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Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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help me help me
« on: September 09, 2009, 09:04:14 AM »
i had unprotected sex with a girl who was hiv positive ( later i come to know) and she was on menustration period. i did had oral swab test and another blood test  which gives me result in 20 mins. both the test result come negative.
 at 48 days of my unprotected sex i got dihorrea, vommiting, night sweat, muscle pain. and purple mark on my body . i am totally furstated and disssopointed with my life.

today is 88 days of my unprotected sex and i went to clinic for test abot result come positive. why people say 6 week is conclusive. in my case 12 weeks is not conclusive.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #1 on: September 09, 2009, 09:06:45 AM »
You don't have a confirmed postive test and unless you had another exposure you won't.

Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #2 on: September 09, 2009, 09:08:00 AM »
i am not a lier i am telling u truth. why dont u belive me rapid rod.

Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2009, 09:10:22 AM »
i really need help rather then blamiing each other. i will die like this way bcz i am too much frustrated.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #4 on: September 09, 2009, 09:11:45 AM »
Frustration has never killed anyone. Come back when you get your confirmative test done.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #5 on: September 09, 2009, 10:26:02 AM »
It is very unlikely that your next test result is going to be positive after your earlier negative result. HIV is a fragile virus and not easily transmitted, especially from woman to man.

So stop with the drama and just let us know when you have your test result.

Good luck with your test.
Andy Velez

Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #6 on: September 09, 2009, 11:00:13 AM »
dear sir ,
if i am not hiv positive the why all my symptoms are similar to hiv positive people.

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« Reply #7 on: September 09, 2009, 12:37:12 PM »
Symptoms tell you nothing accurately about HIV status. Only an HIV test taken at the proper time can give you a reliable answer about your HIV status.

You should be discussing your symptoms with your doctor to find out what they are about. We can't diagnose them in this setting.
Andy Velez

Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #8 on: September 09, 2009, 08:42:35 PM »
dear friend,
today i out went to clinic and done test and test comes positive. what u guys think about my status. as i already had mention to u. i am from poor family background. can anyone help me how i will get medicine.

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #9 on: September 09, 2009, 09:04:51 PM »
You did not get a confirmative test done today at a your clinic.

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #10 on: September 09, 2009, 10:03:09 PM »
Ok..what test did you have done? what did your Doctor say? what is your VL? what is your CD4? and what is your %..we need to know all this in order to help you.

BUT 

Just remember the experts here have ears that are finely tuned bullshit detectors...so be careful how you answer my questions.

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Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #11 on: September 10, 2009, 12:05:07 AM »
i had done a blood test elisa . blood was taken from my arms. it comes positive. and then they do western blot test which conform me that i am positive.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #12 on: September 10, 2009, 03:15:23 AM »
Move on.

Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #13 on: September 10, 2009, 04:50:16 AM »
what does move on means rapid rod

Offline RapidRod

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #14 on: September 10, 2009, 05:04:49 AM »
You did not get an ELISA and a WB test done and receive the results yesterday. That is fact.. No clinic does that.

help me help me
« on: Yesterday at 09:04:14 am »
today is 88 days of my unprotected sex and i went to clinic for test abot result come positive.

help me help me help me
by worriedman345, Sep 07, 2009 08:04AM
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what is the possilbiltiy of getting positive result after 80 days of negative test. my test was oral swab test and rapid blood test which gives result in 20 mins.

by worriedman345, Sep 09, 2009 10:39PM
i drink all the time hot tea and hot water but i stilll have the same problem. ateron 89 days of my unprotected sex i diagoniosis as hiv positive. i dont know what to do. i am from different country and i am here as student visa. i cant show my face to my family neither i cant tell them i had hiv positive.  guys help me please please.


Your story just doesn't jive..
« Last Edit: September 10, 2009, 05:50:17 AM by RapidRod »

Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #15 on: September 10, 2009, 12:09:22 PM »
i am very very sorry . something i lies to you guys.
now i am telling u truth wheather u belive me or not depends on.
today just now couple of hours ago i went to clinic and to rapid oral swab test. finall i got negative at alomost 90 days.  i had unprotected sex at jun 11 and today is sep 10. i dont know how many days it past. i just need you finall answer. please guys dont take me negative. can i be free with hiv postive with these test.
and one more questtion is  twhy i got dihorrea vommiting night sweat at 49 days of my unprotected sex.
 you guys are very  helpful. i appreciate you guys answer. i am so sorry to lie you bcz i am scared with hiv positive.

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #16 on: September 10, 2009, 01:07:12 PM »
Yes, you are HIV negative. Period. End of story. No more testing is necessary.

If you are having symptoms that bother you then discuss them with your doctor. They have nothing to do with HIV.

Stop the drama and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #17 on: September 13, 2009, 12:34:01 PM »
dear forum helpful members,
I did had oral rapid test at 89 days and comes negative. before doing rapid test i had take smoke. do this smoke afftect the antibioatics present on the body or not. and makes the result negative or not ??

my sec question is that after i had done unprotected sex my penis never get hard. all the time it was sleeping.

and third question is that i am still having dihorrea and tireness sweats. can u guys tell me what actually going on in my body. i aprreciate your help.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #18 on: September 13, 2009, 12:38:29 PM »
Move on. Your test was conclusive, you do not have HIV.

Offline Andy Velez

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« Reply #19 on: September 13, 2009, 12:43:44 PM »
Smoking will not affect the test result.

Your not being able to get hard is something to discuss with your doctor along with your other symptoms. They have nothing to do with HIV because you have reliably tested negative.

There's nothing more we can do for you here. We cannot diagnose your symptoms in this setting. All we can do is to tell you that we're sure they have nothing to do with HIV.

You can't keep coming back here with more questions about the same situation. You're going to end up getting a Time Out if you do that. This is NOT an HIV situation. Period.
Andy Velez

Offline WORRIEDMAN345

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Re: help me help me
« Reply #20 on: September 13, 2009, 12:44:43 PM »
then why these symptoms staying in my body.

Offline RapidRod

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« Reply #21 on: September 13, 2009, 12:48:11 PM »
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Offline Andy Velez

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« Reply #22 on: September 13, 2009, 12:52:30 PM »
Did you actually read anything I said to you? Your latest question makes me think not.

OK. I'm going to give you that 28 day Time Out I warned you about. And don't make the mistake of trying to create a new name for yourself to get around the Time Out. If you do that you will automatically be banned from the site.

See your doctor about your symptoms. They have nothing to do with HIV.
« Last Edit: September 13, 2009, 12:54:23 PM by Andy Velez »
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