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Author Topic: KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........  (Read 1886 times)

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Offline Theyer

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KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........
« on: October 26, 2010, 03:50:24 PM »
I am away to Orkney on Thursday . With my mother so ill I have reduced the trip to 3 weeks. This involved a conscious working out off her dying and time it would likely take to arrange the funeral. We have been summoned to her death bed 3 times since May.  I spent last week with her, the first day left me convinced this was the beginning off her end, on Sunday we shared chocolate eclairs and she ran me ragged tidying the personal and medical objets around her bed.

All has been said between us. what I have not told her is how this time is so similar to my late partners dying, how I have entered that space that allows you too stay with heart breaking words but unable to decide between a latte or a mocha.

I am delighted I have no more hospital visits for 4 weeks. All the tests done. The low blood pressure, sweating and periods off nauseous illness now a normal part off the week. When my ID doc reviews all the tests hopefully there will be something to lessen these symptoms off autonomic neuropthy, maybe not.

The dental ops have healed well, hopefully stopping the infections off a crumbling jaw.

All my health problems at the moment are the result off the chemo I am alive but damaged.

So I bid you farewell for 3 or 4 weeks, as I cannot afford 2 internet bills.

Look after your selves my friends in LTS land , I am away to the frozen north to make pictures.

love mhtv

"If we can find the money to kill people, we can find the money to help people ."  Tony Benn

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Re: KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........
« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2010, 07:17:40 PM »
Mhtv, I'll be keeping you and your mum in my thoughts.  Sorry you're going through all these medical problems yourself, but I realize the importance of being with your mother.  Please take care of yourself, and I really hope you have a live person you can talk to about everything going on. :-*
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

Offline sharkdiver

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Re: KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........
« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2010, 07:23:27 PM »
Will be thinking of you.

   I am inspired by your art as well.
 Peace,
Sharkie

Offline bear60

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Re: KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........
« Reply #3 on: October 27, 2010, 02:02:50 PM »
Good luck. I hope all goes well.
Poz Bear Type in Philadelphia

Offline AlanBama

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Re: KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........
« Reply #4 on: November 01, 2010, 11:46:04 AM »
Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers....

Wishing a peaceful transition for your Mom, is this is her time to go.

Hugs, Alan
"Remember my sentimental friend that a heart is not judged by how much you love, but by how much you are loved by others." - The Wizard of Oz

Offline aztecan

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Re: KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........
« Reply #5 on: November 01, 2010, 02:35:47 PM »
Hey Theyer,

I hope you are doing well and I will keep your mom in my thoughts.

BIG HUGS,

Mark
"May your life preach more loudly than your lips."
~ William Ellery Channing (Unitarian Minister)

Offline Theyer

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Re: KEEP ON KEEPING ON part 1,2 3.........
« Reply #6 on: November 03, 2010, 12:57:58 PM »
Have discovered my internet plan gives wi-fi and shock off shocks Orkney has it.

Enjoyed the two days off train and boat to get here, extra special when it is not tourest time.

Returning on 16 nov instead off 9 dec I do not want to stay away from family at the moment.

Many thanks for the posts take care one and all

theyer
"If we can find the money to kill people, we can find the money to help people ."  Tony Benn

 


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