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Author Topic: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus  (Read 9155 times)

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Offline wellington

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My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« on: June 29, 2010, 11:29:50 AM »
Every Friday, I hear that damned Baitbus branding music coming from a certain room in the house because my partner can't wait to see the latest "victim" on the bus. Anyone else on this ride ... to make the world more gay, one 'straight' guy at a time? www.baitbus.com [Link may not be suitable for all viewers  ::)]

Last Friday I gave him a little extra by changing the ringtone on his phone to the Baitbus sound whenever I call.  ;D
« Last Edit: June 29, 2010, 05:33:54 PM by wellington »

Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #1 on: June 29, 2010, 11:45:05 AM »
Might want to throw a NSFW sticker on that link, bud.

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #2 on: June 29, 2010, 11:50:12 AM »
Half of those "straight" guys are probably the hugest Mary-bottoms down at the gay club, baitbus just brands them that way to sucker in homos like your partner.  Perhaps you should ask your partner why he's so infatuated with straight men.
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Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #3 on: June 29, 2010, 12:00:04 PM »
Let's get into a van that happens to be driving by with a cute girl and a couple of effeminate homosexuals holding a video camera and a blindfold. What could possibly go wrong.

Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #4 on: June 29, 2010, 12:05:12 PM »
That meth habit isn't cheap, you know Ford.
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Offline skeebo1969

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #5 on: June 29, 2010, 12:14:50 PM »



   There must be another Baitbus.  This is different than the one I remember back in my dial-up days.  I think it originally started out with two guys picking up women they referred to as MILF's with promises of cash for video taping sex.  After they were done, they would slip the woman $5 as she left the van causing her to scream profanities as they sped off with  her in foot pursuit.

   I guess it got old, so they came up with a new idea.
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Offline mecch

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #6 on: June 29, 2010, 12:20:24 PM »
I did personal research and surveyed my friends  ::)  and we believe there is no such thing as addiction to a specific brand or genre of porn.  The effect wears off sooner or later and you gotta switch to a new brand.  You won't be stuck with Baitbus for too long!

Oh yeah, I agree --- if the addiction really sticks - that means its time to ask questions about the specific fetishes / fantasies being acted out.

Baitbus - have your pick:

coercing for sex for money, but then not paying

getting a straight guy to go gay for pay

doing a straight guy but not being identified (self protection? fear of outing?  fear of reprisal? victimization of the straight?)  somehow related to HS fantasies?

sex with lowrent types?

sex with rough trade types?

sex in cars?

exhibitionism in front of women?

exhibitionism in public?

or - maybe the bf is imagining being the "straight" one - so the fantasy is
      being straight?
      being straight and going gay for pay?
      being straight and ENJOYING homo sex?

or - since we know its all fake, maybe the fantasy is:
     roleplaying different identities?
     believing lies your sex partners tell you?
     telling lies to your sex partners?




"The guys are just hot" --- hmm  ???


      
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Offline Florida69

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #7 on: June 29, 2010, 04:09:21 PM »
I have to admit that I love watching the trailers for the bait bus, but would never actually pay them money..  I think it is so funny, but I have seen a few of those guys that they pick up in some trashy porn, so trust that they are not gay..  It is all about getting people to pay to see them.  Have a great day. D
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Offline wellington

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #8 on: June 29, 2010, 05:33:20 PM »
LOL, mecch. I guess I'm spending too much time reading journal articles and getting through school that I hadn't thought to analyze his behaviour in quite that way. Time to sauce things up for dinner, I guess :]

Offline mecch

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #9 on: June 29, 2010, 06:01:47 PM »
Sometimes a cigar IS just a cigar, however.
ďFrom each, according to his ability; to each, according to his needĒ 1875 K Marx

Offline wellington

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #10 on: June 29, 2010, 09:53:09 PM »
Whatever would we do without a little Freud to fall back upon ... all metaphors and second readings aside ;)

PS. Dinner was good!

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #11 on: June 29, 2010, 09:58:37 PM »
Baitbus is so 2008.

I prefer http://brokestraightguys.com/, now that's something I can sink my teeth into.

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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #12 on: June 29, 2010, 10:11:14 PM »
Baitbus is so 2008.

I prefer http://brokestraightguys.com/, now that's something I can sink my teeth into.

-Will

Barbara please
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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #13 on: June 29, 2010, 10:11:26 PM »
Whatever would we do without a little Freud to fall back upon ... all metaphors and second readings aside ;)

PS. Dinner was good!

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MtD

Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #14 on: June 29, 2010, 10:21:50 PM »
What does MILF stand for anyway?? ???
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Offline Miss Philicia

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #15 on: June 29, 2010, 10:27:11 PM »
What does MILF stand for anyway?? ???

Mothers I'd Like to Fuck.  Learn to use urbandictiorary.com -- did you just get internet service last year, dearie?
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Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #16 on: June 29, 2010, 10:30:45 PM »
LOL -
Actually I forgot about urban dictionary, but I was sure that my well rounded family here on AMF would be able to educate me
I was actually hoping it would be you Ms. P, because I also knew that your response would further endear you to my heart  ;D
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12/10  740    41  <48   
8/11    667    36  <20  
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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #17 on: June 30, 2010, 07:06:44 AM »


   There must be another Baitbus.  This is different than the one I remember back in my dial-up days.  I think it originally started out with two guys picking up women they referred to as MILF's with promises of cash for video taping sex.  After they were done, they would slip the woman $5 as she left the van causing her to scream profanities as they sped off with  her in foot pursuit.

   I guess it got old, so they came up with a new idea.

That's the Bangbus. 
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Offline mecch

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #18 on: June 30, 2010, 07:28:49 AM »
Regret from my youth - never got banged on a rock band's tour bus.

Now I think I'd rather in Dolly Parton's bus, with a nice middle aged fella like me.
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Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #19 on: June 30, 2010, 09:11:32 AM »

Now I think I'd rather in Dolly Parton's bus, with a nice middle aged fella like me.

In the words of another famous drag queen: don't dream it, be it.

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #20 on: June 30, 2010, 10:08:34 AM »
I caught an episode of baitbus once and recognized the straight guy as a model on 'Amateur Straight Guys' here in Phoenix.  He was billed there as being bi. A lot of these guys make the circuit of amateur gay sights on the web. 

I guess I do way to much surfing.
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Offline skeebo1969

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Re: My Partner is Addicted to the Baitbus
« Reply #21 on: June 30, 2010, 02:09:39 PM »
That's the Bangbus. 

Damn I can't remember crap these days.  You're absolutely right it was called Bangbus... well I got half the name right, that's gotta count for something.
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