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Worrid...
« on: April 03, 2009, 12:16:26 PM »
  How are you?......Sorry about mi English........Am going to bad..Thank you for you gays... A have met gay in  25 oktober 2008....A think he its HIV+......He jast fingering mi ass with his saliva about 20 second............a don't had any symptoms..,A did  HIV test after 55 days ..12.20.08...its Neg.....Bad a found mi Siflis poz.....Now a wanna ask you When you got Sifilis from HIV+.You get  HIV+ to or not........Place help me.....a don't have any  talk to me.......Mi family Muslim from Iran.Sorry a never did unprotected sex in mi life..Thanks Andy........Sorry mi English,

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« Reply #1 on: April 03, 2009, 12:19:20 PM »
 How are you?......Sorry about mi English........Am going to bad..Thank you for you gays... A have met gay in  25 oktober 2008....A think he its HIV+......He jast fingering mi ass with his saliva about 20 second............a don't had any symptoms..,A did  HIV test after 55 days ..12.20.08...its Neg.....Bad a found mi Siflis poz.....Now a wanna ask you When you got Sifilis from HIV+.You get  HIV+ to or not........Place help me.....a don't have any  talk to me.......Mi family Muslim from Iran.Sorry a never did unprotected sex in mi life..Thanks Andy........Sorry mi English,A never test before for a sifilis.

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #2 on: April 03, 2009, 12:56:26 PM »
Having your ass fingered with saliva is absolutely not even remotely a risk for HIV transmission. NO RISK WHATSOEVER!

HIV is a fragile virus and not easily transmitted sexually. The only confirmed means of transmitting it sexually are through unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. So if you consistently use condoms for those activities you will be well protected and have no cause for concern.

As for your having acquired syphillis, that is an entirely different matter. It's one of those other STDs that are much easier to acquire than HIV. And having gotten syphillis is NOT an indication that you have an HIV problem.

We do advise anyone who is sexually active to at least once a year have a full STD panel done because those other STDs are much easier to get.

This time you have no cause for further concern about HIV nor any need to test for it again.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #3 on: April 03, 2009, 01:05:56 PM »
  Thanks Andy.!.........am so ...Same times you can get SIFLIS end HIV+ Both..?A dont now how am catching Siflif....a never did raw anal sex.......or same coming mi mouth.......Thanks Andy.....We have any  hot phone about HIV+in New-York.a cant wrote in English god..Thanks.

Offline Bah

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #4 on: April 03, 2009, 01:13:14 PM »
Any Sifilis forum in New-York...Help?Thanks.

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #5 on: April 03, 2009, 01:26:36 PM »
RapidRod........a wanna you help me to.......Thanks.Answer me PL.

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #6 on: April 03, 2009, 02:00:28 PM »
Nothing more to add to what Andy has already told you. No risk.

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #7 on: April 03, 2009, 02:04:43 PM »
  Thank you! RapidRod..................When you get Siphlis  froom person with  HIV+ You get HIV+poz too or not.....Thanks.

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #8 on: April 03, 2009, 02:08:47 PM »
You don't get HIV from a blowjob. Doesn't matter if you have contracted an STD or not.

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #9 on: April 03, 2009, 02:14:40 PM »
 Any suphfllis  forum here.............

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #10 on: April 03, 2009, 02:16:19 PM »
Bah,

Syphilis and hiv are two totally different things. You won't get either from being fingered. You haven't had a risk for anything by being fingered.

Ann
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Re: Help me!
« Reply #11 on: April 03, 2009, 02:20:41 PM »
  Ann Sorry about mi English............So a had risk get HIV+ or SIFILIS from fingering Thanks.

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« Reply #12 on: April 03, 2009, 02:32:07 PM »
Bah,

I'll try to make this simple:

FINGERING IS NO RISK.

NO RISK FOR HIV.

NO RISK FOR SYPHILIS.

NO RISK!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #13 on: April 03, 2009, 02:35:27 PM »
  Thanks Ann....A have oly you gays.......Am 2 mouth in New-York.end lost.............Thanks end LOVE...

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #14 on: April 03, 2009, 03:45:46 PM »
    Thanks....HIV+poz can  pas from  sisilis sores to salvia.........Thanks.........Sorry about mi Inglish.

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #15 on: April 03, 2009, 04:22:23 PM »
You keep coming back with more worries.

We keep telling you that you weren't at risk for HIV. Period. End of story.
Andy Velez

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #16 on: April 04, 2009, 12:17:11 PM »
 Andy thanks.........Mi English bad..........Am at risk or NOT........Tel me PL.Thanks........

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #17 on: April 04, 2009, 01:56:34 PM »
Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Offline Bah

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #18 on: April 04, 2009, 02:56:23 PM »
Thanks.

Offline Bah

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Re: Help me!
« Reply #19 on: April 05, 2009, 09:59:06 AM »
  Andy....Help me PL......a cannot found Siphfillis forum..........Sifilis pas from  sperm 'saliva end blood too .....Thanks.........

