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Offline WillyWump

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Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« on: February 22, 2010, 11:39:19 PM »
This takes the cake!

http://www.cowtowninfo.com/

It's a dating sight for imprisoned Felons.

So If your a straight gent and have given up your ho-hum online dating experiences perhaps you can give this a try...

Here's a special lady....she loves to travel, listen to music.... and kill people (but surely you can overlook the murder charge)
http://www.cowtowninfo.com/personals/ff09/ff09-025.htm.

Don't worry ladies, there a special man for you too... He's a christian and completed eighth grade, but  of course there is that pesky First Degree Murder charge (white women only need apply).
http://www.cowtowninfo.com/personals/ff09/ff09-080.htm

Unfortunately there's no "gay" section , so I guess my search continues....sigh

-Will


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Offline Rev. Moon

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #1 on: February 22, 2010, 11:50:15 PM »

Here's a special lady....she loves to travel, listen to music.... and kill people (but surely you can overlook the murder charge)
http://www.cowtowninfo.com/personals/ff09/ff09-025.htm.


It says murder "with explanation."  Maybe there's some sad story behind it.

Gay inmate dating? Plenty of that out there as well.  Take a look at friendsbeyondthewall.com
"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #2 on: February 22, 2010, 11:55:27 PM »
too much...lol
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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #3 on: February 23, 2010, 12:01:24 AM »
I'm sure they get all the gay dating they need right there in the Pen. :)

MtD

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #4 on: February 23, 2010, 12:02:14 AM »
I looked up the Friends Behind the Wall thing.  It's so sad.  I feel bad for these people even though I know they were convicted of something.  I'm sure if I knew what their crimes were I might not feel so sad for them.

Offline Rev. Moon

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #5 on: February 23, 2010, 12:08:07 AM »
I looked up the Friends Behind the Wall thing.  It's so sad.  I feel bad for these people even though I know they were convicted of something.  I'm sure if I knew what their crimes were I might not feel so sad for them.


I'm with you on that; it is saddening in some cases.  I know that some people have done serious monstrosities, but others are there on charges that could never be compared to murder.  They come out with limited opportunities in all respects (forget about love, just finding a job is a difficult task for these people).  One cannot judge without context.
"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #6 on: February 23, 2010, 12:09:31 AM »
well at least you are not some Bubba's B*tch behind bars......LOL
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #7 on: February 23, 2010, 12:15:18 AM »

Unfortunately there's no "gay" section , so I guess my search continues....sigh


Don't worry darlin', you'll find Mr Right somewhere. You might try getting yourself banged up in your local county jail - at the very least, you can have fun getting banged up.
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Offline WillyWump

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #8 on: February 23, 2010, 12:28:24 AM »
I'm with you on that; it is saddening in some cases.  I know that some people have done serious monstrosities, but others are there on charges that could never be compared to murder.  They come out with limited opportunities in all respects (forget about love, just finding a job is a difficult task for these people).  One cannot judge without context.

You know, I agree with alot that and not judging without context to a certain extent. However most of the people in Jail (at least in Tx) have been around the block a few times. Most of these people have offended and re-offended and then finally end up in Prison, very few are first time offenders (except maybe drug traffickers and Capital Murder convicts), Hell I had a friend in Austin that was busted with a half ounce of cocaine(intent to distribute) and was staring at 10 years in prison, he received 2months in county jail and 9 years probation, THEN was caught with a small baggie of coke while on probation...guess what happened to him, No additional jail time, he just had to wear an ankle monitor for 3 months. It would probably take him 2 or 3 more screw up to do some real hard time in prison.

My point is these people in prison at some point had plenty of chances to change the direction of their lives and did not do it. While I like to think of myself as a compassionate person, my compassion runs a little thin here. Yes I know there are exceptions to every rule, but overall these people are hardcore.

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Offline WillyWump

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #9 on: February 23, 2010, 12:30:52 AM »
Don't worry darlin', you'll find Mr Right somewhere. You might try getting yourself banged up in your local county jail - at the very least, you can have fun getting banged up.

Well I always was a big fan of that HBO series "OZ"....so hot and exciting. But me thinks the guys I would be locked up with would most likely be toothless and wretched.
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Offline Hellraiser

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #10 on: February 23, 2010, 12:32:31 AM »
Christopher Meloni...yes daddy.

Offline Rev. Moon

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #11 on: February 23, 2010, 12:33:22 AM »
overall these people are hardcore.

That sounded so ganXtah  :)

I agree with plenty of what you said.  One thing I find odd about these inmate adds is the fact that some of them request/are looking for "financially secure" pen pals.  That's a red flag of some sort.


Well I always was a big fan of that HBO series "OZ"....so hot and exciting. But me thinks the guys I would be locked up with would most likely be toothless and wretched.

You know Big Bertha would be your BFF.
"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

Offline WillyWump

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #12 on: February 23, 2010, 12:37:26 AM »
That sounded so ganXtah  :)



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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #13 on: February 23, 2010, 12:38:02 AM »

But me thinks the guys I would be locked up with would most likely be toothless and wretched.


