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Author Topic: Need your help again . New case!  (Read 2964 times)

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Offline iwillbeok

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Need your help again . New case!
« on: June 23, 2011, 08:51:00 PM »
Hello ,
Yesterday I had an Insertive oral sex with a woman i don't know her health stastus. She did bj for my friend before bj for me. i said her clean her mouth before do bj for me ( when i came home i knew it was a bad idea) .So clean her mouth by brushing and she had  bleeding gums by that. but we talked for 10 minute before she bj for me. She lick around my penis , anus and then she sucked for me. but I said her stop sucking for me , i remember that 1 minute for sucking. Then she did hj for me by her saliva ( maybe include her blood) until i ejacuated.
I knew that was a common question for oral sex. but you know everyone always scare to death. I'm streessing ,worried , scared , depressing and tired.
1. Does 10 minute is enough time for stop bleeding in her gums and healing her gum ?.
2.If it non stop , 1 minute i was sucked by her blood can lead to infected ?
3 HJ was shown no risk , what happend if she had blood on her hand ?
Thank you for supported me

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Re: Bleeding gums during oral sex
« Reply #1 on: June 24, 2011, 04:22:10 AM »
You never had an exposure from oral sex.

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Re: Bleeding gums during oral sex
« Reply #2 on: June 24, 2011, 09:21:02 AM »
iwill,

Getting a blowjob is absolutely NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

Unless you're in the habit of repeatedly punching a person in the mouth before they blow you, there could not possibly be enough blood present in order to pose any risk to you.

You're worrying needlessly about a NO RISK blowjob.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER A BLOWJOB, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

Ann
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Re: Bleeding gums during oral sex
« Reply #3 on: June 24, 2011, 09:27:53 PM »
Hi Ann and rapid. Thank for help.but i came to the hospital and the doctor /expert said that don't have any proof /evidence about saliva can hurt HIV and make it deactve.also he said that all the history of HIV ,there are 19 case HIV by oral sex but can't not confirm. Can u tell me which studies show saliva damage HIV ? Thank

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Re: Bleeding gums during oral sex
« Reply #4 on: June 25, 2011, 08:50:06 AM »
I know you felt boring , tired when u saw my common question. But I'm very freaked out please help me. Everyday I suffer on websites , on google to see my case. more time I spend on it more fear I got

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Re: Bleeding gums during oral sex
« Reply #5 on: June 25, 2011, 09:40:19 AM »
iwill,

You need to realise that these UNCONFIRMED reports of oral transmission involved men who suck other men's penises. There has NEVER been a single instance of hiv infection resulting from BEING sucked, confirmed, unconfirmed, or otherwise. Your doctor needs to re-educate himself where hiv is concerned.

Getting your dick sucked is NOT going to result in hiv infection. No way, no how.

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HIV and saliva
An article from "The Molecules of HIV" (c) Dan Stowell
www.mcld.co.uk/hiv
Occasionally I'm asked about whether HIV is present in an HIV-positive person's saliva, and whether it carries a risk of transmission.
The short answer is that saliva virtually never carries any infectious HIV at all.
It does carry detectable "components" of HIV (such as viral RNA and proviral DNA), but these are not infectious on their own. The environment that saliva provides is far too harsh for infectious particles to remain intact and viable.
There are a number of possible mechanisms that have been suggested, which might explain why saliva seems to be so good at destroying HIV. Specific enzymes present in saliva may be important, or the effect of antibodies in saliva. Additionally, the saliva is "hypotonic" and has a tendency to disrupt any cells which may be floating around in it. It's pretty much certain that it's the combination of these factors that mean HIV is not transmitted in saliva.
It may seem strange that such a dangerous virus can't survive in something as "harmless" as saliva. In fact, saliva is a part of the body's natural defences against infection. Additionally, remember that the HIV virus is actually quite fragile.
More information:
.   Shugars DC, Sweet SP, Malamud D, Kazmi S, Page-Shafer K, Challacombe SJ (2002)
.   Saliva and inhibition of HIV-1 infection: molecular mechanisms.
.   Oral Diseases 8: 169-175 Suppl. 2 2002
.   Baron S, Poast J, Cloyd MW (1999)
.   Why is HIV rarely transmitted by oral secretions? Saliva can disrupt orally shed, infected leukocytes.
Archives of Internal Medicine 159 (3): 303-310

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http://www.mcld.co.uk/hiv/?q=HIV%20and%20saliva


with thanks to jkinalt2

If you read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or NO RISK SITUATION, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.


