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Offline pleasehelpexperts

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possible infection?
« on: May 01, 2015, 04:01:05 PM »
1)cervical vaginal fluid coming incontact with penis head inside condom can transmit infection?

2)how long does the virus stay active for infection outside the host?

3)fingering the vaginal fluid and putting the condom with the fluid in hand carry any risk?

i am male 25...i recently had a protected sex with the csw ..i was very carefull to have safer sex...before we had  sex i was fingering her at one stage and then i put on the condom with fluid in hand(the dumbo mistake for which worrying me) ..my concern is that when i put on the condom the vaginal secretion got inside condom(AS i touched the inside of it at the top)......i am worried that during sex i contracted hiv(from the hiv secretion inside the condom and getting into my urethra or sores because i had a slight sore on my penis head foreskin)
aftet these exposure m having a symptoms like muscles aches  .a slight lymphnode under my jaw it doesnt pain....a much mucus on throat .pimples like rash on face..Are these indicating i am infected?please assess my symptoms and risk as above my scenerio .....
i 'v posted the same queztion in medhelp and the poster vance told me no risk and told me that the fluid exposed to air is non infectious and it dies  but i think i didnt exposed to air for long just three seconds which keeps me worrying..please tell me frankly if i am at risk because im getng married on next month and i feel very hopeless and useless now.i dont want to tell my fiance .please help

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Re: possible infection?
« Reply #1 on: May 01, 2015, 04:08:46 PM »
You have not had a risk.  The intercourse was protected and an intact condom means no risk.  The fluid a woman makes when excited, comes from glands near the opening of the vagina and is NOT infectious.  Also, HIV is a very fragile virus.  Its outer surface becomes damaged, immediately when leaving the host; where changes in temperature, pH and moisture levels, alter the HIV outer surface, rendering it unable to infect.

Symptoms can be caused by many things and the only way to know your status is to test.  You have not had a risk and you do not need to test over this incident.


Offline pleasehelpexperts

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Re: possible infection?
« Reply #2 on: May 01, 2015, 05:22:48 PM »
Yes the condom was intact...but I think the secretion on my hand was cervical fluid because i think i fingered her deep inside her...
some doctors say there is a possible chance for  transmission..so why did they say so?because after that I started my symptoms

AND the condimated fluid inside the condom was exposed to air for Few seconds only ...so virus inside the condom are not exposed to air and itz intact inside with condom won't put me at risk beside I had a small friction sores on my penis..
BTW does leg burning sensation is related to hiv?

am not going against your advice but just too clearify my dooubts

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Re: possible infection?
« Reply #3 on: May 01, 2015, 06:36:56 PM »
Yah, yah, yah. You are listening only to self-created fears. The truth is you did not do anything that put you at risk. There's no science-based cause for concern.

But it out and get on with your life. Really. 
Andy Velez

Offline pleasehelpexperts

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Re: possible infection?
« Reply #4 on: May 02, 2015, 02:43:19 AM »
sir ,the reason i am so much consern is that had a slight cut on my penis dat is the inside of penis head cover due to my jerking friction..and m getting married
because, now i am very scared that the fluid might have infected me because i think i have a swell lymph node under my jaw like seed when i touched them ..
sir please answer this for a peace of mind
1)is  leg burning sensation related to hiv?

Offline Joe K

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Re: possible infection?
« Reply #5 on: May 02, 2015, 03:34:20 AM »
You have not had a risk and it is safe to move on.



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