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Author Topic: Could I have STI or STD?  (Read 1113 times)

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Offline Jannie94

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Could I have STI or STD?
« on: March 05, 2016, 02:41:09 PM »
Hey guys,

I gave my boyfriend a blow job today and realized I have a huge cut in my mouth. We never use condoms when giving blowjobs so now I am scared. I never had a cut on my mouth before though. I sucked the tip of his penis too (I suspect there is body fluid and precum) but probably no cum. He didn't came inside my mouth either. He said he recently had a body check and that he is clean (but they only took his blood sample and gave him the results same day I believe) and some STDs and STIs cannot be checked through just a blood test or the same day. We never have sex and I am a virgin, but he have many experiences before (which is why I am scared). I am so new to this sex thing sorry. Is STDs first contact? If it is, should I have gotten it already.

We also rub each other's private body parts without a condom and the tip of his penis might have entered mines (or not). Is there any risk of that?

Sorry I sound like a newbie here. I am still new to this sex thing and the only thing I ever did was kiss three random guys at a club...

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Could I have STI or STD?
« Reply #1 on: March 05, 2016, 04:03:35 PM »
Your saliva has over qa dozen enzymes and proteins which very effectively prevent the transmission of HIV if that is present in the other person.

The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse.  Should you get into having intercourse as long as the insertive partner is wearing a condom every time, you will be well protected.

You are worrying needlessly about HIV this time.
Andy Velez

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Re: Could I have STI or STD?
« Reply #2 on: August 21, 2016, 06:30:48 AM »
I gave unprotected blowjob to my ex 3 months ago. I recently found out he cheated on me. I am not sure if he slept with other people, but I wanted to know if there is a chance I can have any types of STD, STI, or herpes.

He swallowed in my mouth two times and I let the semen sit for 30 second. I also have a huge cut in my mouth. I heard that it is possible to get infected that way.

Thank you!

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Re: Could I have STI or STD?
« Reply #3 on: August 21, 2016, 06:49:17 AM »

Well in terms of HIV transmission. You don't need to run out and test each time you give a BJ.  So relax already, the virus is very fragile, and your mouth has dozens of protein and enzymes that damage the virus and render it unable to infect. Now that's the good news.

I wanted to know if there is a chance I can have any types of STD, STI, or herpes.

Yes, of course giving a BJ is a risk for transmission of other STI's. Many STI's are simply far easier to transmit than HIV. So in short you had no HIV concerns but other STI's yes it was a risk. 

Look my advice is simply no need to panic but do get spesificly and fully tested regularly (At least yearly) for all STI's including HIV and keep in mind that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

Finally, use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, to avoid sexually transmitted hiv infection.

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