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Author Topic: Met a man but..  (Read 3443 times)

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Offline newt

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Met a man but..
« on: September 04, 2006, 06:03:07 PM »
Met a man I really liked, n he really liked me, we really got on, very well, he even liked my hands, very much, didn't even mind my Vermeer-galzed  atazanavir eyes, but, dumped. Couldn't do it he said, confused, not over his ex (4 yrs). Get some counselling I said. Lonely he said,wanna, so wanna, fall but can't. Tough I said.

Gonna drink some beers.

- matt

Now playing: No Doubt, Don't Speak
« Last Edit: September 04, 2006, 06:09:30 PM by newt »
"The object is to be a well patient, not a good patient"

Offline LatinAlexander

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #1 on: September 04, 2006, 06:09:56 PM »
Ouch Newt!!!!

Dman it...Life is so strange with Love... I cannot say a Lot...I am with some summer-love-in-my-ass that I cannot forget...But, just

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUG}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Alex
Poz since Jul 19 2006
Initial numbers : CD4-250 VL 3500
First labs after HAART (Dec 04-2006) : CD4-432 VL-<40 (Undetectable)  cd4%=25.11%
Started HAART: Combivir+Efavirenz Aug 26 7:38 pm
Feb 08 2007 - Gradually stopping HAART cause of Myalgia. Protecting Efavirenz. Stopped Efavirenz, ahead with Combivir....
February 17 Combivir stopped.
April 3 -07 : Started ddi+3tc+efavirenz...
Gay and positive (What a lack of Identity...:) )
Looking for my Ben....

Offline Life

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #2 on: September 04, 2006, 06:11:33 PM »
I am sorry Matt... ???  Your a bright boy..  Have your pick...

Offline Jena

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #3 on: September 04, 2006, 06:24:24 PM »
I'm sorry Matt.. sometimes it sucks doesn't it?  You deserve  way better than someone on the rebound honey.  He's out there looking for you... Hang in there
Hugs
Jena

Offline Cliff

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #4 on: September 04, 2006, 06:31:35 PM »
Hang in there Matt!  Time may not heal, but it does passes. In 6.5 hours the sun will rise over Brighton/Hove again, and you never know what the tide may bring in.

Chin up mister!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #5 on: September 04, 2006, 06:48:44 PM »
Newt, he ain't for you. Even though it seemed otherwise. Ouch is right.

But there is one who's gonna be yours. Keep on truckin', no kidding.

And in the meantime I refer to that song, "There ain't no sweet man who's worth the salt of my tears...."

Cheers, buddy,
Andy Velez

Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #6 on: September 04, 2006, 07:18:25 PM »
his loss! (you're my hero!)

Offline pozguy75

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #7 on: September 04, 2006, 07:43:42 PM »
Baby, I am sorry...love sucks! Well you have one guy here in North Carolina that would take you for who you are!!

I will drink a beer with you!!
Dx 2005
ATRIPLA

Offline J.R.E.

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #8 on: September 04, 2006, 07:49:42 PM »
Hello Matt,

I am sorry to hear that things didn't work out. I guess it best to find out sooner then later. Like Jena says you desearve better then someone on the rebound. Better days ahead !!!


Take care of yourself------Ray
Current Meds ; Viramune, Epzicom, 40mg of simvastatin, 12.5mg of Hydrochlorothiazide.
Metoprolol tartrate 25mg



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 In October of 2003, My t-cell count was 16, Viral load was over 500,000, Percentage at that time was 5%. I started my first  HAART regimen  on October 24th,03.

 As of 8/2514,  t-cells are at 402, Viral load <40

 Current % is at 11%

  
 62 years young.

Offline lydgate

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #9 on: September 04, 2006, 09:31:59 PM »
He's a fool.