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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline iwillbeok

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Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #6 on: September 11, 2011, 06:42:20 AM »
Hello Ann and Andy . After your last help I was confident myself but 2 week ago I can' t control myself . So I do oral sex again with that girl but I also used condom . During this os , I touch inside her vargina  by middle finger . After that I use tissue to wash my hand and my penis and 1/2 min later I used that finger to rubbing my eye because itchy . I felt guilty , crime when I come home. I notice that my middle finger was got heat burn by flames ( small area 1cm ) 1 or 2  day ago . I used gel medicine to first aid and  that gel was good because next day I forgot my burning finger no pain , no water under skin ( I mean if don't use that gel next day I will see white skin and fluid under skin at that heat burn) . But after 6 days at heat burn ,I still got white skin and 2 day late that skin remove for new skin. Sr I had written some thing not important but I got fear . I just want u know details my situation . Summary, I had 2 question : 1 . Does It is a risk if my nail still contain her vagina fluid and rubbing my eye.                                                                         2 . Does it is also risk if my burning finger ( i had written upper ) touch inside her vagina                                                       Now I got light sick , ulcer on mouth .pls answer me .

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #7 on: September 11, 2011, 08:58:07 AM »
■Please do not start a new thread every time you have another question or thought - regardless if you think your questions are related to each other or not. It helps us to help you when you keep all your thoughts or questions in one thread and it helps other readers to follow the discussion. Additional threads will be merged.


■If you cannot find your thread, click on the "Show own posts" link in the left-hand column of any forum page, under your name.

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #8 on: September 11, 2011, 09:41:31 AM »
iwill,


I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep everything in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.






No, rubbing your eye after fingering is not a risk for hiv infection and neither is fingering with a slight burn on your finger.

You have not had a risk and you do not need to test.

Please re-read your entire thread.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!!!
Condoms are a girl's best friend

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline iwillbeok

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #9 on: September 11, 2011, 10:06:39 AM »
Thank Ann and Rod,
1 I'm sorry my fault about post new thread next time i will concentrate it .
2 "neither" mean same " no risk" right , sr i'm my limit language.Can you show me some same topic , information relevant my case ? ( i'm still care about it because i read that regular about finger is scratch, open wound , bleeding but my case is burn and no one talk, write  it before ).

Thank again your help

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #10 on: September 11, 2011, 10:24:20 AM »
iwill,

You have not had a risk for hiv infection. It's that simple. No risk.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline iwillbeok

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #11 on: September 12, 2011, 05:10:15 AM »
so i don't need test for this new case  ? my last test for oral sex unprotected is 9 weeks and it negative .
Sorry because i ask that unnessessary question , i just want to sure that i'm will not catch hiv.
thank ann

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #12 on: September 12, 2011, 05:14:27 AM »
Reread the response Ann has already given you.

You have not had a risk for hiv infection. It's that simple. No risk.

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #13 on: September 12, 2011, 08:00:06 AM »
How much clearer can we make it that you did not have a risk. No risk equals no need for testing.

If you come back about this same non-risk incident again you are going to get a Time Out from the site. Consider yourself warned. HIV is not your problem. And as long as you consistently use condoms for intercourse and don't share intravenous needles you will not have an HIV problem. It really is just that simple.
Andy Velez

Offline iwillbeok

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #14 on: September 12, 2011, 08:42:16 PM »
Ok . I'll try to go through my fear . Thank for your help . Good luck everyone in this site

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Re: Need your help again . New case!
« Reply #15 on: September 12, 2011, 09:56:48 PM »
OK. Get on with your life...
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