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Offline polite99

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Please Advice me
« on: November 02, 2010, 01:53:30 AM »

I had unprotected oral exposure with a CSW four months back The exposure was for 15 min with a women both ways. (Cunninglius, BJ,fungering,rimming). I was little panic next day and relized I did a stupid mistake

I was panic and I have taken

1. DNA by PCR combo with Antibody at two time one at 12 days and one at 32 days
2. ICMA Antibody testing at 89 days
3. Antibody ICMA for HIV-1 and HIV-2 EIA at 4 months plus std [ale for all stds'

All results came back negative except HERPES-1 which is 1.2. I am not sure whether I have herpes from this episode. I am married for five urs and did a stupid mistake for which I feel very bad.

I don't have any symptoms ormay be I am not noticed.

Appreciate if you can answer my questionss.

1. if I already have herpes in past do I need to test again for HIV 1 or 2.
2. I f I already had herpes and I am not sure I had out breaks during my exposure what is the possibility of hiv exposure..Do you guys think my tests are conclusive or do I need 6 Months test.
3. If herpes is already exists before my exposure does it take long time to detect HIV

I am going throuhg lot of stress and aanxiety

Appreciate your help

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Re: Please Advice me
« Reply #1 on: November 02, 2010, 03:25:48 AM »
You were never at risk in any of the situations you've provided.

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Re: Please Advice me
« Reply #2 on: November 02, 2010, 06:47:01 AM »

As Rodney points out, you were never at risk for hiv infection in anything you mention and so you did not need all that expensive testing. You are conclusively hiv negative.

Herpes type 1 is normally associated with oral herpes, aka "cold sores" or "fever blisters". Over 80% of the population of the world has this virus and not everyone will get outbreaks. If you don't get them, count your blessings.

Your herpes status has NOTHING to do with hiv.

You do not need further hiv testing at this time.

Here's what you need to know in order to remain hiv negative:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED FURTHER TESTING AT THIS TIME, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Offline polite99

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Re: Please Advice me
« Reply #3 on: November 02, 2010, 02:50:04 PM »
Thanks fo you advice

After reviewing all your post for diferent poepleI don't know I am stll in panic.

Can you pleae lt me know no matter ifte exposure was risky or no are my results conclusive?

The reason I am asking is

1. Due to this stress I was drinking bottle of red wine everyday. Does tis have ay Impact on test
2. I had hair tranplantation done 4 yrs ago is this impact my results

Sorry I am panic and not able to have peaceful life

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Please Advice me
« Reply #4 on: November 02, 2010, 06:09:39 PM »
You didn't have a risk. Please reread the replies you have been given.

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Re: Please Advice me
« Reply #5 on: November 03, 2010, 09:47:49 AM »
It's no surprise that you received negative results on your tests. Nothing you are reporting put you at risk for HIV as Rod has already told you. Receiving oral is not a risk for HIV nor is giving oral. Your saliva contains over a dozen elements and proteints which provide a very effective barrier against the transmission of viable HIV.

You are worrying needlessly. From what you are describing of what is going on emotionally, I suggest you see a therapist or other professional to discuss the situation and get some support with what is troubling you. This is NOT an HIV situation. Period.   
Andy Velez


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