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Offline nootkaensis

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masturbation
« on: January 18, 2009, 05:47:48 AM »
Hi
yesterday i masturbate with a man
i touched his penis and then mine
i let out some pre ejaculate fluids
but he didn't
no blood no severe on my hand or penis
is there any risk

Offline nootkaensis

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Re: handjob and aids
« Reply #1 on: January 18, 2009, 06:59:49 AM »
PLEASE SOMEBODY ANSWER ME

Offline RapidRod

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Re: handjob and aids
« Reply #2 on: January 18, 2009, 07:18:53 AM »
Your question was answered in another forum.

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Re: handjob and aids
« Reply #3 on: January 18, 2009, 09:31:18 AM »
Mutual masturbation is not a risk for HIV transmission. Even if precum and ejaculation occur it is STILL NOT a risk. And it's not a risk if his sperm gets on to your penis.

Sexually the risk for HIV transmission between men is through unprotected anal intercourse. It's just that simple. So if you find yourself getting into that, make sure that whoever is the insertive partner is always without exception wearing a latex condom.

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Offline nootkaensis

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masturbation
« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2009, 05:21:03 AM »
hello
before 3 weeks i had mutual masturbation with a possitive guy
i masturbate him and then my self
i dont know if he took off pre semen but after i rub very hard the top of my penis
and used my presemen and my saliva as lubricant
if he had pre semen or blood
then i could be infected if i rubbed my self hard and cause woonds on me
is that right?

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Re: masturbation
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2009, 06:00:15 AM »
noot,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

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You've already been told that you did NOT have a risk for hiv infection during mutual masturbation. It doesn't matter if the guy was positive. We base all our answers on the assumption that the person you've had contact with is hiv positive.

Ann
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Offline nootkaensis

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Re: masturbation
« Reply #6 on: February 08, 2009, 06:14:58 AM »
but after 3 weeks some spots appear on my handonly one not together
it last for hours or a day and then leaves
no pain i dont want to scratch it just appears and disappears
may be rashes from hiv?

Offline nootkaensis

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Re: masturbation
« Reply #7 on: February 08, 2009, 06:25:04 AM »
i cant let it out of my mind
i act like i am infected
i am engaged and i worry about my wife
i never did sex since then
i dont even touch her or kiss her
i am really afraid
i know i have to wait for test 9 weeks more

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Re: masturbation
« Reply #8 on: February 08, 2009, 06:43:59 AM »
Noot,

You do not have to wait nine weeks for a test. You don't need to test over this incident as you had NO RISK.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body during UNPROTECTED anal or vaginal INTERCOURSE. Masturbation takes place OUTSIDE the body and is NOT a risk for hiv infection.

As long as you've been using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, then you don't need to worry about hiv infection.

Whatever the spots were, they had nothing to do with hiv.

You touched another man's penis. Get over it. It's not a risk for hiv infection.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline nootkaensis

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Re: masturbation
« Reply #9 on: February 08, 2009, 07:36:16 AM »
i didnt just touch him
i masturbate him for 4 minutes and more
if he had pre semen and transfer them to my penis
which i rubbed it very hard on the top could pASS through my body
or through my urethra is that right?
the only i know is that he never touch my top of penis just base and balls(sorry)
and that he ejaculate on his own body no contact with me
but in a phone line for aids they asked me if he had pre semen and came on my penis or blood
which i dont know i didnt noticed them

thats why i worry about Ann
so do you still remain in your opinion that i have to forget it and no test needed?

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« Reply #10 on: February 08, 2009, 07:52:09 AM »
noot,

I understand that you masturbated him and that you're worried you got his cum or precum on your own penis. This is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not one person has EVER been infected this way and you won't be the first, I promise.

If you're worried about a rash or anything else going on with your body, see a doctor. It has NOTHING to do with hiv. You had NO RISK.

Keep posting over this NO RISK incident and you will be given a time out. If you've read the Welcome Thread like you've been asked to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Please consider yourself warned.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline nootkaensis

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Re: masturbation
« Reply #11 on: February 15, 2009, 11:56:13 AM »
sorry to reply again
but 4 weeks passed and now i have problem on my neck
seems my nose throws something on my neck which caused
inflammation of a phalanx which i read is a symptom of hiv

you told me that i didnt have a risk with pre semen on my top of my penis
and i dont have to be tested
but i cant let it go
the doctor gave me antibiotics for tha phalanx but after 3 days still tha problem remain
i am really scared i have 8 weeks still untill the end of window period
but i have already destroy my life with my wife



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Re: masturbation
« Reply #12 on: February 15, 2009, 12:33:38 PM »
noot,

Please re-read your entire thread.

If you feel unwell, see your doctor again. Whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv as you had no risk.

Dump the guilt. This is NOT an hiv situation.

If you continue to post about this NO RISK incident, you will be given a time out.

This is your last warning.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  



"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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