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Offline bagera

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insertive fellatio with nigerian woman
« on: October 07, 2010, 03:09:37 PM »
hello

i am writting you becoz i am away from home i am in nigeria and u know how hard is for me to get a medical advice in this countries, so i will be more than thankful for your help, my stori is that i met a nigerian girl in a pub from 2 days ago i invited her home, so to get to the point we had protected viginal intercourse for 2 minutes and tham i decided to have a blow job to minimize the risk of aquiring any diseases, so i removed the condom thinking that there is no risk or even fear of getting hiv from have unprotected insertive orAL SEX, she suck my penis unprotected for 3 min max, and i masturbate myself on her. sorry for the image i am giving but i want to explain everything. once i finished i cleaned my penis with wet wipes for babes, there was no blood on my penis from her mouth not sores on her lips. no cuts or sores on my dick,i need ur advice plz tell me should i do an hiv test?? am i in need of it?? do i need to worry about my hiv status.
hope to hear from you soon
all the best for you

Offline Ann

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Re: insertive fellatio with nigerian woman
« Reply #1 on: October 07, 2010, 03:27:59 PM »
bagera,

It doesn't matter where the woman is from, it only matters what you did or had done to you. And nothing you did or had done to you put you at risk for hiv infection.

You did the right thing and used a condom for vaginal intercourse. Condoms have been proven to prevent hiv infection.

Getting a blowjob, with or without a condom, is not a risk for hiv infection. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect. Not one person has ever been infected through getting a blowjob and you won't be the first.

Here's what you need to know in order to remain hiv negative:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER WHAT YOU HAVE BROUGHT TO US, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Offline bagera

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Re: insertive fellatio with nigerian woman
« Reply #2 on: October 07, 2010, 03:50:58 PM »
thank you  for your reply, and thank you for reassuring me about my incident.

if i may ask one more question.
i understand from you that there is no need to test for my incident but i want to know why other forum keep saying that there is might be a small riskfor infection for example i was postng in an other forum like the body forum there is one doctor his name is dr.bob he is a professional docotr specialized for hiv he says that is better to take caution becoz ther might be infection from insertive fellatio and i shoould take a test at 3 month mark to be sure that there is no problem

plz can u help me find out why he is saying that??? and you are telling me from ur professionel view that u can't contract hiv from insertive fellatio but he is saying that there is possibility but it is very low and it is better to test

thank you again

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Re: insertive fellatio with nigerian woman
« Reply #3 on: October 07, 2010, 04:40:28 PM »
We're not responsible for what other forums or sources say about HIV. And theoretically sex with anything than your own hand is potentially risky.

But having said that, I can tell you categorically that no guy has ever been confirmed to have been infected through having received oral. Not one and it's one of the most common of sexual acts.

You aren't going to make history by becoming the first to become infected in that manner. You are worrying needlessly, no matter what details you throw into the mix in the mistaken belief that your situation is different.
Andy Velez

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Re: insertive fellatio with nigerian woman
« Reply #4 on: October 07, 2010, 04:41:31 PM »
bagera,

If you want to know why Dr Bob says the things he says, you'll have to ask him. I have no idea why he continues to scaremonger where getting a blowjob is concerned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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