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would you rather take a small hard one or a big soft one?

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big n soft
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Offline next2u

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small and hard or big and soft?
« on: April 19, 2011, 02:53:30 PM »
just curious. this is for a one night stand, multiple night stand or whatever. when it comes down to it, would your rather the other person be perpetually flacid yet well hung or always ready but on the smaller side?
midapr07 - seroconversion
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feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
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Offline next2u

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #1 on: April 19, 2011, 04:07:15 PM »
lol.. you all know im not a size queen and ill take function over form any given day...

i know at least two of you who are die hard size queens (miss p can take 2 votes, lol)

best,
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midapr07 - seroconversion
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oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #2 on: April 19, 2011, 04:17:27 PM »
Girl, this poll makes no sense -- who is there that is perpetually flaccid?  Wake and Bake on the internet, I assume?

(miss p can take 2 votes, lol)


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Offline next2u

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #3 on: April 19, 2011, 04:30:39 PM »
lol...

i take it back, i take it back, lol. miss p, i've read enough of your posts about dominicans, ricans and all those other banana dicked conquests you've had and you know im envious.

you know you like em large and i'm just saying you're a size queen enough for 2, lol....along with a certain mod that might poke her head in a bit later.

no wake and bake for me, i have to go to work tomorrow and i need to have some normal brain activity.

btw, one more bieber post and your size queen card will be officially revoked  ;D

bestus,
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midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

Offline next2u

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #4 on: April 19, 2011, 04:33:03 PM »
@ miss p. sorry for not answering your question. there are some meth heads out there that are well hung and perpetually flacid. and some others who have used and abused their manhood to no end. sad, but true.

best,
d
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

Offline Ann

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #5 on: April 20, 2011, 10:31:12 AM »
What use is flaccid, no matter what the size? Am I the only one confused about this?
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Offline denb45

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #6 on: April 20, 2011, 10:34:25 AM »
What use is flaccid, no matter what the size? Am I the only one confused about this?

Not confusing to me @ all, if a guys dick don't work, I can always use his ass for sure  ;D
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Offline hope_for_a_cure

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #7 on: April 20, 2011, 10:38:43 AM »
I dont have enough patience for soft of any size.  The little hard ones are nice but I really dont have much use for them either.  I guess that makes me a size queen for sure.  I want to at least feel it since I dont like toys or fingers.  

Offline denb45

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #8 on: April 20, 2011, 10:41:10 AM »
I dont have enough patience for soft of any size.  The little hard ones are nice but I really dont have much use for them either.  I guess that makes me a size queen for sure.  I want to at least feel it since I dont like toys or fingers.  

you could always use his ass or his mouth, why limit your self in this matter  :D
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Offline hope_for_a_cure

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #9 on: April 20, 2011, 10:42:57 AM »
you could always use his ass or his mouth, why limit your self in this matter  :D

Cause I be a bottom!

Offline denb45

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #10 on: April 20, 2011, 10:43:57 AM »
Cause I be a bottom!

OIC  ;) well I like the best of both worlds, much more fun that way  ;D to be honest, if a guy isn't like me
Versatile, I don't want him, I have NO interest in one sided sex @ ALL unless I'm bored as hell  ;D
« Last Edit: April 20, 2011, 10:56:38 AM by denb45 »
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Offline Ann

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #11 on: April 20, 2011, 11:45:13 AM »
Cause I be a bottom!

That's my excuse too. :)
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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline woodshere

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #12 on: April 20, 2011, 11:51:31 AM »
I prescribe to the old addage, size doesn't matter, except if it is the size of your thumb.  I would much rather have a guy fuck me that has an average size dick but really gets into the fucking as opposed to a guy with a big dick that shoves it in and just leaves it and expects me to do all the work.  I want some grinding, some in and out action, some excitement and adventure.  As far as flaccid, no use for them.
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Offline skeebo1969

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #13 on: April 20, 2011, 12:26:05 PM »



   You guys are much more forgiving than the females I've been with.  A flacid state could be met with ridicule and tears at the same time.  "Haha you can't get hard" followed by "Wtf, you don't find me attractive?"... 
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Offline woodshere

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #14 on: April 20, 2011, 12:37:22 PM »
"Haha you can't get hard" followed by "Wtf, you don't find me attractive?"...  

That just doesn't come from the females I have said it many times or at least thought it!!
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Offline denb45

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #15 on: April 20, 2011, 02:54:52 PM »


   You guys are much more forgiving than the females I've been with.  A flacid state could be met with ridicule and tears at the same time.  "Haha you can't get hard" followed by "Wtf, you don't find me attractive?"...  

 :D tell me about it Tomas, the ladies really take offense to that, I had one cry on me, and I fell asleep
when I woke up, I felt sorry for her so I fucked anyway  ;D my ex found out about it, and well, you know
the rest  :o
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Offline mecch

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #16 on: April 20, 2011, 04:51:36 PM »
Only take the impotent stud if you have a supply of cialis and he's willing to take it. Problem solved.
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Offline hope_for_a_cure

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #17 on: April 20, 2011, 05:19:08 PM »

"Haha you can't get hard" followed by "Wtf, you don't find me attractive?"... 

