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Author Topic: Is a test necessaray?  (Read 1768 times)

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Offline harold

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Is a test necessaray?
« on: April 25, 2010, 03:32:48 PM »
Hello all,
I have been very worried since a few days because I am marriying soon with my girlfriend.I have had a lot of sex with sex workers and another risky personals.I have had lots of partners and penetrations anal and vaginal with them. Most of them were risky personals.I always use condom during vaginal and anal sex.But I have never used any condom during cunnilingus,oral and french kisses.Do I have a risk.Any test needed?Thanks for your helps.

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Is a test necessaray?
« Reply #1 on: April 25, 2010, 04:18:33 PM »
HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal and vaginal sex, sharing contaminated injecting equipment such as needles and syringes and in some cases from HIV positive mother to her unborn child.

HIV is not transmitted through getting a blowjob, cunnilingus or french kissing. So strictly speaking HIV testing is not really necessary in your case.

That said, it's always wise to start married life knowing what's going on and having a full STD check would be the wise thing to do. A full check would include an HIV antibody test.

If you do decide to get tested you should expect to test HIV negative.


Offline harold

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Re: Is a test necessaray?
« Reply #2 on: April 26, 2010, 05:50:31 AM »
I have just come from lab.A test named Hıv-1 hıv-2 antibody(EIA)is made.I will have get conclusion in 3 hours.My last sex act was about 4 mounths before.I will inform you about conclusion.
« Last Edit: April 26, 2010, 07:22:49 AM by harold »

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Is a test necessaray?
« Reply #3 on: April 26, 2010, 07:58:07 AM »
That was a good move to get tested. As long as all of your experiences have been using condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse then I do expect you will test negative.

Good luck. And keep us posted.
Andy Velez

Offline harold

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Re: Is a test necessaray?
« Reply #4 on: April 26, 2010, 01:32:36 PM »
I have just got my test result? It is negative. Should I stop to think about hiv and get marry? My last sex story was about 4 mounths ago.Thanks for answers.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Is a test necessaray?
« Reply #5 on: April 26, 2010, 02:38:55 PM »
You are HIV negative. Period.

To to the extent that you were seeing that worry about HIV as a barrier to marriage, it is removed.

Andy Velez


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