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Author Topic: Mouth ulcers and Swallowing  (Read 197 times)

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Mouth ulcers and Swallowing
« on: July 30, 2014, 10:19:12 AM »
Hello, I am writing to you because I am very worried about an episode occurred to me last month.
I met 2 guys on craiglist. They were in an open relationship and wanted have a threesome.
We had oral (unprotected) and anal sex (protected).
I performed oral sex on both of them. To be honest, I gave them a rough deep-throat blowjob (at least 1 hour) and I swallowed both of their semen. They were both well-endowed, and so when I deepthroated them, I had to stop several times because I was about to vomit.
I realized I had 2 mouth ulcers, one under my lips, and the other one on my tongue. These mouth ulcers can be considered as open wounds? They healed in 10 days, as the typical time course of mouth ulcers healing.
Then, as mentioned above, we had also anal sex (condom protected). They asked me before if I wanted to use condom, and I answered them that for me it was taken for granted! According to their kind of question I must assume they are HIV+...However, we used lubrificant and condoms to have anal sex (I was both top and bottom).
The next days I had  a sore throat, probably due to the particularly intense and very long deep-throats. I am scared about the particular kind of oral sex (rough, very long deep-throat) and the sperm swallowing. Furthermore, I am concerned about my mouth ulcers, and about the traumatized throat tissue of the next days.
I have a simple question. According to all the facts above, have I run the risk (even minimal) of getting HIV?
Thanks in advance for any kind of answer and suggestion you wanna gimme.
« Last Edit: July 30, 2014, 10:29:47 AM by mark__ »

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Re: mouth ulcers and swallowing
« Reply #1 on: July 30, 2014, 10:31:49 AM »
In order for there to be a risk for oral sex you would have to have significant open wounds in your mouth and your partner would have to have a high HIV viral load . The transmission from oral sex is so very rare its only been documented a few times in 30 years so if you decide to test for this incident do so for peace of mind only .

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI.Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence .

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Re: mouth ulcers and swallowing
« Reply #2 on: July 30, 2014, 10:55:04 AM »
In order for there to be a risk for oral sex you would have to have significant open wounds in your mouth and your partner would have to have a high HIV viral load . The transmission from oral sex is so very rare its only been documented a few times in 30 years so if you decide to test for this incident do so for peace of mind only.

Thanks a lot for your answer Jeff.
Assuming they had both high HIV viral load, and I indeed swallowed their semen, performing rough and long deep-throat, with mouth ulcers in my mouth, is there a risk? I don't understand if mouth ulcers can be considered as open wounds.

I am not freaking out, I am just trying to understand, even for my future sexual behavior.

thank you for your attention  ;)
« Last Edit: July 30, 2014, 10:58:39 AM by mark__ »

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Re: Mouth ulcers and Swallowing
« Reply #3 on: July 30, 2014, 11:02:48 AM »
Thanks a lot for your answer Jeff.
Assuming they had both high HIV viral load, and I indeed swallowed their semen, with mouth ulcers in my mouth, is there a risk? I don't understand if mouth ulcers can be considered as open wounds.

I am not freaking out, I am just trying to understand, even for my future sexual behavior.

thank you for your attention  ;)

There have been no fewer than three separate serodiscordant couples studies (where one person is HIV positive, the other negative.) These couples were tracked for three. five and ten years. The couples used condoms for penetrative vaginal and anal sex, but NO BARRIER at all for oral sex. Any kind of oral sex. These studies yielded NO infections.

Swallowing semen is not a risk no matter of their HIV status and I unless you had large open wounds in your mouth you did not have a risk ... a few mouth ulcers are not open wounds. The best I can do is tell you you did not have a risk and advise that if you test do it for peace of mind only. I will add this again because its the responsible thing to do and not because I think you had a risk.

Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.


 


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Re: Mouth ulcers and Swallowing
« Reply #4 on: July 30, 2014, 11:29:29 AM »
Thank u very much Jeff.
You have put my mind at rest!
You have been very clear and supportive.

A big, big hug.

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Re: Mouth ulcers and Swallowing
« Reply #5 on: July 30, 2014, 11:43:27 AM »
You are welcome !

 


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