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Author Topic: Sleeping Naked With A Girl Risk Or No Risk?  (Read 12221 times)

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Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Cut on finger and saliva, how big of risk?
« Reply #50 on: September 07, 2008, 07:45:18 PM »
Further to JK's informed response, there have been longtern studies conducted of sero-discordant couples, both gay and straight. They had lots of mutual unprotected oral sex and only protected vaginal and anal sex. The results have been that not a single sero-negative partner has become infected.
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Re: Cut on finger and saliva, how big of risk?
« Reply #51 on: September 08, 2008, 07:53:03 AM »
Stupid,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

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Offline stupidmistake

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kissing vagina while it has cut on it hiv risk?
« Reply #52 on: April 30, 2009, 02:15:58 PM »
Hi,

I fooled around with a girl a few nights ago and I briefly kissed her vagina for around 2 seconds. It was above the lip area and I dont even think I kissed the lips at all. But heres what scares me. She told me later that she cut her vagina earlier while shaving.

So if I kissed this cut and did not know it what would my risk of hiv infection be? What if I had a crack in my lip or something too?

Thanks

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Re: kissing vagina while it has cut on it hiv risk?
« Reply #53 on: April 30, 2009, 02:31:46 PM »
Stupid,

I'VE MERGED YOUR THREADS FOR THE VERY LAST TIME, EVER. If you come back here again with a new thread, you'll be permanently banned. We just don't seem to be getting through to you AT ALL about ANYTHING.

Once again, you're worrying needlessly. If she had cut herself so badly that she was bleeding heavily enough to cause concern, she would have been in an emergency room seeking medical treatment, not spreading her legs and letting her kiss you where she'd cut herself.

Don't bother coming back with any whatiffs about this latest NO RISK situation. Re-read your entire thread until what we've been telling you for two and a half years now sinks in to your brain.

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Please consider yourself warned for the LAST time.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: kissing vagina while it has cut on it hiv risk?
« Reply #54 on: May 02, 2009, 04:52:15 PM »
wow im sorry. i did not know you had to use the same thread for totally different questions. So im sorry again.

You really think this is no risk? What if she cut herself one hour before and was still bleeding while I kissed the area? It was dark so I could not see if I kissed it while bleeding, thanks

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Re: kissing vagina while it has cut on it hiv risk?
« Reply #55 on: May 02, 2009, 05:35:10 PM »
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

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Sleeping Naked With A Girl Risk Or No Risk?
« Reply #56 on: October 25, 2009, 09:55:11 PM »
Hi,

im going to make this short for you guys :) I basically only have kissed this girl, fingered her and sleep naked next to her. Well I always have my boxers on and she is naked. But my boxers have an opening and when I have an erection my penis sticks out of it sometimes.

So basically I have dry humped her but I dont think my penis ever touched her vagina. But heres where my worries start. What if at night time my penis slipped into her vagina and I did not even know it? But it seems like there would be plenty of couples where the girl slept naked at night and the guy with boxers right?

Im saying, wouldnt this be an hiv risk if my penis slipped into her vagina at night when we are just cuddling and sleeping next to each other. I mean sometimes she wraps her legs around me in the middle of the night and I wake up but dont notice my penis on her vagina. But in theory this could happen in the middle of the night where my penis slips into her vagina when we sleep in the right position and I would not even know it.

Or what if when we dry humped my penis for a second touched her vagina unprotected? Am I worrying about nothing? This seems like a logical worry because it could happen easily it seems. Am I at risk? Thanks

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Re: Sleeping Naked With A Girl Risk Or No Risk?
« Reply #57 on: October 26, 2009, 08:14:45 AM »
Stupid,

I warned you last spring that if I had to merge your threads again, I would permanently ban you. I'm keeping my promise.

Once again you come to us with a NO RISK incident. You'd know if you fucked this person and I'm quite sure you realise that yourself. Get a grip and get yourself into counselling. There's nothing further we can do for you here and quite frankly, I'm tired of talking to a brick wall.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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