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Author Topic: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help  (Read 2841 times)

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Hi, I'm a guy who have just sexed with a guy (anal) without the use of a condom I also gave him a blowjob and cummed over me.... I asked him if he ever have an intercourse with a girl, and he answered no he only kissed one.....so am I at the risk of having an HIV or not?


and another thing is....
I gave a handjob to a guy, and cummed at my hand, this guy had an intercourse with three girls(all with protection).... so do I have the risk of having an HIV or not...

please help me ASAP.... I'm so confused and scared.... THANK YOU very much for your  HELP

curious_confused

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #1 on: February 19, 2011, 05:19:39 AM »
Curious,

Unprotected anal sex (insertive or receptive) is most certainly a risk for HIV infection. You need to be tested for HIV and other sexually transmissible infections as well.

HIV testing has a window period of 13 weeks which means that you will need to have the HIV test 13 weeks from the date of your sexual encounter.

It doesn't matter whether your partner has had sex with women or not, you still need to be tested. Kissing is not a risk for HIV transmission nor is giving guys handjobs. It's unprotected anal and vaginal sex that is the problem.

You should see a doctor or visit your local sexual health clinic to arrange the necessary tests.

MtD

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #2 on: February 19, 2011, 05:26:41 AM »
Tnx matty....

Hey our anal sex didn't even last for 3 minutes, the guy didn't also cummed.....but when I gave him a blowjob
(this is another meeting with him) he cummed over me.... I tasted a little bit of his cum but I didn't swallow it?
what can you say about this? THANKS FOR YOUR HELP.

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #3 on: February 19, 2011, 05:29:47 AM »
Tnx matty....

Hey our anal sex didn't even last for 3 minutes, the guy didn't also cummed.....but when I gave him a blowjob
(this is another meeting with him) he cummed over me.... I tasted a little bit of his cum but I didn't swallow it?
what can you say about this? THANKS FOR YOUR HELP.

Curious,

Really, forget about him cumming over you and you getting some in your mouth. That isn't the problem here.

Your problem is the unprotected bum fucking. THAT is a real risk for HIV transmission. It doesn't matter that he didn't blow in you, HIV can be transmitted via unprotected anal sex even if your partner doesn't cum in you.

You have to take this seriously. You need to be tested AND you need to stop letting other guys fuck you in the backside without using condoms.

MtD

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #4 on: February 19, 2011, 05:38:20 AM »
THANKS....

hey...I have one more question....
I am 100 percent sure that the guy who fucked me is an HIV negative, i'm his first sex mate, so how is that?

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« Reply #5 on: February 19, 2011, 05:41:27 AM »
THANKS....

hey...I have one more question....
I am 100 percent sure that the guy who fucked me is an HIV negative, i'm his first sex mate, so how is that?

How can you say for sure that you're his first sexual partner? Because he told you?

When it comes to HIV you should never take somebody else's word for their status, nor should you make assumptions about their sexual history.

In a situation like yours we assume that your sexual partner was HIV positive and recommend testing.

You need to be tested for HIV and other STDs. Whether you do this or not is a matter for you.

MtD

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #6 on: February 19, 2011, 06:03:22 AM »
.... THANK YOU VERY MUCH.....

hey I got questions to clear up my mind:
#1:
Is giving a blowjob to a guy prone to infect me HIV?

#2:
Does tasting and swallowing his cum can infect me with HIV?

#3:
Does giving a handjob infect me with HIV?

THANKS!
I just am just 100 perecent sure that I'm his first sex mate.... he's just young, and I also determined that if he have ever have sex with a girl he should know how it feels, but, while we are having an intercourse he is like a begginer, I myself watch porn and read articles on how to have sex that's why I noticed his reaction and action, and plus we are classmates since elementary so, I know that I'm his first Sex mate.... THANKS :)

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« Reply #7 on: February 19, 2011, 06:09:49 AM »
.... THANK YOU VERY MUCH.....

hey I got questions to clear up my mind:
#1:
Is giving a blowjob to a guy prone to infect me HIV?

