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Author Topic: Need some advice here.  (Read 1761 times)

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Offline abecon

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Need some advice here.
« on: September 11, 2008, 11:27:04 PM »
I know this is probably one of the 1,000,000 strip club threads, but I guess here's one more.  I went to a strip club several weeks ago.  While I was getting a lap dance, I felt the stripper's breasts and I felt something like a scar.  I'm not sure if it was a scar or maybe she was wearing pasties.  What do you guys think it was??

What if it was a scar (maybe from plastic surgery or something) and she was bleeding?  I also had some small cuts on my hand.  I know you guys will say the risk is ZERO because it didn't involve sex or needle-sharing.  But if she was bleeding and I touched the blood with the cuts on my hand, isn't that a risk?  I am freaking out.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Need some advice here.
« Reply #1 on: September 12, 2008, 12:13:20 AM »
I would suggest you go read the replies that was given to the rest of the strip club and lap dance posters.

Offline abecon

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Re: Need some advice here.
« Reply #2 on: September 12, 2008, 01:01:35 AM »
anyone else have advice?

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Re: Need some advice here.
« Reply #3 on: September 12, 2008, 02:18:50 AM »
This is a no risk situation..please go back and read theWelcome Thread  and follow the lesssons on how HIV is and is not transmitted.

Jan
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Offline Ann

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Re: Need some advice here.
« Reply #4 on: September 12, 2008, 08:22:26 AM »
abe,

Do you seriously think if the woman was bleeding from recent surgery she'd allow you to touch her? Come on man, use your head. The big one on top of your shoulders, not the little guy.

Even if you did touch her blood, you would not have had a risk for hiv infection.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER THIS INCIDENT, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple.

Ann
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Offline abecon

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Re: Need some advice here.
« Reply #5 on: September 14, 2008, 12:53:46 AM »
Thanks.  I'm going to try and put this out of my head, but it's so hard.  I keep thinking of the 'what ifs'.

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Re: Need some advice here.
« Reply #6 on: September 14, 2008, 08:52:36 AM »
Get into the habit of just noticing the what ifs, taking a breath and moving on to the next moment in your life. Gradually the what ifs will become less powerful and scary. This is not an HIV situation. Period.
Andy Velez

 


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