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Offline cindy

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Serious relationship
« on: June 25, 2010, 07:04:17 PM »
I feel very lonely and I think I am ready for a serious relationship, life is too short to be depressed with whatever has happened.  Which websites would you recommend?

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #1 on: June 25, 2010, 07:36:42 PM »
Have you considered Poz Personals?

Presuming you're from the States, of course. :)

MtD

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #2 on: June 25, 2010, 08:49:22 PM »
I feel very lonely and I think I am ready for a serious relationship, life is too short to be depressed with whatever has happened.  Which websites would you recommend?

The site Matty mentioned to you is a good start.  I used it for a while and met some interesting women.  I dated a few on and off then simply forgot about it.  I guess maybe a year went by (maybe shorter) when I noticed a notification in my email from Poz personals.  Curious, I went and checked it out.  It was a flirt from this cute little girl up the road from me with micro braids and the biggest smile that just seemed to light the day.  We met, dated, fell in love, she got pregnant, and then I married her..... just like that, maybe in different order though....

Anyways, give Poz a go.  Use the same precautions you would normally use to meet any other person (very important).  Just go in with few expectations and a fun attitude.

Good luck!!

Thomas
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #3 on: June 25, 2010, 08:52:23 PM »
That's a beautiful story Skeebo ---  :'(   I am tearing up.....   you should make a Lifetime movie of it  ;D
And you know I am playiing with you, right?    :)
September 13, 2008 - diagnosed +
Labs:
Date    CD4    %   VL     Date  CD4  %   VL
10/08  636    35  510   9/09 473  38 2900  12/4/09 Atripla
12/09  540    30    60   
12/10  740    41  <48   
8/11    667    36  <20  
03/12  1,041  42  <20
05/12  1,241  47  <20
08/12   780    37  <20
11/12   549    35  <20
02/12  1,102  42  <20
11/12   549    35  <20

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #4 on: June 25, 2010, 08:53:49 PM »
And you know I am playiing with you, right?    :)



MtD

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #5 on: June 25, 2010, 09:12:45 PM »
That's a beautiful story Skeebo ---  :'(   I am tearing up.....   you should make a Lifetime movie of it  ;D
And you know I am playiing with you, right?    :)

I could have gone into detail about the Jamaican girl who made fun of my antiques and turned her nose up at my backyard.  Or the 55 year old grandmother who wanted nothing but a sexual relationship, I gotta admit her nighty pics where pretty hot.  Oh, what about the African girl in Orlando who wanted to cheat on her husband..  And I will never forget the one who told me she would be the last person anyone would ever guess would get infected with HIV because she was such a good girl, but drew my suspicion when she said she would meet me at her door on her knees...

No lie dude....  I hear stories about people not getting any action, but I had a frigging blast (action or not).
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #6 on: June 25, 2010, 09:45:09 PM »
Okay, so I would now say scrap the Lifetime movie and maybe a made-for-tv movie on Comedy Central (based on those stories)  :o
September 13, 2008 - diagnosed +
Labs:
Date    CD4    %   VL     Date  CD4  %   VL
10/08  636    35  510   9/09 473  38 2900  12/4/09 Atripla
12/09  540    30    60   
12/10  740    41  <48   
8/11    667    36  <20  
03/12  1,041  42  <20
05/12  1,241  47  <20
08/12   780    37  <20
11/12   549    35  <20
02/12  1,102  42  <20
11/12   549    35  <20

Offline WillyWump

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #7 on: June 25, 2010, 10:21:17 PM »
Okay, so I would now say scrap the Lifetime movie and maybe a made-for-tv movie on Comedy Central (based on those stories)  :o

" drew my suspicion when she said she would meet me at her door on her knees..."

I vote for a Porno, Who wouldnt want to see Skeebs in a porno!

-Will
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6/3/14 CD4- 736, UD 34%
6/25/13 CD4- 1036, UD,
2/4/13, CD4 - 489, UD, 28%

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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #8 on: June 25, 2010, 10:26:39 PM »
" drew my suspicion when she said she would meet me at her door on her knees..."

