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Author Topic: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.  (Read 10992 times)

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Offline heartlessNhurt

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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #50 on: March 02, 2009, 01:39:06 PM »
I wanna say thank you to all the people that gave me advice.Im very sorry if you felt i desrespected you.Well my test results came back NEGATIVE that was my 13 weeks test.I was very relieved but i still cant believe it .The reason being because my body has aches all the time and i cant stop the aches and body get really hot if im cleaning or something ..What should i do ?...Is this test conclusive?..Please help me thank you.
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #51 on: March 02, 2009, 01:44:26 PM »
Yes it was conclusive, now move along.

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« Reply #52 on: March 03, 2009, 01:49:17 PM »
Thank you Rodney..Ok this question is for anyone who has some knowledge of hep C...I called the hospital who did my test the first time and asked if they tested for hep and they said no...Should i get these test done..why didnt the doctor do this test ?..and if i got hep does that mean i need to test for hiv again..i keep getting a sore throat and i feel real hot sometimes please give me long advice thank you
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #53 on: March 03, 2009, 02:31:45 PM »
This is an HIV forum. You have a conclusive negatiive HIV test result. You want to know about HCV you discuss it with your doctor. Now move on.

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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #54 on: March 03, 2009, 02:45:50 PM »
You need to discuss any symptoms that are bothering you with your doctor. This is an HIV-specific website and we cannot diagnose anything here.

What we can tell you AGAIN is you are conclusively and reliably HIV negative. Period. In the future you can protect that gift by always using a condom everytime you have vaginal or anal intercourse. NO EXCEPTIONS.
« Last Edit: March 03, 2009, 02:47:26 PM by Andy Velez »
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #55 on: March 05, 2009, 09:38:57 PM »
Hey i confused about the lessons on oral sex is this a risk for transmission of hiv?
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #56 on: March 06, 2009, 07:58:43 AM »
From time to time there are reports of transmission of HIV gotten from giving sex orally. They never seem to old up under careful examination scientifically. On the other hand there are longterm studies of sero-discordant couples, both gay and straight, who have had lots of mutual unprotected oral and only protected vaginal and anal intercourse. Not one negative partner has become infected.

Good sense does dictate that if you have very poor oral care or a bleeding wound in your mouth that giving oral is not the thing to do.

Otherwise your saliva contains over a dozen elements which are very effective at preventing the transmission of viable HIV.

Give it a rest now here and get on with your life. Seriously.
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #57 on: March 06, 2009, 05:25:03 PM »
my situation is after testing 13 weeks negative...i gave oral to the same guy what is my risk of hiv..need to test again?
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #58 on: March 07, 2009, 08:24:59 AM »
heartless,

Did you bother reading what Andy wrote to you (reply #56)? If you did, you'd know that you don't need to test over oral.

As you saw fit to ignore my instructions to you to not PM people over questions you should be asking here in your thread, I've removed your PM privilege.

If you insist on going on about this blowjob, you'll be given a time out.

You will NOT be warned again!

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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #59 on: March 13, 2009, 01:37:59 PM »
Wow.. Andy has some issues about compastion and respect... Wow.. to much ... I am out here... Ann I hope you do not have Children for you power play on this forum is most discerning in respect for people faith and questions and the red letters are truly most concerning ... and your words are full of angry and mis guided love. Now how do you like the pointing fingers at your soul...

Help and prayer this helps you work on peace, love and forgivness and I would suggest you see a theripist and that poz give you a time out.. ASAP

Peace.

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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #60 on: March 13, 2009, 01:39:05 PM »
Sorry Andy.. I ment to adress ANN.. for Andy seems to be the only centered moderator on the site...

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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #61 on: March 13, 2009, 01:40:57 PM »
Wow.. Andy has some issues about compastion and respect... Wow.. to much ... I am out here... Ann I hope you do not have Children for you power play on this forum is most discerning in respect for people faith and questions and the red letters are truly most concerning ... and your words are full of angry and mis guided love. Now how do you like the pointing fingers at your soul...

Help and prayer this helps you work on peace, love and forgivness and I would suggest you see a theripist and that poz give you a time out.. ASAP

Peace.

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« Reply #62 on: March 13, 2009, 01:49:53 PM »
Don't worry Rob.. this is misguided in my spirit... and hope compassion and kindness is in the teachings of the modrators in the future.  Wow.. to much... I truly will never refer any one to this fourm.. for if you and ANN had the chance to get a hammer over this fourm, I think you would hit people over the head for channleging this Gang.

Wow to much

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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #63 on: March 13, 2009, 02:01:51 PM »
FRedrick..why do you say the info is misleading ..are u sayin i do need to test ?
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #64 on: March 13, 2009, 02:07:25 PM »
MOVE ON. You already have a WARNING.

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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #65 on: March 13, 2009, 05:41:38 PM »
Heartless, no you absolutely DO NOT need to test. Period.  Frederick is not authorized to be responding in here and has been warned not to do so again in the future.

Now you need to get on with your life and stop indulging in a lot of unnecessary worry and drama about HIV when it is not an issue for you.

And you are going to get a Time Out for 28 days if you return again with this same groundless fear about HIV.
« Last Edit: March 13, 2009, 05:46:21 PM by Andy Velez »
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« Reply #66 on: March 13, 2009, 05:44:13 PM »
Frederick, I have already warned you in one of the other threads. You are on the verge of getting either a time out or being banned totally from this site. Stay out of the I AM INFECTED Forum. Period.

I trust that is clear enough.
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« Reply #67 on: March 23, 2009, 05:04:38 PM »
the test results didnt help me relieve my fears..i still think somthing is wrong..Me and my hubby trying to conceive but i think its not safe because i keep getting a single cold sore on my tongue..i know all you have great knowledge of these kind of things im asking for you opinion because i cant find the answer to my question...It is is oral herpes a single cold sore on the tongue and it keeps coming back ..and does this mean i should not conceive?
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Re: I need advice and im hopineing for mercy on my soul.
« Reply #68 on: March 23, 2009, 05:34:08 PM »
We deal specifically here with HIV. Period.

We don't diagnose symptoms of any kind. Instead of coming back here for something we aren't going to discuss with you, you need to be talking with your doctor(s) about your concern. If you do have herpes that has nothing to do with an ability to conceive and deliver a baby successfully.

You're HIV negative and that is  happy thing. It also means you have no justification to continue returning here with your problems, whatever they may be.

Move on and good luck to you.
Andy Velez

 


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