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Author Topic: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario  (Read 2372 times)

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Offline worriedlikehell

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Hi maybe someone can help me.

I was in vegas on the weekend...i got trribly drunk and then got very high. I ended up with a call girl. No penatrative sex. She was smothering my face with ass and vagina while i licked. What got me worried is when i think the top inside of my nostriles will have cuts due to the cocaine.

I am scared that vaginal fluids could have gotten in there. I dont know how but i called a hotline and they said impoosible and hung up. is this true. Am i just over thinking?

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Re: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario
« Reply #1 on: July 22, 2008, 05:55:35 PM »
Yes, it's true. Having someone sit on your face is not a risk for HIV transmission. Really. You don't need to worry or be tested for HIV as a result of this encounter.

Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread and follow the links to our Lessons to learn more about how HIV is and is not transmitted

MtD

Offline worriedlikehell

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Re: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario
« Reply #2 on: July 22, 2008, 11:00:53 PM »
do the cuts on my nostiles not my nose change anything?

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Re: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario
« Reply #3 on: July 22, 2008, 11:27:35 PM »
They don't change anything.

MtD

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Re: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario
« Reply #4 on: July 23, 2008, 08:01:23 AM »
Believe me, you aren't the first to have participated in those specific activities. HIV is a fragile virus. It is not transmitted through bruises, nicks, sores and such. It requires the receptive setting which an unprotected vagina or anus provides. As long as you always wear a condom for those you will be well protected.

I will say that experience has taught us over and over again that the mixiing of excessive drinking and drugging with casual sex is a very dangerous combination. They impair your ability to follow safer sex guidelines and all too many I have known became infected in that manner.

This time you don't have to worry in terms of HIV.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

Offline worriedlikehell

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I Did it again.
« Reply #5 on: December 17, 2008, 07:14:39 PM »
Hello all,

I have a concern again about oral sex again.

I have started a new thread cause i think my old one is removed and gone. also new incident.

5 days ago i met 2 girls in a club and ended up at a hotel room with them. Did not have a condom so did the sixty niner / oral with both all night. off and on for 3 hours..

My worry is that i i noticed a sore in my mouth the next morning. When it got there i don't know. I know it either got just before during or after the incident. so If it got there just before and i did not notice it am i at any risk of

1. STD's
2. HIV (MY big worry).

 I would be safe to say it got there the next day but i keep saying "what if". Worst case is that the sore got there just before.

Some words of yours are requested to get me threw this. As i just had a neg test days before and am pissed at myself. ???

Thanks All.

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Re: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario
« Reply #6 on: December 17, 2008, 07:32:06 PM »
I've merged your previous thread with the new one you began. Please follow our rule and keep all of your entries in the same thread.

There's never been a confirmed case of someone having been infected by giving oral to a woman, (even when she is menstruating), and you aren't going to make history by becoming the first. This was another non-risk incident.

Other STDs are much easier to transmit so if you're sexually active you ought to be having a full STD panel done regularly. That means at least annually and more frequently if you are having troubling symptoms.

You do not need to test for HIV over this latest incident.
Andy Velez

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Re: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario
« Reply #7 on: December 17, 2008, 07:54:18 PM »
Andy thanks for your reply. It is hard to accept sometimes as some of this stuff on the internet makes me crazy. I typed in "cranker sore oral sex". I basically was told that i will be infected.

Also What about Std's could this sore be  a result of the oral with these women.


Ps. Your fast ....appreciated.

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Re: i did something terrible wrong...oral with a bizarre senario
« Reply #8 on: December 17, 2008, 08:06:45 PM »
We can't diagnose symptoms in this setting. If you have a sore or other physical event that is troubling, at least give your doctor a call.

For sure canker sores are a very common event and not necessarily indicative of an STD. I've known in some instances for them to be cleared up by having an orange a day or some vitamin C for a few days. But again if you think there's a problem, check it out with your doctor. 

All I can tell with confidence is that I don't seen an HIV problem here.
« Last Edit: December 17, 2008, 08:09:05 PM by Andy Velez »
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