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Offline kortoban

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Please evaluate my risk...
« on: September 24, 2008, 08:58:54 AM »
Please help me, i'm very depress here. I have this encounter 6 weeks ago. I have sex with this escort girl. At that time i have 3 sores in my mouth (no bleeding). i lick her nipples (dry nipple). Is it possible to get HIV this way? And after a vaginal penetration sex (with condom), she help me hand job and blow job with the condom still on my penis later however, she took off the condom and continue with the hand job only for few minutes (i didn't ejaculate as i freak out and my penis stop erect). Is it possible the vaginal fluid on her hand (which is contacted through the condom) will transmit HIV during hand job without condom?

I have HIV tested a week later and it is negative but i doubt the result. Please advise me. Since then, i experience

diarrea 3 days after possible infection (after that no more),

lump sensation without pain on my throat which can't be feel on the morning but get worse when day progress (for 2 weeks i think),

canker sores,

Fordyce's condition on lips,

sometimes discomfort under arm pits (is it cause by swolen nodes?),

arms and legs muscle discomfort (it occur randomly for a short period of time)

now i have this tiny red dot under my skin, it's like blood clot

Aren't these ARS symptoms? I'm really stress and anxious. I either don't get enough sleep during weekday or too much sleep during weekends. Significant drop on job performace also.

I'm going to test again this weekend which is after 6th weeks. Please give me some advise. Thank you.

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #1 on: September 24, 2008, 09:16:23 AM »
NO! Those aren't ARS symptoms.

You used a condom for intercourse (and unnecesarrily for receiving oral sex), which is exactly what you are supposed to do. Condoms provide very effective protection. They work whether you are with a professional or a civilian. Condoms don't care who you're with. 

Nothing you did sexually put you at risk for HIV transmission. Period.

If you have troubling symptoms that's something you should discuss with your doctor. There was no need to test over this incident and no need to test again. All of the symptoms and details you are throwing into the mix are completely irrelevant. Read my lips: NO RISK FOR HIV this time. 

We do suggest that anyone who's sexually active ought to at least annually have a full STD panel done because other STDs are much easier to acquire than HIV.

But as far as HIV in relation to this incident, you are worrying needlessly. 
Andy Velez

Offline kortoban

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #2 on: September 24, 2008, 09:27:39 AM »
Thank you for your reply. Is testing after 6 weeks exposure conclusive? I read a lot of website saying 3 months is conclusive. I need to test to clear my anxiety other wise i will be keep on worrying everyday.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #3 on: September 24, 2008, 09:32:29 AM »
6 weeks for you would be conclusive, because you didn't have a risk. Had you had a risk 3 months would be conclusive.

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #4 on: September 24, 2008, 09:47:27 AM »
kort,

You've already been told on at least two different internet hiv forums that you didn't have a risk. You won't get a different answer here. You did NOT have a risk in anything you did with the sex worker.

You will not be permitted to use this forum to go on and on about your no-risk event.

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Offline kortoban

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #5 on: September 24, 2008, 10:33:06 AM »
again, thank you for the advice. I'm going to get a test this Saturday. I hope it will end my dramatic ordeal here. I will post my result once i get it. Again, thank you.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #6 on: September 24, 2008, 12:40:11 PM »
Your "dramatic ordeal" is a totally self-imposed one. You didn't have any risk and you have no real reason for testing other than to hopefully put an end to this drama with the inevitable negative result.
Andy Velez

Offline kortoban

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #7 on: September 28, 2008, 11:50:31 AM »
Hi,

I'm going to take my test result tomorrow. Hope everything will be fine. I'm still not feeling well, not as bad as compare to the first few weeks. I still have uncomfortable armpit.It doesn't pain, just uncomfortable with numbness here and there....

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #8 on: September 28, 2008, 12:59:33 PM »
Based on what you have reported, your getting a negative result is a slam dunk.
Andy Velez

Offline kortoban

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #9 on: September 29, 2008, 05:50:32 AM »
Hi, i got my test result this afternoon. It's negative. Thank god. The blood is taken on the 43th day after possible infection. So i'm pretty sure it is final. But i think that this 43 days of constant stress, anxiety and depression has already  taken a big toll on my body. I still experiencing armpit uncomfortable sensation and arm numbness. Guess i need some good rest. I'll never repeat my mistake again as i sure that i cannot take another blow. Thanks for the supports during my hard time.

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Re: Please evaluate my risk...
« Reply #10 on: September 29, 2008, 06:18:22 AM »
korto,

As you didn't have a risk, you don't need further testing over this incident. You ARE hiv negative. It's time to move on with your life.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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