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Offline romieo

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i'am i concerned?
« on: October 07, 2010, 04:48:04 PM »
hi
first of all,this is a very helpful website,thanks a lot
I'm a 29 years old married man
2 days ago i had oral sex with an escort (gay), we kissed,masturbate,
he cum first,some of his cum enter in contact with the head of my penis,then with his wet hand with cum,he touched my lips,no anal,no BJ
I'm very worry,i did not sex with my wife,since this accident!
may i stop sex with my wife?
may i get tested?
please give me a clear answer even with yes,i don't want to infect my wife!
thanks in advance!

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #1 on: October 07, 2010, 05:03:08 PM »
romieo,

You did not have a risk for hiv infection. Hiv is not transmitted outside the human body. Mutual masturbation is not a risk and it doesn't matter if he got cum on your penis.

You can have sex with your wife and you do not need to test.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline romieo

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #2 on: October 07, 2010, 05:18:29 PM »
thanks Ann
may be you misunderstand me(sorry English is not my native speech)
his cum was on the head of my penis (not mine on his penis)
and he touched his cum then he touched my lips !!!!
they told me that the head of penis and the mouth is a mu-queses and infection is very possible
thanks again

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #3 on: October 07, 2010, 05:21:57 PM »
Just as Ann said, you are worrying needlessly. HIV is a fragile virus. It is not transmitted through the kind of contacts you are concerned about. Having semen on the head of your penis is very different than if you had your penis inside a vagina or an anus, both of which are very risky.

Your own saliva has over a dozen enzymes and proteins which are a very effective barrier against the transmission of HIV.
Andy Velez

Offline romieo

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #4 on: October 07, 2010, 05:29:00 PM »
thanks a lot andy
soory to re ask again to be sure
can i have sex with my wife without anyfear to infect here ?
thank you so much in advance

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #5 on: October 07, 2010, 05:29:50 PM »
Yes. HIV is not a problem for you based on what you have reported.
Andy Velez

Offline romieo

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #6 on: October 07, 2010, 05:33:52 PM »
i'm very happy to hear that andy
you saved my life!
thank you

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #7 on: October 07, 2010, 05:44:47 PM »
You're welcome.

You may not be planning to have intercourse outside of your marriage, but just in case you do, just make sure that you always use a condom for intercourse. They you will be well protected against HIV.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

Offline romieo

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #8 on: October 07, 2010, 06:05:38 PM »
no andy
i'm not planning to have sex out of my wife's bad ,and i did not do since our mariage,it was my first time
that's why i insisted to know if i can have sex with my wife or no!

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #9 on: October 07, 2010, 06:13:09 PM »
ok.

Enjoy.
Andy Velez

Offline romieo

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #10 on: October 08, 2010, 01:49:02 PM »
re hi
pls can you tell me wich std are possible via oral sex? in my case for example ?(kissing,sperm on my head's penis and i'm cut)

thanks a lot ( i feel great today,i did sex with my wife  ;D ;D ;D thanks for your help)

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #11 on: October 08, 2010, 03:58:16 PM »
We focus specifically on HIV on this site.

For other STDs you should talk with your doctor or you can check out the CDC for some information: http://www.cdc.gov/STD/
Andy Velez

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #12 on: October 09, 2010, 09:48:23 PM »
re hi
 is it possible to donate the website ?
if yes !how can we do it ?
thank you again !

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #13 on: October 10, 2010, 12:37:48 AM »
Romieo,

You can donate by sending a check made out to AIDSmeds.com to

AIDSmeds.com,
462 Seventh Avenue, 19th Floor,
New York, NY 10018.

Thank you!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: i'am i concerned?
« Reply #14 on: November 18, 2010, 06:07:51 PM »
dear andy,dear ann
today and 6 weeks after this accident i did hiv test(elfa)
it comes negative i've just wanted to share this with you
thanks a lot

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« Reply #15 on: November 19, 2010, 06:23:29 AM »
Romieo,

Well, no big surprise there. You didn't have a risk, so why would you test anything other than negative? You do not need further testing. You do NOT have hiv.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  



"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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