Some women do take it personally, for me I usually loose the mood and know it probably just bad timing. 



Offline WillyWump

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #18 on: April 20, 2011, 07:58:56 PM »
If Bottoming- hard any size(but not too big)

If topping- who cares.

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Offline next2u

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #19 on: April 20, 2011, 10:02:44 PM »
lol...

well...my last two experiences were just that...small and hard (on a short stud) and big and soft (on a tall huge hot man).

<--- team vers here  :P

ill take a firm one any day over the hope of a hard huge one. i mean, dude did try but i guess the shit in his system made it impossible to keep it up. the other dude felt great in my hand and all the veiny texture ....

it just made me realize how much i like the human body in all its forms and nothing (for me) beats a nice firm one ;)

best,
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midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

Offline littleprince

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #20 on: April 21, 2011, 04:35:51 AM »
How small are we talking here? Don't matter how hard it it, if it don't touch the sides there ain't no point. Sadly, this is coming from personal experiences. " oh, you've started have you?"

Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #21 on: April 21, 2011, 07:08:19 AM »
How small are we talking here? Don't matter how hard it it, if it don't touch the sides there ain't no point. Sadly, this is coming from personal experiences. " oh, you've started have you?"

"Oh yeah! Well maybe the problem isn't my penis is too small, it's that your vagina is too big!"

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #22 on: April 21, 2011, 07:10:28 AM »
The title of this thread made me think of poop.

MtD

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #23 on: April 21, 2011, 09:25:32 AM »
How small are we talking here? Don't matter how hard it it, if it don't touch the sides there ain't no point. Sadly, this is coming from personal experiences. " oh, you've started have you?"
"Oh yeah! Well maybe the problem isn't my penis is too small, it's that your vagina is too big!"

Mersey Tunnel, anyone?
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Offline hope_for_a_cure

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #24 on: April 22, 2011, 05:21:59 PM »
How small are we talking here?

2.5 inches erect.  (I guess that would be called a dicklet.)

Offline SunnyFlorida

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #25 on: April 22, 2011, 09:50:25 PM »
I think flaccid can be pretty hot, but I fully expect that thing to engorge otherwise it's just cuddling and fondling (which is all right by me, as I'm a cuddle whore!)

Offline denb45

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #26 on: April 23, 2011, 10:38:09 AM »
it's just cuddling and fondling (which is all right by me, as I'm a cuddle whore!)

 Me too, sometimes I just wanna be held & cuddled, everything isn't always about sex for me, but, being such a big guy of stature, that almost NEVER seems to happen for me, when it does, it's kinda NICE  ;D
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Offline SunnyFlorida

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #27 on: April 23, 2011, 11:54:09 AM »
Me too, sometimes I just wanna be held & cuddled, everything isn't always about sex for me, but, being such a big guy of stature, that almost NEVER seems to happen for me, when it does, it's kinda NICE  ;D

I hear ya. :) I'm 5'7" and my first boyfriend was 6'5"... I've held him. It was a bit of a challenge, but we managed. :D I can go days, even weeks, without sex. But cuddling... that's a must! I like to hold and be held, hehe.

Offline next2u

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #28 on: April 23, 2011, 11:58:36 AM »
i like both. im as much of a cuddle whore as a vers boy. and i still prefer hard over soft  :P
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
may14 cd4 783; vl *; cd4%43.5

Offline denb45

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #29 on: April 23, 2011, 12:01:46 PM »
I hear ya. :) I'm 5'7" and my first boyfriend was 6'5"... I've held him. It was a bit of a challenge, but we managed. :D I can go days, even weeks, without sex. But cuddling... that's a must! I like to hold and be held, hehe.

I like shorter guys always have, other-half is 5'8 and I'm 6'3, short or smaller doesn't mean that you or any others are less than what you are, that is a ole myth that simply just isn't true @ all  ;)
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Offline denb45

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #30 on: April 23, 2011, 12:10:03 PM »
i like both. im as much of a cuddle whore as a vers boy. and i still prefer hard over soft  :P

 :-* yes I know a few sexual deviants brothers like you very well d, and I think that so HOT  ;D
small and hard or big and soft, short or tall, hey it's all good to me  :D
« Last Edit: April 23, 2011, 12:16:37 PM by denb45 »
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Offline next2u

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #31 on: April 23, 2011, 01:00:01 PM »
moi? a sexual deviant? damn...how did the word get out....lol...that down under mtd...can't keep his mouth shut unless something is in it  ;D. maybe it was hellraiser, ann or miss p.

regardless...i'll take the title. sexually deviant i am.

lol, i just wish there was more sex and deviation  :P
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #32 on: April 23, 2011, 01:29:17 PM »
I like shorter guys always have, other-half is 5'8 and I'm 6'3, short or smaller doesn't mean that you or any others are less than what you are, that is a ole myth that simply just isn't true @ all  ;)

I wasn't even aware of the myth, hahah. I love who I am, man. :D

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #33 on: April 23, 2011, 01:32:50 PM »
I hate cuddling.  In fact, I even draw a line down the middle of the bed that a partner shouldn't cross during a night's sleep.
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #34 on: April 23, 2011, 01:44:15 PM »
I hate cuddling.  In fact, I even draw a line down the middle of the bed that a partner shouldn't cross during a night's sleep.

