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Offline dragonp

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Concerned about incident
« on: March 17, 2010, 02:15:11 PM »
I have a quick question.  I am not sure if I am stressing about the incident and risk or because of the event or my feeling bad about doing it.  I had receptive anal sex.  We used a condom and he did not ejaculate while in me.  Afterward I took the condom and filled it with water to see if there were any leaks.  THere were none I find.  There was also oral sex but that was with a condom too.  Is there anything for me to worry about?  Was this a risk?  What do you think.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Concerned about incident
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2010, 02:21:24 PM »
You had protected sex and didn't have an exposure.

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Re: Concerned about incident
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2010, 02:21:34 PM »
Even if he had ejaculated during anal sex you would have been ok because condoms provide very effective protection.

Nothing you did put you at risk for HIV transmission. Keep using a condom everytime whether insertive or receptive and you will be ok as far as HIV is concerned.

Andy Velez

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Re: Concerned about incident
« Reply #3 on: June 14, 2010, 10:44:31 AM »
Hi I have another concern I hope that you can help me with.  I participated in oral sex and mutual masturbation.  I had a cut on my finger that I thought was healed, but as we were rubbing, etc, it started to sting.  i am assuming from salt from sweat, it was hot, but I hope you can give me your thoughts.  Since it was stinging and I may have come into contact with his semen on that area, do I need to be concerned?  The oral was protected, just an fyi. 

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Re: Concerned about incident
« Reply #4 on: June 14, 2010, 10:48:05 AM »

Getting cum into a cut on your finger is not a risk for hiv infection. Successful hiv infection occurs INSIDE the human body as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the human body.

You did not have a risk.

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Offline dragonp

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Re: Concerned about incident
« Reply #5 on: June 14, 2010, 11:51:32 AM »
Thank you so much for taking the time to respond.  I am trying my best to be safe and take care of myself, who would think that sex can be so stressful. 


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