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Offline seth

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oral with std
« on: June 23, 2009, 10:04:01 PM »
hi there i a im a little worried about i incident that i had well i was having anal sex with a ts with a condom i penetraded her for about a minute a took my penis of and saw that the condom slipped a little but covered half of my penis and i took it of i masturbated a little then the ts gave me a blowjob for about almost 2 minutes then she grabbed a condom and put it on my penis for anal sex that we had i ejaculated out and the condom was intact my worrie is that the condom the she put on me was the same one that we strated that she flipped it so that her secretions where inside of the condom how much of a risk is this i am very scared plaese help to i need to get tested for this ???

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #1 on: June 23, 2009, 11:34:47 PM »
please some one help me i am verry worried about this

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #2 on: June 24, 2009, 03:31:23 AM »
Seth,

One CANNOT "flip" a condom and put it on inside out. It just won't work. Nothing you brought to us was a risk for hiv infection.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER THIS SPECIFIC INCIDENT, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple.

Ann
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Offline seth

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #3 on: June 24, 2009, 01:28:21 PM »
thanks alot ann , but even if the condom was inside out and had some secretion that come in contact with my penis or does air kill the virus at that moment????

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #4 on: June 24, 2009, 04:00:44 PM »
Seth,

Even if this person achieved the impossible and put the condom back on you inside-out, there was no risk to you. Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the body as in UNPROTECTED anal or vaginal intercourse. That's INSIDE the body without ever having left the confines of the two bodies. When outside the body, small changes in temperature, pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect.

You have not had a risk for hiv infection.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline seth

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #5 on: July 08, 2009, 09:36:59 PM »
ann why do you think it is impossible to get a condom inside out ??? i have heat sensations someday i dont know if this is a hiv symptom do i have te worrie or test because of this i have ocd

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #6 on: July 08, 2009, 09:41:09 PM »
You were never at risk of contracting HIV. Seek professionall mental help for your OCD issues you can't be helped on the Internet.

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #7 on: July 09, 2009, 08:22:50 AM »
As Ann told you, you weren't at risk for HIV. This is all about feelings and nothing based in HIV science.

How many ways can you be told NO RISK?

Get on with your life. Period. 
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Re: condom question???
« Reply #8 on: July 12, 2009, 11:42:51 PM »
thanks alot guys for your help i am kind of derrepsed i think is because its the winter where i live and i was wondering if it would be ok do protected myself with a condom for penetrative sex and not use a condom for oral dont like much condoms for oral sex would this be ok???

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #9 on: July 14, 2009, 05:20:05 PM »
i forgot to tell that after that incident i had 3 episodes of hemospermia with a 3 month distance from each other and one episode of hematuria i wnet to a doc and he told it just could be a vein now lots of time has passed and it has not come again theses sympomts

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #10 on: July 14, 2009, 06:23:11 PM »
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #11 on: July 14, 2009, 06:48:00 PM »
sorry rapidrod i just get worried thats all

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Re: condom question???
« Reply #12 on: July 15, 2009, 03:53:16 AM »
Seth,

Blood in your urine or cum is NOT a symptom of hiv infection. It's usually nothing to worry about, but it can be a symptom of cancer. Make sure you see a doctor if it happens again.

Whatever is going on, it has nothing to do with hiv as you didn't even have a risk for hiv infection.

Keep posting about this NO RISK situation and you WILL be given that time out Rodney warned you about.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline seth

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oral with std
« Reply #13 on: October 25, 2009, 02:11:06 PM »
hello i whas wondering if one has a std like gonnorea or clamidia can one be infect with hiv through recivieng oral sex with protection ??? i have heard that for intercoause its more likely to become infected if one has a std but with oral sex it is the same ???

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Re: oral with std
« Reply #14 on: October 25, 2009, 03:19:42 PM »
Receiving oral sex is not a risk for HIV transmission. No one has ever been confirmed to have been infected with HIV in that manner.
Andy Velez

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Re: oral with std
« Reply #15 on: October 26, 2009, 07:49:46 AM »
Seth,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines.Thank you for your cooperation.





Getting a blowjob is NOT a risk for infection, with or without a condom, with or without an STI.

And STIs also do not increase a person's risk for hiv infection during intercourse - when a condom is used. STIs only increase the risk during intercourse when NO condom is used.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann

Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  



"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline seth

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Re: oral with std
« Reply #16 on: March 02, 2010, 08:25:47 PM »
hello i am freaking out a ts gave me a blowjob and it has passed now 7 weeks and i woke up with a flu and have some fever she only gave me unprotected oral and penetration whas protected theses is the only risk that i had besides the one that i posted before in the op thanks very much for your help

Offline RapidRod

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Re: oral with std
« Reply #17 on: March 02, 2010, 08:29:58 PM »
You better start reading the replies you have been given or you'll find yourself with a time out.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: oral with std
« Reply #18 on: March 03, 2010, 08:19:51 AM »
See your doctor about your symptoms. They have nothing to do with HIV.

As Rod mentioned, you are now on the verge of getting a 28 day Time Out from the site for returning repeatedly about  non-risk incidents. Consider yourself warned.

This is not an HIV situation. Period. End of story.
Andy Velez

 


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