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Offline lamb

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frottage with menstural blood
« on: March 06, 2010, 12:52:15 AM »
HI this is my first post, first of all I really admire the dedication of members especially of Ann & Andy because by giving truthfull & correct advice they are saving many lives, I actually do not know how to address thae forum for any mistake plz educate me.
My problem is that I had gone to CSW in uganda, where I had protected Blowjob, licked & not sucked her nipple for 10sec there was no discharge from her nipples, I took her over me for 30 sec approx my penis was rubbing against her stomach but I cannot be sure as light was off then fingered her for 1 min, while she was giving me protected BJ, when I finshed BJ i went and washed the finger and she had given me tissue to wipe my dick, my cocern is when we switched on light we found she had just started her mensturation and I am worried that her Blood could have come in contact with my finger or a drop or two could have rubbed against my penis when I took her over me that time my penis was unprotected but I am 90% sure my penis was not against her vagina. I am extermely worried may I request Andy or Ann to please help me at the Earliest as I am a married Man and shortly I amgoing back to my country, already 16 days have passed to this incidence, Plz for heaven sake assess my Risk, should I undergo the test. Thankyou 

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2010, 05:13:16 AM »
You were never at risk in the situation you've provided.

Offline lamb

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #2 on: March 06, 2010, 07:53:31 AM »
Thanx A Ton Rapid Rod,

My Only concern is that her vaginal blood must have touched my fingers and some drop of blood may have touched my penis when she was over me because after that she gave a protected BJ but as far I remember her stomach was against my penis but I cannot be 100% sure as the lights were off. pardon my writing again just for once if you please could do a little detailed analysis of my situation, then I will not bother you again, just for once please. Thankyou in anticipation 

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #3 on: March 06, 2010, 08:12:17 AM »
Thanx A Ton Rapid Rod,

My Only concern is that her vaginal blood must have touched my fingers and some drop of blood may have touched my penis when she was over me because after that she gave a protected BJ but as far I remember her stomach was against my penis but I cannot be 100% sure as the lights were off. pardon my writing again just for once if you please could do a little detailed analysis of my situation, then I will not bother you again, just for once please. Thankyou in anticipation 
You were never at risk in the situation you've provided.

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #4 on: March 06, 2010, 08:24:46 AM »
Thanx Buddy, 8)

I shall never repeat this again my only concern was vaginal fluid and menstural blood.

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2010, 08:42:39 AM »
Yes, that is understood. Even if the blowjob had been without a condom it would not have been a risk.

The only confirmed HIV risks among sexual activities are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as you always use condoms for those you will be well protected. It really is just that simple.

You have no cause for further concern at this point about your incident.
Andy Velez

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #6 on: March 06, 2010, 03:43:59 PM »
HI Andy,

Thanx for the prompt reply, but I could not correctly interpret the last line as " till this point" are you contemplating something else because this was the only thing which I have done, do you recommend that I should undergo the HIV test, as I had not had any kind of penetration with her but only concern as I had mentioned was the vaginal fluid/ menses blood on my finger or could have been on my penis. when she was on top of me briefly.

I shall be gratefull if you could reply.   

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #7 on: March 06, 2010, 05:12:30 PM »
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #8 on: March 06, 2010, 05:56:22 PM »
lamb,

It doesn't matter if you had blood on your penis, your finger or your nose, for that matter. You did not engage in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse, therefore you had NO RISK.

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #9 on: March 06, 2010, 11:24:27 PM »
Thanx Ann I really admire your responses, A great work with admiration and dedication which you have shown for others, A many thanx to Rapid Rod and Andy and please keep doing this nobel work, Please accept my heart felt gratitude for all of you thanx once again. :)

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #10 on: March 07, 2010, 07:42:31 AM »
Lamb,

You're welcome. Just make sure you use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #11 on: March 08, 2010, 07:09:58 AM »
Hi Ann,

Pardon my writing again despite the time out warning by Rapid Pod, I promise this is going to be my last post, my final question is I had gastrities 2 day after the incidence and now on 18 day I am having cold, other than that I am having no symptoms and I have never ever indulged in any causal sex other than this incidence, may I have your final opinion, Plz do not mind for my writing again as I have mentioned that again I shall not be writing, Thanx a lot.

