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Offline montreal

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cSW desaster
« on: October 21, 2008, 04:13:45 PM »
Hi! everyone,

Approximately 2 months ago I had an encounter with a csw, we used a condom but at one point the condom came off when she got off from on top of me. I'm trying to replay the scenario over and over again and trying to figure out when the condom came off.

I distictively saw the lining of the condom sticking out (maybe an inch sticking out) from her vagina when she got off, she did not have to stick her fingers insider to remove it.

I'm not sure if I was inside unprotected

I know symptoms are not reliable but can ARS symptoms start at 6 weeks. I had a cold and persistant headache for two weeks, (6 weeks after the encounter.)

Thank you in advance

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #1 on: October 21, 2008, 04:20:04 PM »
You lost the condom due to not holding on to the condom when withdrawing. You were never at risk of contracting HIV.

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #2 on: October 21, 2008, 04:28:12 PM »
If the Condom was still inside her and was intact then you were never at risk, this is not an HIV situation, all you need to know how to use a condom properly when withdrawing.

Jan

Edited to add..didn't see Rapidrods responce to you before replying...trust him he knows what he is talking about.
« Last Edit: October 21, 2008, 04:31:03 PM by anniebc »
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Offline montreal

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #3 on: October 21, 2008, 04:52:31 PM »
thank you both for your response

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #4 on: October 21, 2008, 05:07:43 PM »
Nothing you are reporting symptomatically is in anyway HIV-specific. That's no surprise since you didn't do anything that put you at risk for HIV transmission. Period.
Andy Velez

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #5 on: October 22, 2008, 05:16:45 AM »
montreal,

I agree with the others that you had no risk in this instance. However, you would be wise to read through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms correctly and avoid scaring yourself again in future.

And by the way, it's not only sex workers you need to be using condoms with. You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER THIS SPECIFIC INCIDENT, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple.

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Offline montreal

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #6 on: November 27, 2008, 08:26:10 PM »
I just got my result today (3 months from my exposure) and as you guys said, it was negative for both HIV1 & HIV2 as well as for syphylis. I have to wai a couple fo days for the other stds. I had a full blood work prior to my encounter with the csw and I had a clean bill of health so I knew that if I caught something it would have been from this particular event.

I had mycondoms but the csw wanted to use her's but when the condom came off I saw it was a larger side than from what I usually use.

I would like to thank all of you for your support and my hearth and prayers goes to you all.

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #7 on: November 28, 2008, 08:02:23 AM »
The important thing is you used a condom. And that you're HIV negative. Period. Larger or not, your penis was covered,  which is the important thing. 

Hopefully now you will get on with your life. 
Andy Velez

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another exposure (needle) after one day conclusive result
« Reply #8 on: November 30, 2008, 09:46:26 AM »
Hi! I'm back again after I got my 3 months conclusive test. Yesterday I went to the store to buy some gloves. I got the gloves and paid at the counter. On my way out a man was standing behind a table asking for a donation to go towards HIV/Aids research. I gave him the money I had left and he gave me the red ribbon that we see in posters for the fight against aids. The red ribbon had a needle stuck to it to hold it in place.

I took the ribbon and put it in my pocket. 2 hrs later I went back outside and put my hand in my pocket and stuck myself with the needle that was on the red ribbon. I completely forgot that I had put the ribbon in my coat.

The needle was straight, I know that HIv is a fragile virus but would 2 hrs be sufficient to kill the virus if the needle had the HIV virus.

Was I at risk if the needle was contaminated.

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Re: another exposure (needle) after one day conclusive result
« Reply #9 on: November 30, 2008, 10:44:21 AM »
Your questions will not be answered until you return to your orginal thread. Please take time to read the posting guidelines in the "Welcome" thread.

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #10 on: November 30, 2008, 10:52:35 AM »
Mont, I have merged your threads. Please follow our rule and keep all of your entries in this same thread.

Once again you are worrying needlessly. There was absolutely no risk for transmission in this latest "incident."' Zero risk. HIV is not transmitted through such environmental objects. Perhaps you're mixing this up with the sharing of intravenous needles, which is a dangerous risk for transmission. 
Andy Velez

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #11 on: November 30, 2008, 10:54:59 AM »
I didn't read the welcome thread so I re-posted an eposure I had yesterday. I hope I got it right this time

 Yesterday I went to the store to buy some gloves. I got the gloves and paid at the counter. On my way out a man was standing behind a table asking for a donation to go towards HIV/Aids research. I gave him the money I had left and he gave me the red ribbon that we see in posters for the fight against aids. The red ribbon had a needle stuck to it to hold it in place.

I took the ribbon and put it in my pocket. 2 hrs later I went back outside and put my hand in my pocket and stuck myself with the needle that was on the red ribbon. I completely forgot that I had put the ribbon in my coat.

The needle was straight, I know that HIv is a fragile virus but would 2 hrs be sufficient to kill the virus if the needle had the HIV virus.

Was I at risk if the needle was contaminate

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #12 on: November 30, 2008, 11:00:45 AM »
I've just told you as clearly as I could that you were not at risk in that kind of everyday sort of situation. You seem to be wired at this moment to anticipate the worst as far as HIV risk. All without any basis in HIV science I might add.

This latest was a no risk situation. How much clearly than that can I say it?
Andy Velez

Offline montreal

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #13 on: November 30, 2008, 11:12:02 AM »
sorry Andy, I posted it again while you merge the threads this is why my question is showing twice.

Thank you again for your response

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Re: cSW desaster
« Reply #14 on: November 30, 2008, 11:19:03 AM »
You're welcome. Get on with your life now.
Andy Velez

 


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