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Offline todd2706

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cum inside...
« on: November 17, 2008, 09:39:59 AM »
hello,
I had protected oral and intercourse but I cum inside her vaginal (at a massage parlor), and I am very worry that I might get infected, condom might break or so... please share. thanks.
II am very sorry that I  used this forum a few years ago, but i forgot my username and password, so i created this new account.

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #1 on: November 17, 2008, 10:40:21 AM »
Todd,

You were probably a member when we had different forum software. Everyone had to re-register when we changed.

As you were here before, I have to say I'm disappointed that you didn't learn that condoms prevent hiv infection. It doesn't matter whether you came or not, the important thing is that you wore a condom. If it broke, you would have known as a broken condom is VERY obvious.

It sounds like you need a refresher course, so along with reading the Transmission Lesson linked to in our Welcome Thread, here's what else you need to know in order to remain hiv negative.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER THIS SPECIFIC, PROTECTED INCIDENT, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple.

Ann
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Offline todd2706

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2008, 10:10:04 PM »
hello again,
thanks for your reply Ann, but i'm very worry that i might got infected. after 7 hrs of the intercourse, i got up in the morning with stuffy nose and hoarse voice, and around noon i got a headache, but the headache gone when i showered after work. I noticed joint paint and muscle-ache occasionally. Until today, which is 3 day after intercourse, still with hoarse voice and... overall, my body is not the same as before the intercourse. I'm not sure if i used the condoms correctly, it was too dark that i can't see whether it's broken or not.

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #3 on: November 20, 2008, 03:38:51 AM »
Your signs and symptoms have nothing to do with HIV. You had protected sex which prevented you from contracting HIV.

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« Reply #4 on: November 20, 2008, 06:58:28 AM »
todd,

Guess what, mate, it's cold and flu season.

The timing alone proves it's not hiv. Hiv symptoms could not possibly come on so quickly. It takes around two weeks for any symptoms to surface, if any noticeable symptoms happen in the first place. Many, if not most, people have no seroconversion symptoms at all. Symptoms or even the lack of symptoms mean NOTHING when it comes to hiv infection.

You didn't have a risk. End of story.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #5 on: December 05, 2008, 12:43:43 AM »
hello,
I'm so sorry to bother you guys, but as of today I still have all the the flu like symptoms, white tongue, white spots in the mouth, joint paint, stuff nose and hoarse voice come and go, feel fine for one day and feel sick again the next day or so, what is going on? It has been almost 3 wks and i'm still feeling very weird. I have it rash that come and go as well, have it at night around 9 pm and gone in the morning. Swollen nodes on my back, how does HIV swollen nodes look like by the way and have brown dots on my hands, face and body, (they look like moles). I'm so sorry guys, you guys mention symptoms or lack of symptoms doesn't mean anything, but this really bother me and everything i look up online is referring to HIV infection. Thanks for you help.

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #6 on: December 05, 2008, 01:02:58 AM »
As you already have been told you did not have a risk of contracting HIV. If you are concerned about your symptoms see your doctor HIV is not the cause.

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2009, 09:19:12 PM »
hello,
happy new year to all. I was just wondering about my situation, today is my 8 wks after my possible exposure, i decided to go for an hiv rapid test (swab around my upper and lower gum) and got the result in 20 minutes and a negative result. I was just wondering how accurate is this result? The woman (who tested me) told me that it's about 99.6% accurate. Do I need to go an actual blood test to be more accurate? thank you.

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #8 on: January 16, 2009, 09:35:00 PM »
You're not listening to what's been said to you. You never needed to test since you didn't have a risk to begin with so it's no surprise that you tested negative.

You ARE HIV negative. There's no need for further testing. Period. End of story. Really.
Andy Velez

Offline todd2706

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #9 on: February 11, 2009, 08:37:52 PM »
hello everyone,
I just wanted to let everyone know that i tested negative today at 12 wks, so i guess i do not need to get tested again. Thank you so much to all the mods for your advices, you guys really supported me throughout the past 3 months. I just wanted to share with everyone that stress can cause lots of symptoms, swollen nodes, rash, sore throat, muscles ache and etc and everything leads to the HIV as I looked on the internet, so please try to listen to the Anne, Rapid Rod, Andy and all the mods on here. I'm just being hard headed for not listening to the mods and keep on testing, sorry mods. Take care everyone.

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #10 on: February 11, 2009, 10:26:25 PM »
Congratulations on that happy result. No further testing is necessary.

Just make sure that you protect that gift by always using condoms for vaginal or anal intercourse.

Cheers.
Andy Velez

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Re: cum inside...
« Reply #11 on: March 03, 2009, 03:54:19 PM »
hi everyone, how's everyone doing? i went for full stds panel yesterday, i got my result today and it said: TREPONEMA PALLIDUM IGG+IGM, your value non reac, standard range nonreac- thanks for your help.

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« Reply #12 on: March 03, 2009, 05:05:24 PM »
Todd,

That means you're also negative for syphilis.

It's time you got on with your life, remembering to always use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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