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Author Topic: Never Give Up  (Read 1471 times)

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Offline Betty

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Never Give Up
« on: July 05, 2009, 03:36:46 AM »
Never give up because true love does exist! Yesterday on July 4th I married the love of my life in a beautiful ceremony. Loving relationships can have their ups and downs. It is without question, how difficult it can be to find a loving partener.  Sadly as many of us search for love we discover that HIV can get in the way if we allow it too.  During my search I found so many people who could not let go of their depression, anger, and fears that HIV can bring into our lives. The search was long and at times the road was pretty rocky. I never gave up and my patience paid off, because what a gem I have found. He loves me completely and without reservation. A man who caught my attention, telling me to get beyond the many issues of HIV, you must let go of all the baggage. In other words reclaim your life and live it to the fullest ( leave your baggage at the airport). Life is definitely what you make of it! Anyhoo these poz dating sites can work.............I am living proof!!!

Offline next2u

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Re: Never Give Up
« Reply #1 on: July 05, 2009, 04:32:42 AM »
congratulations betty!!!

will we get to see wedding photos???

and yes, i want to believe. thank you for the hope. enjoy your honeymoon : )
midapr07 - seroconversion
sept07 - tested poz
oct07 cd4 1013; vl 13,900; cd4% 41
feb08 cd4  694;  vl 16,160; cd4% 50.1
may08 cd4 546; vl 91,480; cd4% 32
aug08 cd4 576; vl 48,190; cd4% 40.7
dec08 cd4 559; vl 63,020; cd4% 29.4
feb09 cd4 464; vl 11,000; cd4% 26
may09 cd4 544; vl 29,710; cd4% 27.2
oct09 cd4 ...; vl 23,350; cd4% 31.6
mar10 cd4 408; vl 59,050; cd4% 31.4
aug10 cd4 328; vl 80,000; cd4% 19.3 STARTED ATRIPLA
oct10 cd4 423; vl 410 ;); cd4% 30.2
jun11 cd4 439; vl <20 ;); cd4% 33.8 <-Undetectable!
mar12 cd4 695; vl ud; cd4% 38.6
jan13 cd4 738; vl ud; cd4% 36.8
aug13 cd4 930; vl ud; cd4% 44.3
jan14 cd4 813; vl ud; cd4% 42.8
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Offline J.R.E.

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Re: Never Give Up
« Reply #2 on: July 05, 2009, 07:21:45 AM »
Never give up because true love does exist! Yesterday on July 4th I married the love of my life in a beautiful ceremony.

Congratulations Betty !!  I hope the two of you have many happy years together !!

Current Meds ; Viramune, Epzicom, 40mg of simvastatin, 25 mg of Hydrochlorothiazide.
Metoprolol tartrate 25mg






Diagnosed positive in 1985,.. In October of 2003, My t-cell count was 16, Viral load was over 500,000, Percentage at that time was 5%. I started on  HAART on October 24th, 2003.

 As of 9/16/16,  t-cells are at 501,   Viral load remains <40

Current % is at 12%

 65 years young.

Offline mpositive

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Re: Never Give Up
« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2009, 09:58:10 PM »
Grats Betty...

Gotta tell ya, it was nice to read your post.  I am still having such a hard time with the social aspect of this.  Seems to be even less hetero HIV dating sites out there.....but alas, I have faith that I will overcome.  I wish you and yours the very best always! 




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