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On the 14th I met up with a random girl and had no clue of her STD history.  Now I don't remember too much from that night because I was drunk (yes I know..very stupid) but we started kissing and I was kissing her breasts/nipples then began to rub her vagina.  I don't remember if any liquids came out of her breasts but I do know she has never had a child.  Also this might just be paranoia but I was worred that the HIV virus (if she had it) would still be on my hand (if vaginal fluids were present) from a 4am to 9am period of time.

Should I get tested?

freaked, if you read the lessons you would know that even in the hypothetical scenarios u described that u had no risk for hiv. mixing alcohl or drugs with sex is never a good combination. many people under the influence engage in riskier activity than they normally would, or may not remember the extent of the risks they had taken.

good luck, stay safe


You did not have a risk of hiv infection in anything you did with this woman.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL STIs together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with a sexually transmitted infection.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

Although you do not need to test over this specific incident, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread and follow the Lessons links for further information.

You did NOT have a risk in anything you have brought to this forum.



You are in no position to be giving advice on this forum. Please keep all your additional comments in your OWN thread. Thank you for your cooperation.


Thanks for your prompt replies.  So there is zero possibility of me recieving an HIV infection?  Even if by chance I swallowed some liquids that came from her breast or touched my mouth or eyes with the same hand that was in her vagina a couple hours earlier?


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