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Offline rskrsk

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once again hand-job, please answer
« on: November 30, 2010, 12:02:50 PM »
hi friends,

first advance thanks for those replies.

my story:

I went to a massage parlor in Guangzhou, China 7 days before, had a thai massage for 90mins then she gave me hand-job for 7mins, then went back to my hotel room cleaned my penis after 45mins.

points to be considered:

1) I had sore in my penis, which is reddish and skin was little pealed. (Which was there before i went to the parlor.)
2) She used a lubricant for hand-job
3) I don't know the HIV/AIDS status of the lady
4) I don't know whether she had any cut or blood in her hand and fingers. (I guess she might not had one.)
5) Now I feel very tired, body pain and little bit throat pain. And feel very much depressed.

my doubts

1) Did I got infected with HIV/AIDS or STD
2) What are odds of getting infected?
3) If she had a cut or blood in her hands and fingers, is it possible to communicate HIV through my sore penis
4) Is my body pain, tired and throat pain is due to my depress or any thing.
5) Do I need to test for HIV, if so when should I need to do

After going through the forms I found that hand-job is not a source for communicating HIV which makes me feel better, but still I want answers to my questions. Please friends spare some time for answering my questions.

bye
waiting for your reply

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: once again hand-job, please answer
« Reply #1 on: November 30, 2010, 01:43:28 PM »
Getting a hand job is not a risk for HIV infection. Doesn't matter if you copped it in China, Ohio or Tim-buk-fukkin-tu.

You were not at rsik of HIV infection and you don't need to be tested as a result of this rather boring encounter.

Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread to learn about how HIV is and is not transmitted.

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Offline rskrsk

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Re: once again hand-job, please answer
« Reply #2 on: November 30, 2010, 09:37:20 PM »
thanks matty

what about the if she has cut/blood in her hands or fingers, because i had a sore in my penis and which is reddish and skin was pealed a bit, at the time i had hand-job.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: once again hand-job, please answer
« Reply #3 on: November 30, 2010, 09:57:34 PM »
HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions, therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

Offline rskrsk

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Re: once again hand-job, please answer
« Reply #4 on: November 30, 2010, 10:46:16 PM »
Thank you RapidRod,

So you saying that even cut/blood from her hands or fingers contacted my sore, reddish, skin pealed penis wont able to reproduce HIV on my body. Which means i have very little or no chance of getting infected.
And my throat pain and body pain might because of something normal or my anxiety.


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Re: once again hand-job, please answer
« Reply #5 on: November 30, 2010, 11:16:52 PM »
Thank you RapidRod,

So you saying that even cut/blood from her hands or fingers contacted my sore, reddish, skin pealed penis wont able to reproduce HIV on my body. Which means i have very little or no chance of getting infected.
And my throat pain and body pain might because of something normal or my anxiety.



Infection through the route you describe has never been documented. You are not likely to be the first. We cannot quote the odds of a route of transmission that has never once been confirmed.

You do not get HIV from the method described, regardless of the spin you decide to place on it.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Re: once again hand-job, please answer
« Reply #6 on: November 30, 2010, 11:18:23 PM »
rsk,

Did you take a knife and cut this woman's hands up before she jacked you off? Because
 unless you did something as depraved as that, you're worrying over nothing.

When are people going to understand that hiv is NOT transmitted through touch? I don't ooze infectious hiv particle from my skin and neither does any other poz person I know. You men really don't get how insulting some of your questions are, do you. It beggars belief in the 21st century.

Ann
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Offline rskrsk

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Re: once again hand-job, please answer
« Reply #7 on: December 01, 2010, 01:35:51 AM »
Thankyou ann

I am very much releaved. This discussion put me back on track.

 


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