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Offline Logboost

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Very Very worried of HIV infection
« on: July 03, 2009, 08:54:11 AM »
Hi,

Last wed I went for a relaxing massage. In about half the massage the masseur told me that she was feeling hot and felt the need to remove her clothes...... and we started to massage each other not touching sensitive parts.

We agreed that I pay her something more to have sex....she put a condom on my penis and we started making out till i came...... When she removed herself from me (she was on top) there was blood on the condom and she told me that the intercourse make her period come 1 day early..... The problem is that when she removed the condom some period went on my penis head and I am worried that she had HIV and I took it....... I am worried sick and cannot sleep at night....

Do you think that there is chance of having HIV.....

Please answer me 

Offline RapidRod

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Re: PLEASE ANSWER ME IN GREAT WORRY HIV
« Reply #1 on: July 03, 2009, 08:55:18 AM »
No you wasn't at risk.

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Re: PLEASE ANSWER ME IN GREAT WORRY HIV
« Reply #2 on: July 03, 2009, 08:58:42 AM »
HIV is a fragile virus. It is not transmitted in the manner you are concerened about which is quite different from the exposure you would have during unprotected intercourse.

You are worrying needlessly and there's no need for testing.

Cheers.   
Andy Velez

Offline Logboost

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Re: PLEASE ANSWER ME IN GREAT WORRY HIV
« Reply #3 on: July 03, 2009, 09:08:30 AM »
thanks so much you really made my day.

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Re: PLEASE ANSWER ME IN GREAT WORRY HIV
« Reply #4 on: July 03, 2009, 09:28:17 AM »
Good. Glad that helped. Just keep on always using condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse and you will be well protected as far as the sexual transmission of HIV is concerned.
Andy Velez

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Re: PLEASE ANSWER ME IN GREAT WORRY HIV
« Reply #5 on: July 07, 2009, 10:54:32 AM »
Hello,


I am still worrying that I ve got HIV becasue I am thinking that the condom broke when she was on me and that's why my penis was covered with her period

Please help


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Re: PLEASE ANSWER ME IN GREAT WORRY HIV
« Reply #6 on: July 07, 2009, 11:41:11 AM »
You were advised that at no time were you at risk. Move on.

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Very Very worried of HIV infection
« Reply #7 on: July 13, 2009, 05:58:27 AM »
Good morning,

I know that i already posted to this forum but things changed and I am going mad with the tought of Having HIV. I cannot even look in my pregant wife eyes anymore when she speaks to me!

I had an expirience with a massage lady which she did not tell me that she had period. She put me a condom and we started having sex .....at the end I recall that at one point the condom broke (she confirmed this week after). When she got my penis out i noticed that a good load of my sperm was still in the condom and some period was on my penis head.

Being in great panic I went to a DNA LAB on day 8 after exposure and they tested me with a test called PCR which resulted negative but they still told me that I have to repaet at the 28 day.

My question is ... Since the condom broke inside and I had about 1 minute of un protected test am I at risk?

FYI ....... This massge girl told me that she have test on regular basis and she always get a negative results but shall i trust her??

Please answer me as I am not eating or sleeping, constant worries on my face and I do not want that my wife leaves me :( 

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Re: Very Very worried of HIV infection
« Reply #8 on: July 13, 2009, 07:43:10 AM »
Log,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

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I get the feeling you're not being truthful with us when you claim the sex worker said a week later that the condom broke. If it broke, she would have said at the time, not a week later. You're clutching at straws and trying to get us to say you had a risk.

Whatever.

Test if you want, but don't expect your negative results to change.

Ann
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Offline Logboost

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Re: Very Very worried of HIV infection
« Reply #9 on: July 13, 2009, 08:12:25 AM »
Dear Ann,

Sorry that I let tought that I am not telling the truth but these last 13 days I became depressed and my mind is always constantly saying that I am HIV positive. I am thinking of what I will loose especially my wife and family.

Please try to understand me and can u re assure me please

thanks for keeping the forum alive because it is my only comfort


Offline Logboost

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Re: Very Very worried of HIV infection
« Reply #10 on: July 13, 2009, 10:07:32 AM »
Dear Ann,

Can you please answer me

Regards
Log

Offline Logboost

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Re: Very Very worried of HIV infection
« Reply #11 on: July 15, 2009, 03:59:08 AM »
Dear Ann,

Hope you will answer me.....

For my peace of mind I need to get at test becasue I am not sleeping, not working etc etc ...

Is there a test I can do 14 days after the exposure and give me an idea if I am infected or not?

Thank you and keep it up

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Re: Very Very worried of HIV infection
« Reply #12 on: July 15, 2009, 04:15:21 AM »
Log,

You don't need to test as you didn't have a risk.

The fact that you "believe" you've been infected is all about feeling guilty. It has no basis in hiv transmission science.

Don't keep posting about this no risk situation. If you do, you will be given a time out. Please consider yourself warned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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