#2:
Does tasting and swallowing his cum can infect me with HIV?

#3:
Does giving a handjob infect me with HIV?

THANKS!
I just am just 100 perecent sure that I'm his first sex mate.... he's just young, and I also determined that if he have ever have sex with a girl he should know how it feels, but, while we are having an intercourse he is like a begginer, I myself watch porn and read articles on how to have sex that's why I noticed his reaction and action, and plus we are classmates since elementary so, I know that I'm his first Sex mate.... THANKS :)


I've already answered these questions, but let me sum up for you:

1. No.

2. No.

3. No.

As for the anal, don't say you weren't told.

MtD

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #8 on: February 19, 2011, 06:13:46 AM »
THANKS MATT YOUR A GREAT HELP!

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #9 on: February 19, 2011, 07:27:51 AM »
hey.... can you please give me some scientific explanationa that GIVING a BLOWJOB and a HANDJOB and TASTING AND SWALLOWING CUM is not a way to transmit HIV?

YOU HAVE BEEN A VERY GREAT HELP TO ME :)

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #10 on: February 19, 2011, 08:03:33 AM »
Stop using all capital letters in your entries. Doing that is considered the equivalent to shouting and is rude when writing here. We can get your messages very clearly without your doing that.

The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. If you consistently use condoms for those activities you will be well protected against HIV transmission.

Your saliva contains over a dozen elements and proteins which very effectively prevent the transmission of viable HIV. HIV is a fragile virus. It is not transmitted by handjobs no touching nor ejaculation on the skin.  l   
Andy Velez

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #11 on: February 19, 2011, 08:47:22 PM »
i'm sorry guys
i'm just new here..... thank you very much for your help :)

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #12 on: February 19, 2011, 08:52:13 PM »
You're welcome.
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« Reply #13 on: February 19, 2011, 08:58:19 PM »
hey... i've got a teensy little question about tasting and swallowing his cum....is that dangerous or open to infect HIV because i've read an article that says HIV can be transmitted through semen or other viganal fluid... so what can you say about that....
i'm really sorry about using capital letters, i'm just still new here.... thanks :)

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #14 on: February 19, 2011, 09:39:34 PM »
hey... i've got a teensy little question about tasting and swallowing his cum....is that dangerous or open to infect HIV because i've read an article that says HIV can be transmitted through semen or other viganal fluid... so what can you say about that....
i'm really sorry about using capital letters, i'm just still new here.... thanks :)

Why are you worried about his cum in your mouth. You say your 100% sure you're his first sexual partner. If you're not worried being infected by him fucking you in the arse then I fail to see why you worry about catching HIV from tasting his semen.

In any event your questions have been answered. You were at risk and you need to be tested. Until or unless you do that I do not see what else we can do for you.

MtD

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« Reply #15 on: February 19, 2011, 10:12:37 PM »
thanks a lot.....
so there's nothing to worry about?
YES! i really feel a lot better now...
thanks a lot :)

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Re: need some answers to my questions ASAP!!!! it's bugging me please help
« Reply #16 on: February 20, 2011, 03:24:40 AM »
curious,

You DO need to worry. You have had unprotected anal intercourse. I don't care what you think you know about this man's hiv status, you absolutely CANNOT know his status unless you have tested together with him, after being in a securely monogamous relationship for at least three months before testing.

You need to test at three months following the unprotected anal intercourse. There's nothing more we can tell you.

Ann
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« Reply #17 on: April 01, 2011, 01:40:42 AM »
Hi.....can i ask you my dearly beloved friends about hiv and its symptoms.... where do you usually experience these symptoms...... thank you very much.... ;)

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« Reply #18 on: April 01, 2011, 05:54:09 AM »
curious,

We do NOT discuss symptoms here. The ONLY way to know your hiv status is to test at the appropriate time.

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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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