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Offline help11

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hello every body i need your help
« on: September 10, 2008, 09:35:55 AM »
Hi everybody please help me. About 1 and half day ago we went to stripclub we picked up girl brought her back to the hotel. When she came found out she was a druggie. So what me and her did was we french kissed, she also gave me a hand job and she licked my dick for 1 min and she took a little bit in. She also had piercing on her lip and tongue. She was naked the only thing she had was her thong on and the only thing i had was my boxer. She was smoking weed the whole night and also doing cocaine. Help me please.

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #1 on: September 10, 2008, 09:57:53 AM »
You were never at risk of contracting HIV. Take the time to read the lesson session. You can find the link in the "Welcome" thread.

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #2 on: September 10, 2008, 10:02:55 AM »
Help,

As Rodney says, you didn't have a risk in anything you did with the stripper. Saliva is not infectious, so neither kissing nor getting a blowjob are risks. It doesn't matter about her piercings, not one person has ever been infected by either route and you will not be the first.

In addition to reading the Transmission Lesson linked to in our Welcome Thread, here's what you need to know in order to remain hiv negative. And remember, these things apply no matter who you're with, stripper or next-door neighbour.

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER THIS SPECIFIC INCIDENT, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #3 on: September 10, 2008, 01:16:28 PM »
Do you think i need to test for hiv over this and i think my penis also touched her vagina. Also touched her vagina and then touched my penis. This is my 2nd sexual experience. They were both oral sex receiving. 

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #4 on: September 10, 2008, 01:47:25 PM »
Do you think i need to test for hiv over this and i think my penis also touched her vagina. Also touched her vagina and then touched my penis. This is my 2nd sexual experience. They were both oral sex receiving.


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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #5 on: September 10, 2008, 02:00:04 PM »
Reread the replies you have been given. "You did not have a risk."

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #6 on: September 10, 2008, 02:46:58 PM »
Hey everybody just to add something. Call this whatever you wanna call before starting the night we went to chinese restaurant and at the end of the meal we got the fortune cookies and the one i got it said don't take unnecessary risk.

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #7 on: September 10, 2008, 03:03:19 PM »
help,

What on earth does a fortune cookie have to do with anything?

Your penis touching the outside of her genitals is something called frottage. Frottage is not a risk for hiv infection. You touching her then touching yourself is also not a risk for hiv infection.

Hiv transmission happens INSIDE the human body, as in UNPROTECTED anal or vaginal intercourse.

Please re-read my entire first post to you. I got a fortune cookie last week that said "Silly person repeats to one who does not listen". I'm not going to keep repeating myself with you. You didn't have a risk. Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you won't have one in future either.

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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #8 on: September 10, 2008, 03:05:19 PM »
Hey everybody just to add something. Call this whatever you wanna call before starting the night we went to chinese restaurant and at the end of the meal we got the fortune cookies and the one i got it said don't take unnecessary risk.

What if there was blood in her mouth she was smoking weed wouldn't that dry up saliva.

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« Reply #9 on: September 10, 2008, 03:09:08 PM »
What if there was blood in her mouth she was smoking weed wouldn't that dry up saliva.

Forgot to mention that she was on her period.

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« Reply #10 on: September 10, 2008, 03:13:45 PM »
help,

Unless you're in the habit of repeatedly punching people in the mouth before they blow you, you can forget about the whole "blood in the mouth" crap.

Getting a blowjob is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not one person has ever been infected this way and you won't be the first.

So what if she was on her period? You didn't have unprotected vaginal intercourse with her. You did NOT HAVE A RISK~!

Please make sure you read the posting guidelines linked to in our Welcome Thread. You will NOT be permitted to go on and on about your NO RISK incident.


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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #11 on: September 10, 2008, 03:34:45 PM »
Ok then from this incident do i need to worry about getting hiv test and what std should i worry about.

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« Reply #12 on: September 10, 2008, 03:35:50 PM »
Ok then from this incident do i need to worry about getting hiv test and what std should i worry about.

And what about french kissing deep.

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Re: hello every body i need your help
« Reply #13 on: September 10, 2008, 03:36:42 PM »
MOVE ON.

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« Reply #14 on: September 10, 2008, 03:45:05 PM »
move on without any worries right.

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« Reply #15 on: September 10, 2008, 04:22:58 PM »
That's right. Yours was a non-risk incident including deep kissing. Period.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #16 on: September 10, 2008, 04:30:18 PM »
What about other std's.


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« Reply #17 on: September 10, 2008, 05:39:50 PM »
This is an HIV forum not an STD forum. Look elsewhere.

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« Reply #18 on: September 10, 2008, 05:43:06 PM »
Thank you help was greatly appreciated.


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« Reply #19 on: September 10, 2008, 06:17:13 PM »
If you have any reason to believe you have a problem with other STDs you should consult your doctor.

For sure you are worrying needlessly about HIV.
Andy Velez

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« Reply #20 on: September 10, 2008, 10:34:37 PM »
Just one last time

kissing what if there was blood she had tongue and lip piercing

oral sex what if there was blood she had tongue and lip piercing

my penis rubbing against her vagina

last time.


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« Reply #21 on: September 10, 2008, 11:17:16 PM »
HIV has never been documented as having been transmitted through the methods  you describe.

You are not at risk for HIV through the activities you describe.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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« Reply #22 on: September 11, 2008, 08:35:21 AM »
help,

If you read the Welcome Thread like I asked you to yesterday, you will have read the following:

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Anyone who continues to post excessively, questioning a conclusive negative result or no-risk situation, will be subject to a four week Time Out (a temporary ban from the Forums). If you continue to post excessively after one Time Out, you may be given a second Time Out which will last eight weeks. There is no third Time Out - it is a permanent ban. The purpose of a Time Out is to encourage you to seek the face-to-face help we cannot provide on this forum.

Please consider yourself warned for the last time. Come back with more of this and you'll be given a time out.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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« Reply #23 on: September 12, 2008, 08:37:54 AM »
Do you think if she had a cold sore would change anything.

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« Reply #24 on: September 12, 2008, 08:53:35 AM »
No, it wouldn't. You need to pay attention to Ann's warning. You're on the verge of a 28 day time out.

How many ways does "no risk" have to be said to you for you to get it?
Andy Velez

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« Reply #25 on: September 12, 2008, 08:58:32 AM »
Thanks

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« Reply #26 on: September 15, 2008, 09:11:51 AM »
Question keep coming sorry

Since we were in a stripclub and she did hook up with someone else before she came with us. What about the sperm from her previous client.

Please don't ban me because of this.

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« Reply #27 on: September 15, 2008, 09:34:16 AM »
Help,

That doesn't change what you have been repeatedly told. This was a non-risk incident. You also need to heed the warnings of the moderators about excessive postings dealing with a non risk incident.
“Keep up the good work....   And God bless you.”
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« Reply #28 on: September 15, 2008, 10:50:36 AM »
Help,

I'm giving you that time out you were warned about. You had NO RISK in this incident, and nothing else you can add is going to change that.

Do not attempt to create a new account to get around your time out because if you do, you will be permanently banned.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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