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Offline cindy

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Would love to have children
« on: October 02, 2010, 09:30:15 AM »
As I was recently diagonised, my hopes for having children were dashed and have been trying the dating scene with no success.  Is there any good looking, intelligent heterosexual man in the same situation who would love to also have a kid or kids? Please get back to me and we could start from somewhere x

Offline Realist

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #1 on: October 03, 2010, 04:25:48 AM »
Cindy,

Welcome to the forums, have you tried Poz personals?

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Offline eric48

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #2 on: October 03, 2010, 08:02:41 PM »
Kids are great ! They are really worth it, and, funny enough, rich or poor, educated or not , + or not, we all have equal opportunity to become good parents (or bad...).

Parenting (and ability to succeed as a parent) is very evenly spread amoung human beings. Thousands of years of evolution have taken care of this.

Being + should not be a barrier to bear healthy children (although it appears to be a bit 'technical' and less 'romantic'). Mating could prove more challenging,

It amazes me every day under the the sun that the most unfit (for heterosexual mating + parenting) person I know (me...) was chosen by the most unexpected person (the girl is the one who makes that choice...) on earth to that effect. If "I' could do it, then, any one else can !!! 

(please take the following with a sense of humour) : as well as Mother nature has programmed you to become a mother she has programmed someone (usually a man, but there are exceptions, I hear) to help you make this happen. Trust mother nature, it is a very well oiled engine.

Cheers  !!!!! Eric

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #3 on: October 03, 2010, 08:13:22 PM »
good looking, intelligent heterosexual man

Sorry, I missed that part... So you are looking for a man that would be at the same time good looking + intelligent + heterosexual + man ... Well, then I should not have shared my personnal experience, then... You're asking for a lot!

If you had been looking for a mediocer looking, stupid, gay (and only technically a man), well, then, maybe...

Cheers again! Eric


Offline Fondoo

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #4 on: October 03, 2010, 10:11:34 PM »
Hi Cindy,
   I'm Tracy,I hope we can talk. There are nice guys out there know because I'm one of them :) I also make beautiful babies and have pictures to prove it. My daughter is 5 and very healthy my X is also positive but we pulled it off just fine.
 Namaste


P.S. Eric your a funny dude
« Last Edit: October 03, 2010, 10:14:18 PM by Fondoo »

Offline sanitex

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #5 on: October 03, 2010, 10:59:34 PM »




hello Cindy i'm free and worth upto what you want you can pm me then we can chat.
then your age matters
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Offline Dachshund

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #6 on: October 04, 2010, 07:08:36 AM »



hello Cindy i'm free and worth upto what you want you can pm me then we can chat.
then your age matters

Your wife cool with this?

Offline emeraldize

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #7 on: October 04, 2010, 07:31:30 AM »



hello Cindy i'm free and worth upto what you want you can pm me then we can chat.
then your age matters

You're in Thailand, right?  Maybe you and Tracy can meet while he's there vacationing. You can decide who is best suited to handle a long distance relationship with Cindy!! And, as Dachshund pointed out you can bring your 'partner' to the party as I'm sure she'd like to weigh in on the logistical aspects of a threesome.
« Last Edit: October 04, 2010, 07:36:07 AM by emeraldize »

Offline sharkdiver

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #8 on: October 08, 2010, 07:54:03 PM »
I think there should be more littlle Sharkies around

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #9 on: October 08, 2010, 11:09:41 PM »




    I have German blood in me!!  And some Irish as well, which you can ignore!  The babies I make weigh between 7.5 lbs to 10 lbs..  And I have strong enough blood to make a black woman have a white baby.

   If you're interested please contact my secretary who is also my wife.
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #10 on: October 08, 2010, 11:15:50 PM »



    I have German blood in me!!  And some Irish as well, which you can ignore!  The babies I make weigh between 7.5 lbs to 10 lbs..  And I have strong enough blood to make a black woman have a white baby.

   If you're interested please contact my secretary who is also my wife.

Don't waste your time on skeebo ... my turkey baster is twice as long and thick .

Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #11 on: October 08, 2010, 11:19:35 PM »
... my turkey baster is twice as long and thick .
would you happen to have an extra one I could borrow?
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12/09  540    30    60   
12/10  740    41  <48   
8/11    667    36  <20  
03/12  1,041  42  <20
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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #12 on: October 08, 2010, 11:21:20 PM »
would you happen to have an extra one I could borrow?

I sure do buddy , come on and get it .

Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #13 on: October 08, 2010, 11:22:54 PM »
I sure do buddy , come on and get it .
wait... that doesn't look like a turkey baster!  Hey, that's a...
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Labs:
Date    CD4    %   VL     Date  CD4  %   VL
10/08  636    35  510   9/09 473  38 2900  12/4/09 Atripla
12/09  540    30    60   
12/10  740    41  <48   
8/11    667    36  <20  
03/12  1,041  42  <20
05/12  1,241  47  <20
08/12   780    37  <20
11/12   549    35  <20
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Offline wtfimpoz

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #14 on: October 08, 2010, 11:50:28 PM »
Has anyone thought of creating a "straight with HIV" forum?  It seems like a lot of the straight people on here face some unique challenges and could benefit from their own forum. 
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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #15 on: October 08, 2010, 11:52:24 PM »
Has anyone thought of creating a "straight with HIV" forum?  It seems like a lot of the straight people on here face some unique challenges and could benefit from their own forum. 

Yeah, it's been suggested a couple of times and rejected.

On the basis that there's no "gay with HIV" forum.

So, y'know, go figger.

MtD

Offline emeraldize

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #16 on: October 09, 2010, 12:12:28 AM »
And some Irish as well, which you can ignore!

Watch it O'Skeebo -- it's the potato people done gave you the bleaching blood.

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: Would love to have children
« Reply #17 on: October 09, 2010, 02:59:26 PM »
Has anyone thought of creating a "straight with HIV" forum?  It seems like a lot of the straight people on here face some unique challenges and could benefit from their own forum. 

With a sticky thread at the top telling us guys what row to find tampons in during those late night emergency trips to the grocery store.

Or

Some advice when to just shut up and listen.

And there you have it, a straight forum with two sticky threads and locked for perusal. 
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

 


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