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« Reply #20 on: April 05, 2009, 10:07:29 AM »
Bah,

This is an hiv forum, not a syphilis forum. If you have questions about syphilis, I suggest you talk to the doctor who tested you for syphilis.

Keep posting about this NO HIV RISK situation and you WILL be given a time out.

This is your last warning.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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« Reply #21 on: April 05, 2009, 01:27:23 PM »
  Thanks Ann.................Am stil  thinking ......Hes  when fingering me, his  saliva inter mi ass......A hord saliva had virus.Thanks end Sorry.....

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« Reply #22 on: April 05, 2009, 01:48:10 PM »
Bah,

Saliva isn't infectious so it doesn't matter if it entered your ass or not. Fingering is simply NOT a risk for hiv infection!

I'm giving you that time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Worrid...
« Reply #23 on: May 04, 2009, 12:21:29 PM »
  How are you.....thanks for a helping.A wanna ask you how risk get  HIV+ from  fingering mi ass with  saliva end spit..A met gay think his HIV+  end his fingering my ass with his saliva.How risk when lat  saliva inter my ass.  Thanks .Sorry about my English..

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« Reply #24 on: May 04, 2009, 12:44:34 PM »
That's a no risk activity. Even if the person you were with is HIV+, transmission doesn't happen in that manner.

The ONLY confirmed sexual means of HIV transmission is via unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. Fingering, even with saliva, doesn't fall into that category.

There's no need for testing nor for further concern about that incident.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #25 on: May 04, 2009, 12:48:38 PM »
  Thanks.......A now saliva have virus...How about virus with saliva enter my anus when his fingering me.?Thanks Andy help me?

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Re: Worrid...
« Reply #26 on: May 04, 2009, 12:50:46 PM »
I already answered that. No, even if he used his own saliva to finger you, that is still not a risk. You are worrying needlessly. HIV is a fragile virus and it is not transmitted through saliva.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #27 on: May 04, 2009, 12:51:30 PM »
  Help me Andy?Thanks.

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« Reply #28 on: May 04, 2009, 12:52:39 PM »
  Andy....Spit end saliva  same thins?

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Re: Worrid...
« Reply #29 on: May 04, 2009, 12:54:38 PM »
Yes, spit and saliva are the same thing.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #30 on: May 04, 2009, 01:07:15 PM »
Thanks...Andy how about other disis lake Syphilis,gonoreya.......

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« Reply #31 on: May 04, 2009, 01:10:27 PM »
Our focus here is on HIV.

If you are sexually active we do recommend that having a full STD panel done regularly is a good idea. That means at least once a year as other STDs are easier to acquire than HIV.

Andy Velez

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« Reply #32 on: May 05, 2009, 07:09:28 AM »
Bah,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.

You've come straight back here once your time out was finished to ask about the same NO RISK incident. If you come back with this same NO RISK incident again, you'll be given another time out.

Please consider yourself warned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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« Reply #33 on: May 13, 2009, 10:07:09 AM »
  How are you? It is pasibol HIV Symptoms  after  6 month... . a have sour trout end smallow glands...Thanks...My risk get fingering with saliva from HIV+ gay.

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« Reply #34 on: May 13, 2009, 11:16:34 AM »
Bah,

As we've repeatedly told you, being fingered is NOT a risk for hiv infection, even if his finger was dripping with his saliva. Saliva is NOT infectious.

I'm giving you that second time out you've been warned about. Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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« Reply #35 on: September 08, 2009, 09:22:17 PM »
   Hi !!!!!!!A wanna ask how risk get HIV+ from fingering my anus with saliva..A meet gay HIV+ end his fingering me 1-2 min with  his saliva..Before his fingering me hi put lat saliva-spit inter my anus.A now forums says saliva  not transmit HIV.A worried about same blood in his saliva when his fingering me, help.A have 6 weak test negative ressult.A don't see any blood in my anus after fingering.Thanks

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« Reply #36 on: September 08, 2009, 09:30:36 PM »
Return to your original thread. Take the time to read the posting guidelines of this forum.

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« Reply #37 on: September 08, 2009, 09:55:22 PM »
Help.

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« Reply #38 on: September 09, 2009, 05:16:59 AM »
Same wan help.Answer.

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« Reply #39 on: September 09, 2009, 06:46:06 AM »
Bah

I have merged your threads please keep all your questions in this thread from now on..thank you.

Nothing you have described has put you at risk for HIV..you have no need to worry, please read the lessons here on the forum on how HIV is and is not transmitted.

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« Reply #40 on: September 09, 2009, 04:06:21 PM »
Promise last wan...How about  when his fingering my anus with his saliva mix blood from his  mouth....Thanks...A worried other forums says fingering with saliva risk.....

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« Reply #41 on: September 09, 2009, 04:30:09 PM »
More no risk.

And now I am going to give you that Time Out for 28 days. You have been repeatedly warned about for coming back again with just one more question when you have been clearly told you that you weren't at risk.

Don't make the mistake of trying to get around the time out by creating another name. That will get picked up and you'll be permanently banned from the site.

You need to apply what has been said to you with thought instead of just allowing your latest scared moment to propel you into asking another question.
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