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Offline witcherkp

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Another worried member
« on: February 01, 2010, 03:27:32 AM »
Hi all from Greece,
I am yet another worried individual that has done some stupid things in his life. Ok then here is my story.
Two years ago I had vaginal sex with a call girl. During that the condom broke which I noticed after i finished in her about a min afterwards. I did a test the next day (stupid I didn't know at that time) that was negative and then  again after 6 months which was also negative. My first question is the following. Is from your experience the test conclusive?

Now for my second incident. Last week I had unprotected oral sex with a call  girl and finished in her mouth. I didn't had any other sexual activity with her. As I have already seen from your introductory welcome topic the risk is theoretical. However a risk exist. I will probably have a full STD test but I don't know when. Will a test in 4 - 6 weeks be valid?


Thank you very much

P.S: I know that my worry is probably due to my guilt because I have betrayed the trust of my 10 year partner. However because I do not have anyone to confess my worries and because in Greece HIV,AIDS and STDs in general are something of a taboo I would really appreciate your answer.

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Re: Another worried member
« Reply #1 on: February 01, 2010, 03:49:35 AM »
You were not at risk of contracting HIV from oral sex.

Offline witcherkp

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Re: Another worried member
« Reply #2 on: February 01, 2010, 05:48:25 AM »
Thanks Rob.
What about the first incident. Do I need to worry after the 6 month test?
 

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Re: Another worried member
« Reply #3 on: February 01, 2010, 06:41:09 AM »
witch,

An hiv antibody test is valid at three months or more. You do not have hiv and as getting a blowjob is not a risk for hiv infection, you still don't have hiv and you do not need further hiv testing at this time.

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Offline witcherkp

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Re: Another worried member
« Reply #4 on: February 01, 2010, 07:51:42 AM »
Thanks Ann, Rob. I will not bother you anymore about the issue. 
This situation only made me realize that as a person with active sexual life I should pay more attention to my acts and have regular check up for my sexual health.

Thanks again

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Re: Another worried member
« Reply #5 on: February 01, 2010, 08:10:35 AM »
Witch,

You're welcome. Here's what you need to know in order to remain hiv negative and also to protect your sexual health in general:


You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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