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Offline guytx08

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Something silly to ask
« on: October 09, 2009, 03:22:38 PM »
Hello all. This is my last question just to clarify please. It doesn't matter then if precum got in a cut that is still fresh and hurts if alcohol is put on it? And also...there is no need to test in this incident? I just can't get this out of my head. Thank you very much.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #1 on: October 09, 2009, 04:58:41 PM »
I am going to answer you here even though your concern has already been responded to in the Spanish-language section.

HiV is a fragile virus. It is not transferred through nicks, cuts and bruises or any such skin surface injuries. HIV needs the kind of receptive setting which sexually are provided by unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. All other sexual activities are only theoretically risky. It's unprotected intercourse which is the real risk.

You are worrying needlessly and there is no need for testing over this incident.

I'm allowing this thread to remain even though you are not supposed to start separate threads in different Forums about the same issue.

 
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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #2 on: October 09, 2009, 10:44:37 PM »
Thank you very much Andy for understanding me and answering the question. It's just that it was for me like unconceivable that this virus couldn't have gotten me through this risk or that's what I always thought using my logic.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #3 on: October 10, 2009, 08:09:42 AM »
Fortunately fears aren't facts. And in the facts of the situation you were not at risk. Period.
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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #4 on: October 14, 2009, 09:52:11 AM »
Hi Andy and everyone. I just wanted to tell you that because of anxiety I went to test today at day 14 and my test was negative.  :D I did this also because a doctor recommended me to do it only for psychological reassurance and not because I was at risk but you know how a human mind can be. Thanks for everything Andy. I'll try now to go back to my life again because with fear one just can't live.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #5 on: October 14, 2009, 11:12:14 AM »
Well a negative result is always a happy thing, even when testing is unnecessary.

Get on with your life and make sure to use condoms for intercourse.

Cheers.
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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #6 on: October 22, 2009, 10:17:21 PM »
Andy...Ann, I have one more question that I haven't asked and I want to ask it because I don't see an answer in this one. Would it be a risk if precum got in my eye suddenly? Not cum, because I was giving head to one guy, well actually to his testicles, but suddenly his penis touched part of my face. I actually don't remember having felt anything in my eye but after that I had this doubt. If little precum suddenly got inside the eye, is that a risk? Thank you very much too.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #7 on: October 23, 2009, 08:30:56 AM »
This is about more "what ifs," which is a slippery slope to get on to. I've never, ever heard of anyone having been infected in that manner, IF in fact it actually occured.

You need to let go of this unwarranted fear about HIV and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #8 on: October 24, 2009, 10:44:40 AM »
Ok Andy, but just one little thing more to clarify. If this thing would have come in contact with my eye...I'd have felt it right? I mean, my eye would have sting or something because I don't remember anything of that. I'm sorry to bother you again Andy and I know that you guys sometimes get frustrated with us because we can't get rid of these doubts but bear with me a little please. Thank you for all your help that you've given to me since the beginning.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #9 on: October 24, 2009, 10:46:30 AM »
Ann...I'd also would love to have your opinion in here because I see that you're an expert in all of this of the HIV. Thank you very much guys. God bless you.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #10 on: October 24, 2009, 10:54:57 AM »
All I can say at this point is that nothing you have reported thus far suggests to me that you were in anyway at risk for HIV transmission. This is all about fears and nothing that is based in HIV science.

Get on with your life. If you continue to come back with this same non-risk incident you are going to find yourself getting a Time Out for 28 days.

You are past due to get on with your life. Really.
Andy Velez

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #11 on: October 24, 2009, 11:00:40 AM »
Ok, thank you Andy. Maybe it's only guilty that I feel right now because I'm so depressed about this and repent about what I did.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #12 on: October 24, 2009, 11:14:48 AM »
Guy,

As Andy has repeatedly told you, you have NOT been at risk for hiv infection.

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


Please consider yourself warned for the last time!

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #13 on: October 26, 2009, 07:32:07 PM »
Ann...one little doubt. This is the last, promise. About the kissing thing, I've read that even with sores, canker sores, blisters or spots in the mouth or lips there's no risk. But what about the tongue? Because I saw this morning that my togue had a little red spot and what I did only was frenchkiss. Thank you very much.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #14 on: October 26, 2009, 07:46:49 PM »
Guy,

This is getting silly. Your tongue is in your mouth. You kiss with your mouth. If anything to do with the tongue changed the risk assessment of a kiss, we would have told you by now.

KISSING IS NOT A RISK FOR HIV INFECTION. END OF STORY!

I'm giving you that time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #15 on: December 07, 2009, 01:34:47 PM »
Hi Andy, Ann, everyone here. I have another big doubt here of Hiv. If by accident I touched a doorknob with fresh semen or fresh preseminal liquid and I had a cut on my finger, not bleeding but very reddish, could I be at risk of Hiv? Do I need to test? Because that's what happened last week in an adult video store. Thank you very much for your help. 

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #16 on: December 07, 2009, 02:52:01 PM »
Again, NO RISK. Take the time to read the lessons. You can find the link in the "Welcome" thread.

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« Reply #17 on: December 07, 2009, 03:53:34 PM »
It doesn't seem as if you have learned much from what has been said to you in the past. HIV is not transmitted from environmental surfaces. So even IF you touched a doorknob which was covered in HIV+ blood that would not have been a risk.

Get yourself some professional help. We're not here to indulge you in addressing every scary fantasy and what if which your mind comes up with. 
Andy Velez

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #18 on: December 08, 2009, 02:35:01 PM »
Ok Andy, I understand that part but please bear with me. If this guy just jerked off and left the residuals of semen or presemen and just in seconds, even not half a minute I touched the doorknob with the cut, Im not at risk? Because this happened very quickly. The virus dies automatically outside the body? I know Im being a pain in the a** but if I ask this is because I've seen different answers either in the body.com, medhelp or cdc. Thank you very much and Im sorry for asking this again.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #19 on: December 08, 2009, 02:40:10 PM »
HIV does not transmit by environmental objects.

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Re: Precum on cut and finger
« Reply #20 on: December 08, 2009, 02:45:13 PM »
Teak, but even in less than a minute if the sperm is outside? It dies that QUICKLY????

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« Reply #21 on: December 08, 2009, 04:34:05 PM »
Yes, it does in that circumstance.

You're about to get to a Time Out if you continue to come back with more of the same. Consider yourself warned.
Andy Velez

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Something silly to ask
« Reply #22 on: July 22, 2010, 11:00:18 AM »
Hi guys. I know that shaking hands with someone is not a risk at all for Hiv and also I've been told that if I had a little cut on my finger and I shook hands with anyone that may could have residuals of precum or cum in his hand is also not a risk and that certainly do not need to be thinking when to test as I don't need anyone to. Why is that? Can someone please explain this to me? Because this is what happened to me 4 days ago. The hand of this guy also was very sweaty when I shook hands with him. Thank you very much and god bless.

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« Reply #23 on: July 22, 2010, 11:28:02 AM »
guy,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.




Sweat isn't infectious for hiv. And once hiv is outside the body (as in your worry about cum on someone's hand) small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage hiv and render it  unable to infect.

Once again you're worrying needlessly.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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