The next couple of pints are on me (put it on my tab).  :-*
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

George Eliot, Middlemarch, final paragraph

Offline ndrew

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #10 on: September 04, 2006, 10:44:46 PM »
hi Matt,

i hear your pain, this happened to me a few weeks ago, it really kicked me, but fuck it... 
since the "crash" i drive the little red love machine with a bit more caution... but i am determined behind the wheel.

drew

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #11 on: September 04, 2006, 11:29:50 PM »
Boys are stupid.

MtD
(Who knows)

Offline anniebc

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #12 on: September 04, 2006, 11:38:59 PM »
Keep your head up, don't let this drag you down...those who deserve love will find it..and you Newt deserve the best..some lucky guy is just waiting for you to come into his life.

{{{{{hugs}}}}}}
Jan :-*
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Offline Sky

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #13 on: September 04, 2006, 11:49:23 PM »
Aww Matt, I'm so sorry to hear that.  You're an amazing guy, like MtD said, boiz are dumb.

Charlie
Poz since 2003.

Offline zephyr

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #14 on: September 04, 2006, 11:53:45 PM »
Hi Matt...

I was hopeful for you, honey.

Just means he wasn't the One.

<<<HUGS>>>

Zephie :-*
"It is character that communicates most eloquently."

Offline gaysaywhat

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #15 on: September 05, 2006, 12:39:40 AM »
i would date u in a sec. ;)

Offline newt

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #16 on: September 05, 2006, 08:01:06 AM »
Thanks all, kind words for a minor ouch! Mtd: yep, boys are stupid. Cliff: you a man of great grace.

I wrote a sonnet though  :)

...

- matt
« Last Edit: February 16, 2007, 06:41:25 AM by newt »
"The object is to be a well patient, not a good patient"

Offline Jerry71

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #17 on: September 05, 2006, 11:06:23 AM »
Hey Matt Im going to go and see a guy today who is also HIV+. We have talked through emails since I came back from Montreal. He is 32 and Im 35. This will be my first date since 2004. Kind of nervous getting to finally meet him. So I get the decession on where we are going today and all. Wish me luck I will need it.

Offline newt

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #18 on: September 05, 2006, 11:46:40 AM »
Good luck Jerry :)

- matt
"The object is to be a well patient, not a good patient"

Offline cmhjeff

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #19 on: September 05, 2006, 03:57:50 PM »
Newt - That totally sucks! He'll be kicking himself in the ass here soon if he isn't already. Next!

Offline ndrew

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #20 on: September 05, 2006, 05:30:48 PM »
oh a sonnet, speak with tongues of angels!

Online Matty the Damned

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #21 on: September 05, 2006, 05:51:42 PM »
Sonnets! They gayest of all poetic forms. :)

MtD

Offline Blixer

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #22 on: September 05, 2006, 08:51:50 PM »
Matt, sorry about your experience.  Far too many gay guys are unavailable for whatever reasons.  You have responded very graciously but I know it has to at least be a minor barb in your life.  I agree that boys can be stupid.  I know I've appreciated the support you have given me on here and hence I know this guy has missed out on someone special.  And I echo what Jenna says... you deserve better....   all around... you deserve better.
David
Diagnosed 1/9/06
8/27/2007 CD4 598, 29%, VL 58 (72 wks)
11/19/2007 CD4 609, 30%, VL < 50 (84 wks)
2/11/2008 CD4 439, 27%, VL <50 (96 wks)
5/5/2008 CD4 535, 28%, VL <50 (108 wks)
10/20/2008 CD4 680, 28%, VL <50 (132 wks)
Changed to Atripla in 2012
1/14/2013 CD4 855, 35%, VL <40

Offline Robert

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #23 on: September 06, 2006, 12:02:02 AM »
Quote
Sonnets! They gayest of all poetic forms.

MtD

Will would certainly agree with you on that.

Matt, that boy just doesn't know any better.

robert
..........

Offline Eldon

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Re: Met a man but..
« Reply #24 on: September 06, 2006, 01:31:26 AM »
Hey Matt,

Let me share something with you...The BEST is yet to come for you. Enjoy your Beers.



Have the BEST Day!

 


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