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Offline bob123

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No risk?
« on: April 21, 2009, 07:35:05 PM »
4 nights ago after drinking all night I met up with a sex worker. We had vaginal intercourse with a condom. After I ejaculated and pulled out I noticed the condom was still inside of her vagina, since my penis became soft fairly quick due to the alcohol. My penis is uncircumsised. Just want to confirm that this would still be no risk? Thank you. 

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Re: No risk?
« Reply #1 on: April 21, 2009, 07:49:53 PM »
Next time hold onto the condom when you withdraw.  You didn't have a risk.

Offline bob123

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Re: No risk?
« Reply #2 on: April 21, 2009, 10:36:13 PM »
thank you for your response rapidrod. What if it had slipped off during intercourse, would she have noticed it. Since I was drunk at the time, I don't recall if it slipped off during the vaginal intercourse or if it was when I pulled out after ejaculation. Thanks again.

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Re: No risk?
« Reply #3 on: April 22, 2009, 04:47:43 AM »
Bob,

If it came off during the act, instead of after when you lost your erection and withdrew, you wouldn't have been able to see it hanging out of her vagina. It would have been pushed deeper inside.

You didn't have a risk. Read through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use them with confidence.

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Offline bob123

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Re: No risk?
« Reply #4 on: April 22, 2009, 07:19:06 AM »
Thank you ann. I was just checking because I'm not even sure I saw it hanging out. I got up, saw it wasn't around my penis and then she got up right afterwards.

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Re: No risk?
« Reply #5 on: April 22, 2009, 07:38:47 AM »
Bob,

Condoms often fall off if you don't hold on to it after you've lost your erection. Start holding on to them and you won't scare yourself silly again. OK? You didn't have a risk. Trust me, I've been in this situation and I know what you're talking about.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline bob123

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Re: No risk?
« Reply #6 on: April 22, 2009, 10:24:52 AM »
Thank you Ann, for making me stop worrying. It's just the first time in my life I actually paid someone to have sex with me, so that was already making me nervous and then when the condom stayed in I had all these thoughts racing through my head. Thanks again.

 


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