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Author Topic: I am so HAPPY I COULD POP !  (Read 2738 times)

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Offline weasel

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I am so HAPPY I COULD POP !
« on: April 23, 2011, 08:43:22 PM »
 Anybody want my   HUSBAND ?
  I will pay air fare to the MOON if i have to ! :o
   Not really !
   He is CUTE  :P
   In good shape !
 Somewhat of a ROYAL PITA  !  ( pain in the ASS )

 He is thoughtfull ~ but bitchy !

  He loves to cuddle , my favorite time of the day  :D
************
I thank GOD everyday for such a GOOD husband !

                 HAPPY EASTER  EVERYONE !

                      

                                             JUST HAD TO BITCH !

                                                             Carl
 
  Edited for very mean content !
  I really do NOT hold grudges for more than a day or two  :)
« Last Edit: April 25, 2011, 12:04:22 PM by weasel »
" Live and let Live "

Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #1 on: April 23, 2011, 10:25:01 PM »
The secret to a happy marriage remains a secret. - Henry Youngman


Offline weasel

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #2 on: April 23, 2011, 10:36:45 PM »


          Thanks !

                    i have been enlightened  ::)

                Have a great Easter !

                    I have  calmed ! Just needed to BUSRT !

                                                                     Carl
" Live and let Live "

Offline denb45

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #3 on: April 23, 2011, 10:44:05 PM »
Carl, you and hubby need to have a sit down and talk things over, tell him what YOU don't like, and ask him what he doesn't like about you, the 2 of you just may find out a lotta things the both of you guys have been
neglecting, and that sounds like each other, work it out, you've been together way to long, and have a lot of history together..........correct me if I'm wrong here, and I'll go back into my hole, but I don't think I'am  :-*

HAPPY EASTER  to the both of u guys

DENNIS in ABQ

HUGS
« Last Edit: April 23, 2011, 10:47:53 PM by denb45 »
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Offline Buckmark

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #4 on: April 24, 2011, 12:55:16 AM »
Carl,

Clearly you have a bunch of frustration with your partner that you need to let out.  Dennis suggested that you two have a sit down to talk things over, and while that's a good idea, I suspect you may have tried this already and have a hunch that part of the problem is communication.  A counselor or therapist may be able to help you and your partner communicate better.  I'd hope he would be willing to go with you.  If not, you should go by yourself.  I recall that you live a little off the beaten path, so I realize that seeking professional assistance may be more difficult, but it really could be of great benefit.  And if you are feeling isolated in where you live, that could be heightening your sense of frustration.

I'm sorry you and your partner are having such troubles.  Hang in there, and I hope you have a Happy Easter.

Regards,

Henry

P.S.  Your partner's gambling habits seem particularly troubling (to me), as it leaves you in the position of having to be the fiscally responsible one in the relationship.  That's a huge burden to bear, and one that is likely to lead to a lot of resentment.  
"Life in Lubbock, Texas, taught me two things:
     One is that God loves you and you're going to burn in hell.
     The other is that sex is the most awful, filthy thing on earth and you should save it for someone you love."
- Butch Hancock, Musician, The Flatlanders

Offline weasel

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #5 on: April 24, 2011, 01:10:11 PM »


     Thanks GUYS !

        We are having a nice day today !

         We do have a huge communication problem !

        I really  want things to be happy again !

        33 year !    Live is good most of the time !

       As for Gambling , One reason we left Las Vegas !   

        WE tried group counseling , Bob is a charmer !   :o

        Living  in the woods  , 24/7   together  sometimes works my nerves .

        I made    Easter Breakfast and all is good for now  :-*

                             Carl
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Offline Cliff

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #6 on: April 24, 2011, 01:32:06 PM »
Easter has a way of making everything better....something about Jesus dying for us and all that.

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #7 on: April 24, 2011, 01:42:20 PM »



   When I first saw the title of this thread I thought it might have something to do with bladder control.  Sorry Weasel you're other half is being a shit, maybe Cliff's right and Easter will make it all better. 

 HAPPY EASTER

I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

Offline bear60

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #8 on: April 24, 2011, 03:28:25 PM »
Carl
I am letting my husband go off to Germany for a month.  Sometimes we need space. (And a good rant or two.)
Hugs
Joel
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Offline mecch

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #9 on: April 24, 2011, 04:44:25 PM »
Draw the line on some of the more irritating and selfish behavior, perhaps.
And tell his family the truth, once or twice, about the money, who is supporting whom.
“From each, according to his ability; to each, according to his need” 1875 K Marx

Offline bocker3

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #10 on: April 24, 2011, 05:55:21 PM »
Carl,

Rant away -- a good rant has saved many a relationship.  There are days that I could kill my other half too....  fortunately their are far more days where all I want to do is spend time together.  As Joel said -- time apart is an important thing, I suspect that might be difficult for you two -- given that you live off the beaten path. 
At any rate -- it sounds like the rant did you some good.  Here's to better times.

Hugs,
Mike
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Offline weasel

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #11 on: April 24, 2011, 06:37:10 PM »

We  are having a good day !

        Most days are  :)

   Just some days  are  too much !

    Bear , I get to go on vacation  when I wish .

     It would be really NICE  if Bob would go on a vacation .  But he won't !

     Been years !   He did go to Connecticut to get us married  in 2009

      This May he WAS going to go to Texas for a few weeks . But has decided not too   ::)

      I would love some me time at home  :o

      Oh Mecch , I gave up on  telling his family ANYTHING !  Useless , just wasted time  ???

       Bob is in the tub and my Lasagna is in the oven !

           Life is good ..............
                                                      Carl
         
" Live and let Live "

Offline J.R.E.

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Re: I am so PISSED I COULD BURST !
« Reply #12 on: April 24, 2011, 06:50:44 PM »
Carl,

Glad to hear that you guys had a good day.  About the only advice I can give is communication, communication, communication, and trust !!

 Ed and I have taken plenty of vacations together through the years, at the same time, we've also taken separate vacations.  He wants to take one in a couple of weeks to New Orleans.  sometimes it's nice just to have our "me" time

He's retired, he can do that.  I, on the other hand, still work.

Hope everything gets better..




Ray
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