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Offline JW

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please help possible hiv exposure
« on: February 20, 2009, 08:00:51 AM »
i met this girl the other night an we had made out an kissed deeply for 1 minute her gum lining was black she had black gums i belive it was from  her smoking or using drugs afterwards i had noticed my gums were bleeding im worried sick while we were kissing what if her gums were bleeding an if so what is my hiv risk an what about Hepatitis c should i get tested for either one of these an if i was to get either one would i get symptoms an get sick within 2 weeks

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JW, you need to read our lesson on Transmission. You are worrying needlessly about HIV. But this epidemic is going to be around for a long time so you need to get up to speed on what the real risks are sexually regarding HIV.

It is actually quite simple: always use a latex condom for vaginal and anal intercourse and you will be well protected as far as HIV is concerned sexually. All the rest of the other acts which people worry about are really only risky in theory. The real risk is unprotected intercourse.

Kissing is absolutely not in any way a risk for HIV transmission.

We only address HIV issues here, but I will say that hepatitis you'd have to be ingesting significant quantities of infected blood for it to be a risk through kissing. Getting an infected person's blood (or cum) into your bloodstream through unprotected intercourse or oral sex would be common ways for transmission.

If you are new to sexual activity this is a good time for you to begin practicing safer sex. That means always without exception using condoms for intercourse.

This time you are worrying needlessly.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

Offline JW

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Hi Andy thank you very much all go read all the hiv lessons info an i wont worry about the hep c either thank you very much
best regaurds
Jw

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You're welcome. And remember to always use condoms for intercourse!
Andy Velez

Offline JW

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please help possible hiv exposure
« Reply #4 on: June 19, 2009, 12:33:27 AM »
hi there i saw a transexual escort the other night an was concerned about a possibl hiv exposure i had basically jerked this person off for a fe mintues they did not cum but if they would have cum an i would have got  there semen in my eyes would i be at risk for hiv or is that a risk at all as i can not remember if she had ended up ejaculating an she did not have a condom on i do remember that also this was the only activity i perticipated in with this person other then that just some breef kissing an i recieved a hand job from her thats it

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Re: please help possible hiv exposure
« Reply #5 on: June 19, 2009, 05:19:03 AM »
JW,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.


Getting cum in your eye isn't a risk for hiv infection. And besides, it didn't even happen. You're making up worst-case scenarios to scare yourself and you might want to seek counseling about that. We cannot help you here with your over-active imagination.

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Offline JW

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Re: please help possible hiv exposure
« Reply #6 on: June 19, 2009, 03:41:38 PM »
hello Ann just woundering sorry about that your right im scaring myself lol i was just making sure just in case somthin had happen ok thanks for your time an info
Justin

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Re: please help possible hiv exposure
« Reply #7 on: June 19, 2009, 05:30:15 PM »
Justin, we don't like to deal with WHAT IFs here. We evaluate risk level from what has actually occured.

That's an approach that I recommend in general.

You weren't at risk and there's no need for testing.

Get on with your life.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

Offline JW

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Re: please help possible hiv exposure
« Reply #8 on: June 20, 2009, 04:41:04 AM »
ok sounds Good andy i will Thank you very much for everything  :)

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Re: please help possible hiv exposure
« Reply #9 on: June 20, 2009, 08:38:19 AM »
You're welcome. And read our lesson on transmission. It may help you to avoid unnecessary worrying in the future.
Andy Velez

 


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