
■Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out, which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #10 on: May 21, 2011, 11:05:02 AM »
Extremely sorry for the mistake ma'am. I apologize . . .



1..A Hiv -ve person getting his dick sucked by a hiv + person .

2..A Hiv +ve person getting his dick sucked by a hiv -ve person.

which one got more hypothetical / theoretical risk ?

Are you listening to anything that is being said to you or only to your unwarranted fears about HIV? It seems to be the latter.

The HIV status of someone sucking you is irrelevant because getting a blowjob is absolutely not a risk for transmission. Giving a blowjob is only theoretically a risk. Your saliva presents a very effective natural barrier against the transmission of viable HIV.

It's time warn you that we're not going to indulge you in these kinds of fanciful speculations and questions. You didn't have a risk and sexually if you always use condoms for intercourse you won't be at risk.

If you come back with more of this nonsense I can tell you that you are going to find yourself getting a Time Out from the site.

Cut this out and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #11 on: May 24, 2011, 01:59:04 PM »
hi everybody.
I am damn sad. After 23 days of my unprotected oral sex yesterday I had white thin patches on my tongue. I searched in net n found It looks like hairy leukoplakia. And many site represent it as a sign of HIV infection. Is it true ?? Oh my God !!! Help me please.
 :'(  :'(  :'(

Offline RapidRod

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #12 on: May 24, 2011, 02:13:17 PM »
Discuss it with your doctor if you have a concern. You don't have an HIV concern.

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Re: blowjob/oralsex
« Reply #13 on: May 24, 2011, 02:32:39 PM »
Ajay,

You did NOT have a risk for hiv infection. If you're worried about your tongue, go see a doctor or dentist. It's nothing to do with hiv.

I'm giving you that time out you have been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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