Hey, toothless may not be so bad. Think about it. If there were a gap-toothed smiley available, I'd post it right about now.
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Offline WillyWump

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #14 on: February 23, 2010, 01:04:52 AM »
Hey, toothless may not be so bad. Think about it. If there were a gap-toothed smiley available, I'd post it right about now.

Lol,

I knew a  skank lady in my teen years that had false teeth and all the guys would go over to her house and get a "gummy BJ"....Rumor has it that one time she was extra busy and plopped out her dentures and handed then to a guy in line and said "hold on to these till I get to you".
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Offline Ann

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #15 on: February 23, 2010, 01:08:58 AM »

Rumor has it that one time she was extra busy and plopped out her dentures and handed then to a guy in line and said "hold on to these till I get to you".


And what did you say to her when you handed them back?
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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #16 on: February 23, 2010, 01:11:02 AM »
And what did you say to her when you handed them back?

"Have you heard of Sterodent?"

MtD

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #17 on: February 23, 2010, 01:32:28 AM »
You should have a much stronger warning.  Now I have to flush my eyes out with bleach.

Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #18 on: February 23, 2010, 01:34:13 AM »
Hey, toothless may not be so bad. Think about it. If there were a gap-toothed smiley available, I'd post it right about now.

Toothless wouldn't be bad at all then you can ride it on the rims......LOL
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Offline next2u

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #19 on: February 23, 2010, 03:19:04 AM »
toothiess...shudders...

even when i think about how good it would feel...there's just a part of me that wouldn't...even for all the right reasons (and no, i can't name one).

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Offline Angel-Ronnie

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #20 on: February 23, 2010, 04:34:13 AM »
D there might be one place that he can't leave tooth marks when  the excitement gets intense, or nibble a nipple that he might just bite because of getting frustrated because you aren't his Bubba........Give Bubba thum love....no bite marks "D" just think about it......LOL
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An' ye harm none, do what ye will.

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Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #21 on: February 23, 2010, 08:26:10 AM »
I'm curious as to the motivation of people who respond to these ads. It is one thing to be in a relationship with someone who becomes incarcerated but to actively seek out people behind bars... what's that about?
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #22 on: February 23, 2010, 10:31:49 AM »
I'm curious as to the motivation of people who respond to these ads. It is one thing to be in a relationship with someone who becomes incarcerated but to actively seek out people behind bars... what's that about?

Good question. Coincidentally, a friend of mine confided in me last week that he joined a group in the States who become pen-pals of incarcerated people. He showed me the draft of his first introductory letter and I had to giggle - the first paragraph sounded like he was looking for a boyfriend. (I'm 5'7", light brown hair, blue eyes, well-built etc etc etc) I asked him why he would want to write to someone in jail halfway across the world and he said he wanted to do something good for someone. He reckons that it would be interesting for someone in the States to be communicating with someone who lives on a Rock in the middle of the Irish Sea. Go figure.
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #23 on: February 23, 2010, 11:07:11 AM »

Here's a special lady....she loves to travel, listen to music.... and kill people (but surely you can overlook the murder charge)
http://www.cowtowninfo.com/personals/ff09/ff09-025.htm.


She says she is willing to relocate,  I bet she is..  I also gather from her profile petit means something else in prison.
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #24 on: February 23, 2010, 02:51:02 PM »
Enjoy, Hubby and the key board player do this one at the Rugby gigs..it always goes down well.... ;D


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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #25 on: February 23, 2010, 05:07:07 PM »
I'm curious as to the motivation of people who respond to these ads. It is one thing to be in a relationship with someone who becomes incarcerated but to actively seek out people behind bars... what's that about?

All of the ex-cons I've bagged have been excellent fucks.  Another of my ex-bf's is currently in maximum security in upstate NY.  About five years ago I got a collect phone call from him but he wouldn't tell me exactly what got him in there, but whatever it was he said he didn't do it.  I saw him pulverize a guy once on the street and had to read him for getting blood on a brand new white Helmut Lang tank top he'd borrowed.  I was a bit over that.
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #26 on: February 23, 2010, 05:16:38 PM »
All of the ex-cons I've bagged have been excellent fucks.  Another of my ex-bf's is currently in maximum security in upstate NY.  About five years ago I got a collect phone call from him but he wouldn't tell me exactly what got him in there, but whatever it was he said he didn't do it. 

And I've been with some who weren't good at all in the sack,  (and some who were); it went way too fast, of course that could just speak to how good I am. ;D  Quite a few past relationships were with felons.  And I never accepted collect calls from anyone in jail or prison; the calls are very costly. 

I watched a program about the Green River Killer.  There was a woman in the jury who moved next to the prison the guy was in, so she could be near.  That's got to be some kind of mental illness.
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #27 on: February 23, 2010, 09:04:01 PM »
That sounded so ganXtah  :)

I agree with plenty of what you said.  One thing I find odd about these inmate adds is the fact that some of them request/are looking for "financially secure" pen pals.  That's a red flag of some sort.