You're such a romantic.

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #35 on: April 23, 2011, 01:47:07 PM »
I wasn't even aware of the myth, hahah. I love who I am, man. :D

i love who you are too  ;D
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #36 on: April 23, 2011, 01:48:07 PM »
I hate cuddling.  In fact, I even draw a line down the middle of the bed that a partner shouldn't cross during a night's sleep.

omg, you let them sleep in the same room, let alone the same bed...flabbergasted  :D
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oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
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aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
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jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #37 on: April 23, 2011, 01:56:48 PM »
Excessive need to cuddle is a sure sign of someone who is clingy. ::)  I can't help it if I'm an Independent Woman.
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #38 on: April 23, 2011, 01:58:58 PM »
I hate cuddling.  In fact, I even draw a line down the middle of the bed that a partner shouldn't cross during a night's sleep.

Miss p is like a prying mantis, after the sex, he eats off the head of his sex partner and kills him, they better leave his place , if they know what good for them  :D

"D" were all  sexual deviant's in one way or another , those who say they aren't it's a LIE  ;D

Sunny, I like who I'm , and who I'm with, and my life, I just don't like my old age  ;D
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #39 on: April 23, 2011, 02:02:16 PM »
weren't you the one who sent me the link to coda? i accidently walked into one of their meetings the other day. lol, im so okay with having that issue.

as for the rest of the issues...i'm working on them. thank god getting it up isnt one of them...lol. but if it were its a good thing im vers and multi talented :)~
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mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #40 on: April 23, 2011, 02:08:25 PM »
weren't you the one who sent me the link to coda? i accidently walked into one of their meetings the other day. lol, im so okay with having that issue.

as for the rest of the issues...i'm working on them. thank god getting it up isnt one of them...lol. but if it were its a good thing im vers and multi talented :)~

No, d, I didn't send you anything like that, but I just googled it tho, what a bunch-of bull-shit that is  :D :D :D
the only person that I'm co-dependent w/ is my own self  ;D and this is only possible, cause I'm a crazy ass mother-fucker  :D


http://www.coda.org/
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #41 on: April 23, 2011, 02:13:21 PM »
lol...hug me, or bite me... i'm not sure  ;D
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mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
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jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #42 on: April 23, 2011, 02:15:56 PM »
lol...hug me, or bite me... i'm not sure  ;D

Fuck Yeah , I'll hug ya, and bite you all at the same time  :P
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #43 on: April 23, 2011, 03:21:13 PM »
 ;D

that better be guaranteed  :D
« Last Edit: April 23, 2011, 03:23:11 PM by next2u »
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feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #44 on: April 23, 2011, 03:36:36 PM »
;D

that better be guaranteed  :D

Can't give you any guarantee, but if your into sweaty jocks & nude wrestling, and you think you can pin-me-down to submission, I'm yours, but if you cannot your ass is mine  :-*
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #45 on: April 23, 2011, 03:54:36 PM »
I hate cuddling.  In fact, I even draw a line down the middle of the bed that a partner shouldn't cross during a night's sleep.

Excessive need to cuddle is a sure sign of someone who is clingy. ::)  I can't help it if I'm an Independent Woman.

++This.

I can't even stand sharing a bed with another body. Once the fucking is done he can sleep on the damn floor.

MtD

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #46 on: April 23, 2011, 05:02:12 PM »
++This.

I can't even stand sharing a bed with another body. Once the fucking is done he can sleep on the damn floor.

MtD

I had only one date with a guy once because I told him my bulldog Zita sleeps with me and that he needed to go to the guest room , I wasn't joking either and when he figured that out he got mad and went home .   

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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #47 on: April 23, 2011, 05:25:45 PM »
I had only one date with a guy once because I told him my bulldog Zita sleeps with me and that he needed to go to the guest room , I wasn't joking either and when he figured that out he got mad and went home .  

I used to like to sleep w/ my 2 cats, but my other-half kicks them out of the bedroom every-night, he says,
"I'm not gonna have no fucking cat drag his ass all over my face, walk on me, and wake me up, I'm a very sound sleeper, and don't wake up for nothing, not even RAPE  :D I used to be a homeless drug addict 30 yrs ago, so maybe that's why  :o
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #48 on: April 24, 2011, 06:54:33 AM »
I can't even stand sharing a bed with another body. Once the fucking is done he can sleep on the damn floor.

MtD

Agree 100%.  I hate having anything touch me while snoozing.
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Re: small and hard or big and soft?
« Reply #49 on: April 24, 2011, 10:31:13 AM »
Me too, sometimes I just wanna be held & cuddled,

Aw sweetie, I'll give you a cuddle any time - and a deviant one at that. ;)

Screw these folks who would kick their partner out of bed - they don't know what they're missing. It's not about being needy, it's about pleasure.
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