I vote for a Porno, Who wouldnt want to see Skeebs in a porno!

-Will


Well if it was an antique porno, maybe . . .

MtD

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #9 on: June 25, 2010, 10:46:07 PM »
" drew my suspicion when she said she would meet me at her door on her knees..."

I vote for a Porno, Who wouldnt want to see Skeebs in a porno!

-Will


You make the call to Ebony Ayes and I am there!   I might be able to talk the wife into holding the camera if she knows how happy it would make me.
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.

Offline WillyWump

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #10 on: June 25, 2010, 10:47:17 PM »
You make the call to Ebony Ayes and I am there!   

...I'm on it.

POZ since '08

Last Labs-
6/3/14 CD4- 736, UD 34%
6/25/13 CD4- 1036, UD,
2/4/13, CD4 - 489, UD, 28%

Current Meds: Prezista/Epzicom/ Norvir
.

Offline Hellraiser

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #11 on: June 25, 2010, 10:50:37 PM »
You make the call to Ebony Ayes and I am there!   I might be able to talk the wife into holding the camera if she knows how happy it would make me.

Gabrielle Union and even I would watch...for some reason I find her unnaturally hot.  I think it's the attitude.

Offline red_Dragon888

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #12 on: June 26, 2010, 06:31:45 AM »
You guys always take a thread and twisted it inside out.  She was asking for help, not raunchy humor.  I hope you did not scare her off.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=I3ba3lnFHik

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Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #13 on: June 26, 2010, 06:56:11 AM »
You guys always take a thread and twisted it inside out.  She was asking for help, not raunchy humor.  I hope you did not scare her off.

Thank you Mr Gay Pride.

MtD

Offline red_Dragon888

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #14 on: June 27, 2010, 08:44:40 AM »
Thank you Mr Gay Pride.

MtD
Miss Bitch to you...  lol
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Offline cindy

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #15 on: June 28, 2010, 03:58:02 PM »
Thanks Red dragon888 for helping me out, they really didn't give me an answer, I felt discouraged coz I didn't get what they were talking about, was juz asking for a good dating website in the United Kingdom x

Offline phildinftlaudy

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #16 on: June 28, 2010, 04:03:29 PM »
Let's see - a quick google search turned up: positivesdating.com
I did keyword search on "hiv dating united kingdom" -- I'm sure that using other key words that are relevant to what you are searching for would probably turn up additional sites.
I think one of the initial posts mentioned Poz personals
As stated also in the one of the posts - exercise same amount of caution on any dating website (and sometimes even more) then one would in "real" life situations.

September 13, 2008 - diagnosed +
Labs:
Date    CD4    %   VL     Date  CD4  %   VL
10/08  636    35  510   9/09 473  38 2900  12/4/09 Atripla
12/09  540    30    60   
12/10  740    41  <48   
8/11    667    36  <20  
03/12  1,041  42  <20
05/12  1,241  47  <20
08/12   780    37  <20
11/12   549    35  <20
02/12  1,102  42  <20
11/12   549    35  <20

Offline cindy

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #17 on: June 28, 2010, 04:10:36 PM »
Thanks x

Offline red_Dragon888

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Re: Serious relationship
« Reply #18 on: June 29, 2010, 04:07:51 AM »
Thanks Red dragon888 for helping me out, they really didn't give me an answer, I felt discouraged coz I didn't get what they were talking about, was juz asking for a good dating website in the United Kingdom x
Your welcome Cindy.  Sometimes these threads get highjacked and go way off topic.  I think these guys or gals do it for laughs. Nothing personal, just their sense or humor.  ???

Some members mentioned "Poz Personals" which is on this web site. All you have to do to get there is to select community up above and then the tab personals. There you can open an account, describe yourself and put up a picture if you like. You can also do a search for people that are in you area. It is free and it is pretty good for meeting people. According to the site itself, it has been very successful in helping people find mates or matches.  I hear there was a marrage or two.  Well, I hope this helps and do not be discouraged.  I know there is someone out there waiting for you.   :)

red_Dragon888
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