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Offline clapton

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lip biting
« on: July 26, 2010, 03:20:45 PM »
Hi to all, ill try to explain my situation. About 6 weeks ago i had protected sex with an woman of unknown status, when we finished i noticed in my groin 2 blood stains(menstrual blood) what worries me is that before putting the condom on during foreplay my penis may have touched her vagina for a sec or two. Also 1 week earlier i gave her oral for about 30 sec but i see in here that oral sex is considered almost no risk. 3-4 days later i had 1 cold sore, blocked nose and sneezing  , 1 week later i had night sweets,chills and fever, after 3 weeks i had oral ulcers and after 5 weeks sore throat and coughing and muscle aches. i must say that they did not come all at the same time and have been on and off. the only symptoms that have been constant are blocked nose and sneezing. 22 days after possible expossure i had a finger prick test which came back negative. I know i have to go for 3 month test but wanted to know your opininion as i am too scared to go testing again. thanks

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Re: risk assesment please
« Reply #1 on: July 26, 2010, 03:47:23 PM »
If you decide to get tested at 3 months it is strictly for your peace of mind since nothing of the activities you are reporting put you at risk. The ONLY confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse.

Everything else you are worrying about is not a risk. Period.

Your symptoms, if they continue, are something to discuss with your doctor. They are not in anyway HIV specific, which is not surprising since you didn't have a risk.

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Offline clapton

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Re: risk assesment please
« Reply #2 on: August 09, 2010, 03:11:16 PM »
Hi, i had a rapid blood test today 8 weeks after possible exposure and it was negative. Andy as usual you were right. I think i should take it as conclusive,what do you guys think?Thanks for your support,you are doing a great job in educating people about hiv risk

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: risk assesment please
« Reply #3 on: August 09, 2010, 04:43:26 PM »
Since you were never at risk I don't see any need for further testing. Get on with your life.

Andy Velez

Offline clapton

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lip biting
« Reply #4 on: September 27, 2010, 02:35:37 PM »
Hi there. i did not think i would be back so soon in this forum. Yesterday i was with an woman. We only kissed but during kissing she bite my lip and tongue. After i noticed a bruise in the place she bit me. Should i be worried or infection doesn"t happen that way???

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Re: lip biting
« Reply #5 on: September 27, 2010, 02:52:36 PM »
I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.

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Kissing is not a risk for hiv infection, regardless of any biting. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

Here's what you need to know in order to remain hiv negative:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER ANYTHING YOU HAVE BROUGHT TO THE FORUM, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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