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Author Topic: Have you ever done this?  (Read 2489 times)

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Offline CaptCarl

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Have you ever done this?
« on: August 20, 2006, 12:08:43 PM »
Hello Kiddies in Pozland!
    Capt. Carl here with a quick question about the alternative side if disclosure about ones status. Have any of you ever disclosed to someone who is hitting on you with the hope that it will turn them off and they will leave you alone? I mean after saying no a few tmes and they still persist. I've done it a few times, and it didn't work a few times. Think about the irony in that!
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Offline david25luvit

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #1 on: August 22, 2006, 07:08:58 AM »
I admit it.........YES! ::)
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Offline Ann

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #2 on: August 22, 2006, 07:36:12 AM »
LOL... I did it once and it worked like a charm. :D

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Offline Dachshund

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #3 on: August 22, 2006, 08:08:39 AM »
Yes I have and it did not work...finally had to say I wasn't interested. Course I had my high school figure back then.

Offline Ann

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #4 on: August 22, 2006, 09:29:34 AM »
Well, in my case, I'd already been telling the bloke that I had a partner I had no intention of cheating on. The bloke in question was saying that it was ok, he only wanted a one-off anyway and nobody needed to know blah blah blah. Finally, I said, "OK, let's go, but you need to know that I'm hiv positive..." and he was like, "Oh! Nevermind!" ;D
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline allopathicholistic

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #5 on: August 22, 2006, 11:32:11 AM »
Irony indeed. I have never done that but you just gave me some clever ideas about repelling unwanted suitors

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #6 on: August 22, 2006, 11:39:25 AM »
Done it, and it didn't work.
Her finely-touched spirit had still its fine issues, though they were not widely visible. Her full nature, like that river of which Cyrus broke the strength, spent itself in channels which had no great name on the earth. But the effect of her being on those around her was incalculably diffusive: for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #7 on: August 22, 2006, 12:44:42 PM »
I've done that many times, with mixed results. Sadly, sometimes people then suddenly see you as an Epic Tragic figure ... that they want to get naked with.

eep.

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Offline texasguy

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #8 on: August 22, 2006, 06:13:54 PM »
oh jk....my first giggle of the week....Epic Tragic figure.... sometimes your replies crack me up!

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Offline babygirl17844

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Re: Have you ever done this?
« Reply #9 on: August 27, 2006, 10:58:28 PM »
did it here as well sometimes it works and sometimes it don't...... good lord in the past month I have had 15 negative guys hitting on me, I have been saying no to them for the past 4 years I just have not been having luck with neg guys they say they can deal with it and I found out they couldn't so been dating poz only. but again having no luck, seems so many lie in their profile saying they want LTR when in fact they just want to get lucky. if you give it up you don't hear back from them and if you don't still don't hear back..... damned if you do and damned if you don't---------------grrrrrrr. I may just stop saying no to the negs at least I will have dates and they know I am poz before they write me its in most of my profiles.

 


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