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Author Topic: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!  (Read 26031 times)

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Offline BT65

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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #100 on: December 07, 2009, 05:42:10 AM »
Holly, yeah, I made it to the concert.  The symphony has some excellent players, and there was a lady who sang soprano, and she had a powerful voice.  The last song they did was the Hallelujah Chorus from Handell's Messiah, and I just love that song.   About the Christmas shopping......I talked to my sisters, and we agreed that the only ones we're buying for are children.  For me, that means my grandkids, and my daughter.  I may get soemthing for a couple of my niece's, not sure yet.  It depends on how the funding is going.  We decided we really didn't need anything, and money is just too tight to think about including everyone in the shopping.  Kids enjoy Christmas more than adults anyway. 

I hope everyone has a good day.  I really don't want to go back to work, but who does, right?
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #101 on: December 07, 2009, 06:24:31 AM »
18 days until Christmas and I still have no plans of putting up a tree.  We'll put out our Menorah Saturday afternoon and Hubby wants to string blue and silver lights around the door and window.  Of course, we don't have any blue or silver lights, so I've added them to my grocery list.  The kids haven't really asked about putting up their trees so they aren't up either.  Not sure what it is about this year - just very unmotivated about decorating (very unlike me).

The cookie swap went well last night, except now I have 5-dozen cookies to get rid of.  None of them are sugar-free, so Mim can't eat any.  I may just put them in the freezer and bring them to my parents' house Christmas day. 

Netta, I'm glad to hear your husband is planning on moving.  I'll be even happier when he actually moves.  You are better than he's made you out to be.  He's lied, stolen, and cheated.  Did you get to see the new house?  How'd you like it?  I bet your daughter is excited. BTW, Netta, when we go to VA Beach, it takes us about 8hrs.  But, that's 2 cars, 4 adults, and 6 kids going up and over the Allegheny Mountains.  We stop twice - once for gas and once for lunch.  We leave at 8am and pull into our hotel about 4pm.  When my mom makes reservations this summer, I'll let you know when we'll be in town.  Hubby and I would love to take you out to dinner.  Or, maybe you and your granddaughters could meet us at the beach.  The kids always love playing with new friends.

Betty, I LOVE going to orchastra performances, the ballet, and theater.  It's been years since I've been able to go.  Podunkville isn't exactly the cultural center of the north-east.  I agree that kids enjoy Christmas more than adults.  We're still trying to figure out who to and not to shop for.  I hate to leave people out, too.  I'm thinking of making some table runners or small quilts and giving those as family gifts instead of trying to buy for everyone in the family.  What makes me crazy is when someone calls and asks what kinds of things my kids like - buzz words for "I'm getting your kids something for Christmas".  Then, I have to go out and get THEIR kids something.  I guess I don't HAVE to, but I'd sure feel crappy if I didn't. :-\

Mim has written about 15 poems.  I typed them for her and she added art work.  I'm going to take her "book" to the print shop and have them print off and spiral bind several copies.  She'll be giving them as gifts to her grandparents, great-grandmothers, aunts, uncles, and grown cousins. 

Sheri, wonderful to hear from you again.  If you don't mind, PM me your address.  Mim has drawn Meena some pictures and I promised I'd mail them out.

I guess someone needs to start a new thread.  I've got nothing witty so I'll leave it to someone else.  Make it a good Monday.

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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #102 on: December 07, 2009, 12:51:31 PM »
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!

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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #103 on: December 07, 2009, 05:10:19 PM »
Howdy Ladies---

Just checking in. A detective got a hold of me over the weekend and I believe went over to arrest Papi. But I am not sure if he got him or if I understood the detective right. I tried to call him today but he was not in. I finally made it to the doctors today and got bloodwork done. I also explained to him my problem with Atripla and why I had stopped taking it. He said there are a lot of other options out there for me. He said there were smaller pills I could take and even some things in liquid form. Finally, a doctor who listens to me. This could turn out to be a beautiful thing.... ;D

It was good talking to both of you, Betty and Netta. Sorry Betty for asking you to repeat yourself. I have a major problem with clarity of words unless you have a big mouth.... ;D I am keeping this short today because I had a loooong day at the doctors.

And someone hurry up and start a new thread..... ;D
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #104 on: December 07, 2009, 09:01:22 PM »
I'll start the next thread.  Consider this one closed.  :)
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #105 on: December 10, 2009, 09:23:01 AM »
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #106 on: December 10, 2009, 10:34:17 AM »
HEY LADIES, hope everyone is fine. Yes its that time again! Thanksgiving, then Christmas! are you getting ready???? ::) :)
Living on a fixed income, I don't worry much about spending money I don't have. I make homemade gifts and feel good about it!!!
The only thing I get excited about is its closer to income tax time!!!! Now that I got a working hubby thats something to really celebrate!
Had a great Haloween, trick o treating in our subdivison was great, all kinds of folks were out with their kids at nite and security was right there! Of course I am stealing my grandkids candy.
On a funny note, my DH played a trick on us, I am going to kill him! lol
This morning my oldest grand came running in the room, saying there was a rat in the hallway, now we don't have rats, maybe some fieldmice out side, I don't see too good without my glasses, so I looked and I saw something  big as a rat, but it did not move, my daughter, and grandkids and I almost had a heart attack!!!! no one would go near it, it looked so real, my daughter almost fainted, we locked ourself in her bedroom and called the kids dad to come over, only problem, someone had to go to the door to let him in and pass the rat!! He knocked on the door so long and was ready to leave! finally my daughter ran screaming to the door, let him in, and ran back to the bedroom, he looked at the rat and saw it was a rubber toy!!! he picked it up, but we didn't believe him, finally we looked at it and it sure enough was a toy rubber rat with a long tail!!! we don't have any toys like that so my DH must of planted it earlier when he went to work!!!,Its not even aprils fools! When we were alll locked up in the bedroom, screaming and bugging out, my six year old gd told us "ya'll should be praying" it was so funny, we were so scared! i had tocalm down after that and almost had a drink! Thats my excitement for the day.

