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Offline Ravhyn

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yay =)
« on: April 16, 2010, 03:20:17 PM »
I'm in a good mood, I know we are still not out of the woodworks.  but around new years me and the hubby got drunk, got carried away and he forgot his condom.  well he has to test every three months and the test results came back two days ago negative.  so it really cheered me up.

His doctor is still scratching his head though over why my husband hasn't gotten the virus since before hand we had four years of unprotected sex.  (and not to be too detailed but I am a nympho with sexual addictions) so are sex life has always been a bit more then normal married couples. 

anyways i strayed off topic, sorry have a tendency to do that i just wanted to share the good news =) and so far 16 days in the meds are going great except a problem with not being able to sleep very much.  But i'm just gonna see if they can put me back on the flexiril I was taking before the diagnosis. 
April 2006 - Sero-Conversion
December 2009 - Diagnosed
Jan 2010- VL 3,800 CD4 152
Summer 2010 VL UD, CD4 over 200
September 2010 VL UD, CD4 324
March 2011 VL UD, CD4 477
May 2011 VL UD, 338

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #1 on: April 16, 2010, 04:21:12 PM »


   Your husband's negative result is definitely great news and  I understand what a relief that must have been for you. 

   Congrats!! 
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

Offline megasept

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #2 on: April 16, 2010, 05:11:57 PM »
that's great news! nympho husband sounds OK to me as long he doesn't stray. lol.

-steven (aka 8) megasept)

Offline WillyWump

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #3 on: April 16, 2010, 09:28:07 PM »
Congrats Rav! Keep up the Humpin, safe Humpin that it.

Btw, where can I find one of those Nympho husbands?

-Will
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Last Labs-
6/3/14 CD4- 736, UD 34%
6/25/13 CD4- 1036, UD,
2/4/13, CD4 - 489, UD, 28%

Current Meds: Prezista/Epzicom/ Norvir
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Offline HollyStar

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #4 on: April 17, 2010, 01:50:12 AM »
Congrats Ravyn! Must be a big relief. By the way guys, I think Rav is the Nympho!

I hope your husbands rash is better.
Diagnosed  July 28th 2003

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Offline CallMeSid

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #5 on: April 17, 2010, 10:45:14 AM »
I'm sorry, but if your husband's doctor is "still scratching his head though over why my husband hasn't gotten the virus since before hand we had four years of unprotected sex", he must have graduated at the bottom of his class in medical school.  His knowledge of the dynamics of HIV transmission is worse than most 8th graders'.

Congrats on the hubbies negative test result.
07/2006 HIV-negative
06/2007 HIV-positive
07/2007 CD4: 795 (40%), VL: <50
09/2007 CD4: 629 (43%), VL: 895  (~2 weeks after measles/mumps/rubella booster)
12/2007 CD4: 854 (45%), VL: <50
03/2008 CD4: 880 (45%), VL: 151
12/2008 CD4: 943 (46%), VL: 116
05/2009 CD4: 865 (44%)  VL: 107

Offline WillyWump

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #6 on: April 17, 2010, 02:14:33 PM »
Must be a big relief. By the way guys, I think Rav is the Nympho!

I'm quite sure you are correct. However, for me, it works better if I continue thinking her cutie husband is the Nympho.

-Will
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Last Labs-
6/3/14 CD4- 736, UD 34%
6/25/13 CD4- 1036, UD,
2/4/13, CD4 - 489, UD, 28%

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Offline Inchlingblue

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #7 on: April 17, 2010, 02:49:17 PM »
I'm sorry, but if your husband's doctor is "still scratching his head though over why my husband hasn't gotten the virus since before hand we had four years of unprotected sex", he must have graduated at the bottom of his class in medical school.  His knowledge of the dynamics of HIV transmission is worse than most 8th graders'.
 

There's a current thread by a new member, a straight male, who got infected by having sex once with a woman. It can happen. Heterosexual transmission is the main form seen throughout Africa.

And Ravhyn is talking about four years of what she says is high frequency of condom-less sex, so it is kinda surprising.

LINK:

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=32170.0

Offline Ravhyn

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #8 on: April 18, 2010, 11:28:14 PM »
Callmesid

well he's an army doctor. half of them are great, the other half terrify me.  One tells me i have arthritis the other tells me i have a herniated disc in my back neither have ran tests.  One told me even i had tons of bleeding ulcers. his words exactly, with only doing a couple blood test that showed everything was fine, liver kidney's, and only my white blood cell count was a lil low but not below normal. a month later I found out i had hiv and two months later that my cd4 count was 152.  so i was surprised after numerous hospital and ER visits no one thought to run an hiv test. 

willy

 awe i should post some pics he's got these beautiful baby blue eyes.  that's the kicker he's been with literally over a 100 women, never wore a condom not one std.  and only two or three women claiming he's their babies daddy. me, just a couple of men and bam!


April 2006 - Sero-Conversion
December 2009 - Diagnosed
Jan 2010- VL 3,800 CD4 152
Summer 2010 VL UD, CD4 over 200
September 2010 VL UD, CD4 324
March 2011 VL UD, CD4 477
May 2011 VL UD, 338

Offline CallMeSid

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Re: yay =)
« Reply #9 on: April 19, 2010, 08:22:53 PM »
There's a current thread by a new member, a straight male, who got infected by having sex once with a woman. It can happen. Heterosexual transmission is the main form seen throughout Africa.

And Ravhyn is talking about four years of what she says is high frequency of condom-less sex, so it is kinda surprising.

LINK:

http://forums.poz.com/index.php?topic=32170.0

Yesssss....  "It can happen" and I never said that it COULDN'T.  The reality is that the estimated number of infections per 10,000 acts of insertive penile-to-vaginal sex (HIV+ female, HIV- male) is approximately 5 (see Wikipedia and the studies it links to, listed below).  Or, stated another way, each such act has about a 1/2,000 chance of transmitting HIV (though other factors, STDs, etc. could increase the risk in any given act).  Of course, those are the odds based upon observed/self-reported data.  One *CAN* be infected during the first unprotected act with a poz partner, but it does not mean that he/she *WILL* be infected on the first (or the second...or the 1,649th...or...)

All Dr. McScratchyHead needs is to do is about 10 minutes of research of the existing literature to get minimally educated about the dynamics of HIV transmission.

That's all I was sayin'.....

Rahvyn, so sorry to hear about your experiences with the army docs!  It sounds like you're now linked up with a competent care provider and I'm glad to hear that!  Be well.  (And tell the hubby to wrap it up!!!)

European Study Group on Heterosexual Transmission of HIV (1992). "Comparison of female to male and male to female transmission of HIV in 563 stable couples". BMJ. 304 (6830): 809813

Varghese B, Maher JE, Peterman TA, Branson BM,Steketee RW (2002). "Reducing the risk of sexual HIV transmission: quantifying the per-act risk for HIV on the basis of choice of partner, sex act, and condom use". Sex. Transm. Dis. 29 (1): 3843.
07/2006 HIV-negative
06/2007 HIV-positive
07/2007 CD4: 795 (40%), VL: <50
09/2007 CD4: 629 (43%), VL: 895  (~2 weeks after measles/mumps/rubella booster)
12/2007 CD4: 854 (45%), VL: <50
03/2008 CD4: 880 (45%), VL: 151
12/2008 CD4: 943 (46%), VL: 116
05/2009 CD4: 865 (44%)  VL: 107

 


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