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Author Topic: Never ever give up on dreams l learned that lesson today  (Read 3331 times)

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Offline bluelove

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Never ever give up on dreams l learned that lesson today
« on: August 01, 2008, 05:13:20 PM »
This has been a year of growth for me l have to say.i have learned what l can take and not take and what does not kill me makes you strong.After five years of being poz and dealing with rejection and the we can be friends speech l learned dreams do come true.

I met someone online almost a year ago went from emails to chat to phone calls.

We have so much in common and it has been wow.

He has chatted with me and my best friend online a lot and then it happened...

He told her he loved me before he told me.

Now the only snag was he is a non pozzie and l had feelings for him to which l was in denial over.Ok more l like l tell him l am poz it will be bye bye.

Well l tod him this afternoon and he was ok so it's bit of a difference but we work with what we can do....And l am still in love with you today like l was yesterday.

Holy crap is all l am going to say...

Never ever would l have thought he would have stuck around.I thought for sure he would walk.

Sometimes karma does some nice things...

A very happy

Blue







Offline 100proofBrandy

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Re: Never ever give up on dreams l learned that lesson today
« Reply #1 on: August 02, 2008, 03:12:39 PM »
I'm so happy for you I went Thur something close to your story when I told him I thought for sure he'd run the other way but he didn't he said why would I run so we have a few bumps in the road it doesn't change who you are! I was already a little in love with him before that but those words and I was lost its been 2 years now and he is my rock he goes to doctor with me he asks questions. he checks my meds everyday to make sure I haven't forgotten them and if I have he wakes me up with toast and milk and meds in hand. his is a dream could true I sometimes wonder what I ever did to deserve him Fate dealt me an awesome hand when it comes to him. I'm so happy for you may you have all the happiness I have had and more
Love Brandy
The person you educate today maybe the one you save tomorrow :)

Offline emeraldize

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Re: Never ever give up on dreams l learned that lesson today
« Reply #2 on: August 02, 2008, 03:49:25 PM »
Blue and Brandy

What an upper to read this thread! Congratulations to both of you.

Em

Offline bluelove

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It was just a dream he bailed when logic kicked in.He was going on emotion at first.

I had a good year with him he has helped me with my book it's almost done and l will go on.

I feel like l lost face here not going to post unless l know how the wind is really blowing.

He has had his dreams shattered never asked me about mine.

And life goes on.

God l feel like Charlie Brown right now.




tendai

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Re: Never ever give up on dreams l learned that lesson today
« Reply #4 on: August 05, 2008, 05:47:51 AM »
Oh Blue. Im so sorry to hear that. Its his loss. He's missing out on a wonderful person
(((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Offline BT65

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Re: Never ever give up on dreams l learned that lesson today
« Reply #5 on: August 05, 2008, 06:57:42 AM »
Blue, I'm so sorry this has happened.  Hang in there.
I've never killed anyone, but I frequently get satisfaction reading the obituary notices.-Clarence Darrow

Offline emeraldize

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Re: Never ever give up on dreams l learned that lesson today
« Reply #6 on: August 05, 2008, 07:16:44 AM »
I feel like l lost face here not going to post unless l know how the wind is really blowing.

Blue

The forums are a place where you need not even consider the concept of losing face. It is a place where you can gain ground. Our scenes, as our viruses, are always changing.

You took a risk, which is what the pursuit of love has always been...taking risks. And, hopefully, when the sadness has cleared, you'll take another.

The one lesson we can learn from our virus (although I wish this were not one of its attributes) is to be open to mutation as that is life, endless mutation.

Em (hmm, E for endless M for mutation)

 


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