You know Big Bertha would be your BFF.


"financially secure" pen pals...........well that rules most of us outta the picture.......ROFLOL  ;D
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #28 on: February 23, 2010, 09:06:39 PM »
I fell in love with an ex-con, who was in danger of being reincarcerated more than once during our relationship.  Don't be hard on all of them...some of them just have recurring issues that land them hard time.  Remember that cute dog Moose I use to post pictures of? He's still around, I believe, and he outlived my cats, which was a big issue. His daddy, however passed away last year.

In closing, you can't help who you fall in love with, but you can help running into them. Mostly by not seeking out cons or ex-cons. And by not ending sentences with prepositions that might influence who you end up with.

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #29 on: February 23, 2010, 09:09:45 PM »
Enjoy, Hubby and the key board player do this one at the Rugby gigs..it always goes down well.... ;D


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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #30 on: February 23, 2010, 09:14:34 PM »
Knew I had heard that voice before...

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #31 on: February 23, 2010, 09:16:21 PM »
I fell in love with an ex-con, who was in danger of being reincarcerated more than once during our relationship.  Don't be hard on all of them...some of them just have recurring issues that land them hard time.  Remember that cute dog Moose I use to post pictures of? He's still around, I believe, and he outlived my cats, which was a big issue. His daddy, however passed away last year.

In closing, you can't help who you fall in love with, but you can help running into them. Mostly by not seeking out cons or ex-cons. And by not ending sentences with prepositions that might influence who you end up with.

Most ex-cons never really liked what I used to represent anyway, so, none of them, and even to this day will dare look my way, cuz it aint happening, but I think they kinda know that...........
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #32 on: February 23, 2010, 09:23:32 PM »

And by not ending sentences with prepositions that might influence who you end up with.

I don't get it?
had to read him for getting blood on a brand new white Helmut Lang tank top he'd borrowed.  I was a bit over that.

OMG. Crimes of fashion. Off with their head!
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #33 on: February 23, 2010, 09:26:56 PM »
"I met this northern woman at a party once and asked 'Where y'all from?'  She replied 'I'm from somewhere where we don't end our sentences in prepositions', so I said 'Okay, where y'all from, bitch?'"

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« Reply #34 on: February 23, 2010, 09:27:23 PM »
I don't get it?
OMG. Crimes of fashion. Off with their head!

Shouldn't Miss P's BF-con been wearing that wife-beater instead  ;D
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #35 on: February 23, 2010, 09:35:14 PM »
i was having a hard time remembering what a preposition was --- thought I was going to have to go to youtube and check out the old saturday morning cartoon ads from schoolhouse rock --- thank you hellraiser for refreshing my memory --- my 7th grad english teacher would also want to thank you.   :)
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #36 on: February 23, 2010, 09:46:43 PM »
"I met this northern woman at a party once and asked 'Where y'all from?'  She replied 'I'm from somewhere where we don't end our sentences in prepositions', so I said 'Okay, where y'all from, bitch?'"

LOL... Good example.

I got the grammatical aspect of Creighton's comment, what I didn't get is if it was directed towards anyone in particular :)
"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #37 on: February 23, 2010, 10:02:47 PM »
Knew I had heard that voice before...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6IWv53ZFXFo

Have to like any song that starts "Life was trťs gayÖ"

Great Vegas-style glam version of her doing the same song 20 years later:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39BLbX_eJ6I&feature=related
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #38 on: February 24, 2010, 01:55:28 AM »
I haven't had sex with too many ex cons, well, at least not too many who were absolutely just fresh out of the pen and wore wife beaters and had hairy . . .  but I digress.

I seem to remember the last one was quite handy in the kitchen. That man could really toss a salad.

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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #39 on: February 24, 2010, 02:57:40 AM »
I don't get it?
OMG. Crimes of fashion. Off with their head!

Amusingly before the trip to visit him he shouted over the phone "BRING LABELS!  BRING LABELS!" so after that his nickname amongst my entourage for this trick was ::drum roll:: BRING LABELS.

extra credit: he appears in Paris is Burning.
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #40 on: February 24, 2010, 10:47:25 AM »
I haven't had sex with too many ex cons, well, at least not too many who were absolutely just fresh out of the pen and wore wife beaters and had hairy . . .  but I digress.

I seem to remember the last one was quite handy in the kitchen. That man could really toss a salad.

HUGS,

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I used to feel so guilty wearing a wife beater in the summer time, so, I threw all mine out in the trash, I got sick of looking like one, and being accused of being a wife beater , so now I just sick to tee-shirts
they seem to be better received around my next of woods  ;D  and YES we have a lot of wife beaters
pedophiles, ex-cons and closeted men here in Albuquerque  :o
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Re: Lookin for Love In All The Wrong Places....
« Reply #41 on: February 24, 2010, 11:31:02 AM »
I haven't had sex with too many ex cons, well, at least not too many who were absolutely just fresh out of the pen and wore wife beaters and had hairy . . .  but I digress...

Darling, what's "too many". Three, four, five?  At once or singly?  ;D
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