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Offline panic100

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risky oral
« on: January 03, 2009, 08:58:22 AM »
hi please help, am i infected. had oral sex from massage worker she was just getting over the shingles if that makes any diffrence,tested at 5 weeks and then again at 68 days both were negative for hiv1/2 and both came back negative,its 10 weeks and 2 days now and i feel so bad acking all over hands tingling seem to have swollen lymth nodes
am i over reacting i just cant stop thinking the worse can i carry on and have sex with my wife,i so stressed maybe all of this in just in my head
is the testing just as good here in thailand.
checked all std all neg
please reply

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #1 on: January 03, 2009, 09:47:25 AM »
panic,

Getting a blowjob is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Never has been, never will be. You tested negative because you do NOT have hiv. You do not need further testing.

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Offline panic100

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #2 on: January 03, 2009, 09:38:22 PM »
ok thanks just cant stop worring
what about these symptoms
its 10 weeks and 2 days now and i feel so bad acking all over hands tingling seem to have swollen lymth nodes could it start this late
sorry again for my fear

Offline RapidRod

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #3 on: January 04, 2009, 01:27:00 AM »
You didn't have a risk as Ann has already advised you.

Offline panic100

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #4 on: January 04, 2009, 05:58:20 AM »
thanks
is 10 weeks to late to get ars
and i dont need anymore testing
must be just that i am so stressed i am getting these symptoms
wish i could relaxe
thanks for help

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #5 on: January 04, 2009, 07:46:26 AM »
panic,

No, ARS doesn't start as late as ten weeks. Why would you have ARS anyway? You didn't have a risk. If getting a blowjob were any kind of hiv risk, we'd tell you so you could test at the end of the window period.

You don't have hiv and you don't need further testing over a NO RISK blowjob.

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. It's nothing to do with hiv. You don't have hiv!

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline panic100

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #6 on: January 05, 2009, 06:40:05 AM »
hi and thankyou ann

so nobody has got hiv from reciving oral, i mean a man getting a bj from a woman,so i have nothing to worry about.
and my 9 and a half weeks in 100% proof i dont have it.
sorry to carry on but my stres is getting the better of me
please reply
and i can try to move on then
any input from anybody would help

Offline RapidRod

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #7 on: January 05, 2009, 06:51:19 AM »
Please move on.

Offline panic100

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #8 on: January 08, 2009, 08:37:28 AM »
ok am trying to move but find it so hard
please can i get answers to the following just to put my mind at ease

so nobody has got hiv from reciving oral, i mean a man getting a bj from a woman,so i have nothing to worry about.
and my 9 and a half weeks in 100% proof i dont have it.
sorry to carry on but my stres is getting the better of me
please reply
and i can try to move on then
any input from anybody would help

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Re: risky oral
« Reply #9 on: January 08, 2009, 09:31:55 AM »
panic,

NOBODY has EVER been infected when they had their dick sucked and it doesn't matter if a man sucked dick or a woman sucked dick.

Your test is conclusive. You do NOT have hiv.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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