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Offline lami76

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2 bad experiences
« on: October 23, 2008, 10:08:24 AM »
Dear Experts

Last night I used my friend bed , and usually I sleep without any cloth on me so all my body specially my genital was in direct contact with bed , but at morning I mentioned some spots on the bed , so to know it was what I smell it and I touch by hand , then I touch my eyes .

Talking with my friend I asked him about those spots on his bed , so he start to laugh and say that hours before using this bed , he was making sex with her girl friend and some vaginal fluid and sperm touch the bed.

My question is : any risk to be infected by HIV from this incident  if sperm was dry or not?? knowing that my friend is sexually active and I don’t like to ask people about personal things , like “ using condoms or testing or having any high risk experience “ , so my question is based on : my friend or her girl friend having HIV.

The second incident i was in a motel , and When I went inside my room , I cut my finger with the light switch , because there was in plastic and broken , but at same time I mentioned brown  blood on it , so sure another person cut also his finger as I do , I cleaned with some water and a tissue .

My question is what if the peron who cut his finger have HIV , any risk ?

Thank You

Lami

Offline RapidRod

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #1 on: October 23, 2008, 10:11:51 AM »
You were never at risk and you've already been advised in another forum.

Offline lami76

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #2 on: October 23, 2008, 10:25:20 AM »
Thank You

Can I have an explanation for both of my incident ?

Lami

Offline RapidRod

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #3 on: October 23, 2008, 10:26:53 AM »
Go to the "Welcome" thread and click on the link that takes you to the transmission lessons.

Offline lami76

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #4 on: October 23, 2008, 10:33:46 AM »
I did , but they are not talking about similar incidents !!

Any Help Plz

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #5 on: October 23, 2008, 10:38:55 AM »
You are worrying needlessly. HIV is a fragile virus which is absolutely not transmitted from the surface of objects like sheets, doorknobs, furniture, clothing, haircut nicks at the barbershop and other common situations like that.

HIV needs a very receptive setting to transmit as in unprotected vaginal or anal intercourse.

As I said, you have nothing to worry about. Let it go and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline lami76

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #6 on: October 23, 2008, 10:51:29 AM »
Thank You

So i have no risk and i can continue my life without any fear and make sex with my wife without protection ?

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #7 on: October 23, 2008, 11:05:31 AM »
lami,

You had no risk. Go have sex with your wife and get on with your life.

Ann
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Offline lami76

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #8 on: October 24, 2008, 06:44:42 AM »
Thanks All For Your Replies .

i m Convinced 100% , but my concerns that i think there was some menstrual blood with the vaginal fluid on bed , and i smell it and touche it by hand then touch my eyes !!

Lami

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #9 on: October 24, 2008, 07:10:04 AM »
Lami,

If doesn't matter if there was menstrual blood on the sheets. As you have been told, hiv cannot be transmitted from items in the environment.

It doesn't matter how many times you ask this question, or how many different details you tell us, the answers are going to be the same. You CANNOT become infected with hiv through touching your eye after touching any body fluids which are on something like a sheet, table, doorknob, lightswitch, underwear, glasses, knives, forks, spoons, cups, plates.... anything you can dream up.

Hiv is transmitted INSIDE the human body - when people have unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. Use condoms, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple! Read through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use them with confidence.

Ann
« Last Edit: October 24, 2008, 07:11:54 AM by Ann »
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HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline lami76

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #10 on: October 28, 2008, 04:32:59 AM »
Dear All

One last question :

What if somebody when he was throwing something on a garbage the hand stuck on a needle , a very small amount of blood went out , any risk of contracting HIV ? sure it was a drug user syringue !

I had this incident 6 months ago !

Thank You

Offline Ann

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #11 on: October 28, 2008, 05:32:38 AM »
lami,

NO.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline lami76

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #12 on: October 28, 2008, 05:47:59 AM »
Sorry Ann , I used the wrong word , I mean to be infected !!!

You said No , but this scenario is not similar as “ the med cares workers “ scenarios ?

Thank You

Offline Ann

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #13 on: October 28, 2008, 06:23:07 AM »
Lami,

No, it's nothing like a needle-stick in a medical setting.

If you're worried, go test. Don't be surprised by your negative result.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

Offline lami76

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #14 on: October 30, 2008, 05:15:32 AM »
One last question

What if 2 persons trying to catch a flying sharp object , both of them cut hands at the same time , Any risk to catch HIV.?? the sharp thing was a knife that a friend throw it we tried to catch it !:(

Based on your archive you ll tell me that HIV don’t survive as long outside body , so there s no risk , but my case was without any laps of time , it was at same time , so no time to the virus to be inactive ??

Lami

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Re: 2 bad experiences
« Reply #15 on: October 30, 2008, 06:20:57 AM »
Lami,

Again, NO RISK.

These questions you're bringing here are all about hiv phobia and not actual hiv transmission. We've already told you how hiv is and is not transmitted. If you can't put your fears behind you, seek face-to-face counseling. We cannot help you with that here.

If you've read the Welcome Thread before posting like you're supposed to, you will have read the following posting guideline:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

If you keep coming back here with these no-risk environmental-object questions, you'll be given a time out. Please consider yourself warned.

Ann
Condoms are a girl's best friend

Condom and Lube Info  



"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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