Queen- hope you get the apartment ! take care
Betty- I guess, I can't get away from that word "crap" didn't mean to use it again. lol
Cindy- congrats on your engagement!!!!!
Ann- Happy Birthday!!!!!
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #107 on: December 10, 2009, 10:40:07 AM »

HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #108 on: December 10, 2009, 10:43:48 AM »
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he moves.
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HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he movs. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the ban didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
« Last Edit: December 10, 2009, 10:54:12 AM by netta »
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #109 on: December 10, 2009, 10:53:06 AM »
I am having a bad day. Things are not going well for me at home with hubby. My dh is "off the wagon" so to speak and getting high again. I can't hardly believe it! He works but is a working crack addict!
Of all the things that could have happen to me this is the worst. and its not the first time, its the 2ncd time he stayed out all nite on his payday! come home waging his tail between his legs. paid 2 bills but spent the rest.Ok I  let that one time slide,but it put us behind a little. Now he got paid last week came right  home paid bills ,but the job owed him another  small check which he got aandcashed and gave me a little and put the rest in the bank ,50.00. Well he  decided last nite to have the car overheat and never made it home till 2am this morning, no gas in his car and not a ime left  in the bank!
I am not speaking to him. he said he would get help and stay out of my life. Good I told him, but he has to help pay my car loan,which is in both names. We got a title pawn loan some months ago. we planned to pay it all off at tax time. On top of all this my daughter is in the process of buying a house, due to close in DEC. 09!!! we are suppose to stay here and pay this high ass rent, b I love my dh and knew he had a past drug habbit, but in the year we've been together he has not used to my knowledge, but has a drink now and then. Ok I blame myself .I feel stupid for thinking I had finally found the rgiht one. BUT I WILL NOT TOLERATE THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR, KNOWING I SPENT 10 YEARS OF MY LIFE WITH A FORMER ADDITCT FOR A HUSBAND AND IT WAS HELL! jUST call me stupid, I gave up my section 8 for this man, thinking we could build a life together on our own. gave up my nice apartment and all. I wish I had stayed single! I have made the dumbest mistake. I am sorry I am just so tired and have to vent. My daughter wants me to move with her, I wll have to for a while, but I am use to having my own. He has to be a man and take care of him, I can't do this anymore!
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #110 on: December 10, 2009, 10:54:47 AM »
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Becaue he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #111 on: December 10, 2009, 10:55:56 AM »
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denia about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #112 on: December 10, 2009, 10:58:48 AM »
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #113 on: December 10, 2009, 10:59:41 AM »
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denial about his addiction, and thinks because he was abl to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
HI GF"S :) Had a great weekend. My grandaughters were in the XMAS parade on Sunday and we all went. My dh got a 500.00 loan and paid the bills. No drama. His family has been calling concerned about him, and I overheard him talking about moving, apparently the word is out. My grandaughter seems to put aside her deferences with him . I told  them to just be respectful untill he moves. She is doing good with this. I am greatful for the peace of mind, so far. We did not argue all weekend.he still acts like nothing is wrong, swears he didn't cheat, but that is not the point. Because he got the loan and that bailed him out of a jam he thinks he reallly done something! he doesn't see the pink elephant in the room! lol He is in denia about his addiction, and thinks because he was able to hold onto money this weekend he is cured, and because it only happened 2 times. He is lucky the bank didn't press charges against him. I don't know why they didn't, had that been me I'm sure they would have.
Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!

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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #114 on: December 10, 2009, 11:04:07 AM »

below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!
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Any way went to see the new house, It is an older house and very nice and neat, but the inspection reported a lot of things to fix, mostly cosmetic, but 1 or 2 major. The problem is the owners don't want to fix anything, because they went down on the price and they are paying closing, so soon as the apraiser does his job, my daughter and the owners will work it out, if not she will have to start all over. There are certain things they have to fix for her to get the loan.she really loves the house and wiling to give them the asking price as long as they do the work, this will save her some money also. So far,so good.She was approved for the loan. which is geat news.
below my grands, my daughter,30 and my son who turned 32 on thanksgiving.Oh he is still single ladies!

"to thine own self be true"

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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #115 on: December 10, 2009, 11:14:50 AM »
HI GF'S how are you all ??
Mums- where do you live, you have snow already????
Betty- glad you had a good time.
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Re: LADIES THREAD # 67.....HOLY CRAP, THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMMING!!!!!
« Reply #116 on: December 10, 2009, 05:23:22 PM »
I'm confused?  Someone needs to ask Ann to lock this thread.
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