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #12 on: March 08, 2010, 09:41:15 AM »
Those are not in anyway HIV-specific symptoms. That's no surprise since nothing you did has put you at risk at for HIV transmission.

You have HIV jitters which has you misinterpreting everything that happens to you through an "Oh God, another sign of HIV" mindset. You are worrying needlessly. Get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline lamb

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #13 on: March 09, 2010, 11:24:03 PM »
HI Andy,

One part of my question has been left unanswered that is do you recommend that For this incidence I should undergo the ELIsa test, can I have unprotected Sex with my Wife.... Sorry to bother you again but as I was under great mental stress though quite relieved after your replies, May I request if you could reply this part. Thanx       

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #14 on: March 10, 2010, 06:28:29 AM »
HI Andy,

May I please request for a reply and as promised would not have been writing but as part of my question has left unanswered that is why I am writing again Plz keep in mind the blood could have been HIV positive.

 Thanx and sorry to bother you.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #15 on: March 10, 2010, 06:56:04 AM »
Ann answered you, reread the reply.

Offline lamb

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #16 on: March 10, 2010, 07:44:20 AM »
HI Rapid rod,

What i requested was should i undergo test or not.

Thanx

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #17 on: March 10, 2010, 07:48:51 AM »
HI Rapid rod,

What i requested was should i undergo test or not.

Thanx
Now read what Andy said to you.

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #18 on: March 10, 2010, 08:16:47 AM »
OK, I am going to answer this just once more. You did not have a risk. There is no need for testing. And if you come back here again about this non-risk you are going to get a 28 day Time Out.

Consider yourself warned. Now, as I have said before, get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline lamb

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #19 on: March 10, 2010, 09:11:20 AM »
Thanx a lot Andy,

Sorry for the inconvinience,  because of our own stupidity we not only cause trouble to ourselves but to others also, now i shall not be posting any more messages.  :)

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #20 on: March 10, 2010, 01:06:38 PM »
You're welcome. Now get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline lamb

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #21 on: March 15, 2010, 08:53:33 AM »
hI Ann

Just a small question in what time frame does the menstural blood HIV virus dies once out side the human body though I have been told that I was not on risk but just for the information sake, thanx.

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #22 on: March 15, 2010, 09:45:50 AM »
It doesn't "die." It becomes not viable. And it happens VERY quickly.

And I am giving you a last warning. HIV is not your problem. Get on with your life. If you come back with "just one more" you are going to get that 28 day Time Out you've been warned about. Take a rest from this site and from surfing about HIV in general and get on with your life.

« Last Edit: March 15, 2010, 09:47:53 AM by Andy Velez »
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Offline lamb

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #23 on: March 24, 2010, 01:11:46 PM »
HI Andy/ Ann,

Sorry I never wanted to come back again, because I have been explained in detail, BUt I have started having little flakey skin on my left hand, and also slight pain seems like swollen lymph in  the inner side of left Thigh so started feeling little jittery about it, may I request you to plz examine it this time. Thanx in  advance  ???

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #24 on: March 24, 2010, 01:25:16 PM »
Lamb,

You didn't have a risk, as we have repeatedly told you. If you feel unwell or jittery about something, see your doctor. Whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv.

I'm giving you that time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline lamb

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #25 on: April 27, 2010, 11:45:41 AM »
HI Ann,

One Last question & its a promise also plz do not Ban me,   I have got my Elisa test done at 6 weeks and also at 8 weeks it has come Negative do I have to again undergo the test at 13 weeks....., Plz I request for the final reply and will not bother you or anybody again :) 

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #26 on: April 27, 2010, 01:19:06 PM »
   Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: frottage with menstural blood
« Reply #27 on: April 27, 2010, 02:29:21 PM »
No, you do not need to test again. As we have told you repeatedly, you were never at risk to begin with and you  never needed to get tested.

How many ways can we say to you no risk = no need for testing.

If you come back about this no risk situation again you are going to get another Time Out. 
Andy Velez

 


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