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Offline brewer

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back again please help
« on: May 07, 2009, 04:13:03 PM »
Hi guys on March 26th of this year I gave a guy unprotected oral sex. I only sucked for about 3 or 4 minutes and stopped. The guy then put on a condom and he performed anal on me which again during anal he stopped after about the 6th time it went in me since I'm a virgin when it came to anal. I never performed anal on him or kissed him. I'm very scared I have hiv since I did use a condom during oral sex. I've gotten tested for everythin oral and anal. All which showed negative. I knw a week after the oral sex I started feelin sick like the flu and started to get canker sores. I was very stressed though and couldn't sleep or function. I hope u guys can help. Thanks.

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Re: please help very worried
« Reply #1 on: May 07, 2009, 05:21:28 PM »
Of course you tested negative you didn't have a risk. You had protected sex. Keep using the condoms for anal and vaginal sex and you will continue to test negative.

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Re: please help very worried
« Reply #2 on: May 07, 2009, 05:46:55 PM »
Whatever those "symptoms" were about, they had nothing to do with HIV. As Rod has pointed out, you didn't do anything which put you at risk for HIV transmission.

As long as you consistently use condoms for vaginal and anal intercourse you will be well protected sexually against HIV.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

Offline brewer

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Re: please help very worried
« Reply #3 on: May 08, 2009, 12:22:47 AM »
thank you so much guys. this is such a great site. ill keep you guys posted. thanks again.  :)

Offline brewer

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back again please help
« Reply #4 on: May 15, 2009, 10:55:53 PM »
hey guys i had posted about two weeks ago. i am still very concerned that i might be hiv positive when i get tested in June. i have tested negative for herpes, gonorh, clymidia and syhpills. i also got tested about two weeks after i have a man oral sex. i never swolled the cum or even got to the point of pre-cum at least i didn't taste any or see any. i have done some research and it still says i can be positive for hiv through giving oral sex. if u guys can please help me. thanks.

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Re: back again please help
« Reply #5 on: May 15, 2009, 11:09:22 PM »
Your questions won't be answered until you return to your original thread.

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Re: back again please help
« Reply #6 on: May 16, 2009, 01:36:19 AM »
I have merged your posts so please use this one from now on to ask question..thank you for your cooperation.

As for your recent post the answer is again ..NO RISK, please read our lessons here on how HIV is and is not transmitted.

Jan
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Offline brewer

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Re: back again please help
« Reply #7 on: May 17, 2009, 02:28:41 AM »
sorry about that guys. i have noticed today that i have a white cottage chesse like paste on the inside of my mouth. i also have noticed small white dots on the inside of my lips along with some scap like large canker sores that havent gone away yet. does this mean i have hiv or does it mean i might have thrush or hepes. i hope u guys can help. thanks.

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Re: back again please help
« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2009, 05:40:02 AM »
Brewer,

If you're worried about what's going on in your mouth, show it to a doctor or dentist. We cannot diagnose you here, but we can tell you that whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv as you had no risk.

Ann
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Offline brewer

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Re: back again please help
« Reply #9 on: May 18, 2009, 03:39:15 AM »
well if i do have oral herpes or warts or thrush would that mean i have HIV? im very scared. thanks guys.

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Re: back again please help
« Reply #10 on: May 18, 2009, 03:54:45 AM »
Brewer,

If you have oral herpes or warts or thrush, it means you have oral herpes, warts or thrush. They are not the same as hiv and you don't have to have hiv to have any of the others. Keep posting over this no risk incident and you'll be given a time out.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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