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Offline bob_worried

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Oral on breast
« on: July 24, 2006, 02:45:16 PM »
Hi,

I had posted my concerns in the previous forums in the old site, but will post it again quickly

1. I had sexual encounter with a paid worker in Aug 2005. After the encounter, I noticed that there was blood on the condom & she told me that its due to her recently completed periods. I don't remember whether the condom broke or not.

2. In Jan 2006, I have symptoms like, some rash, some fever, throat pain, feel like my body is heating internally but won't show temp when measured.

3. I went for the test in Feb 2006 & tested -ve ( tested from the instant saliva test, forgot the name). Also the CBC blood test showed no other concerns for WBC, RBC, all other counts.

4. But since last like 10 weeks, I have a bit headache always, constant yeast infection in my penis,and bowl movements have changed (I have to go to restroom as soon as I have lunch/dinner). Do you guys think I still need to go for test or its just that I am not able to get out of that encounter I had. I just don't want to pass it on to my wife. Your help & inputs will really help me get rid of my fear.
« Last Edit: July 24, 2006, 03:06:37 PM by bob_worried »

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #1 on: July 24, 2006, 03:50:22 PM »
Bob,

You had protected  sex and subsequently have tested negative for hiv past the window period.  You are conclusively hiv negative.

Whatever is going on with your body, it has nothing to do with hiv.

Work with your doctor resolve these health issues.

Good luck,

Morgan
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Offline bob_worried

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #2 on: August 02, 2006, 11:28:35 AM »
Morgan & All,

I really appreciate your input, but I need to move on with my life. Its been more than 6 months now & I feel something or the other wrong in my body. Since last 10 days, I feel burning & tingling effect in my feet & also when I walk. I read on internet that it can be the first symptoms of HIV called PN. Do you think I can get this symptoms while its more than 1 year since I had the protected encounter with a sex worker. I am really worred as we are trying for a baby & don't want my wife also to get HIV.

Bob

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #3 on: August 02, 2006, 11:32:55 AM »
Under no circumstances is this an HIV situation.

I hope that you are able to work out whats wrong with a physician. Whatever it is, it is absolutely NOT HIv related. No way, no how.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #4 on: August 03, 2006, 10:06:22 AM »
Thanks for the reply. I had one question to ask. MY bowl movements are still not normal, its been like 2 months now (some days its like diahrrea & some days its normal). Normally how long after infection, does the diahrrea symptoms last if I had HIV?

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #5 on: August 03, 2006, 10:20:23 AM »
Bob,

See your doctor about your bowel problems. It's nothing to do with hiv. How could it - you are conclusively hiv negative.

Ann


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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #6 on: August 03, 2006, 10:11:06 PM »
Thanks for the reply. I had one question to ask. MY bowl movements are still not normal, its been like 2 months now (some days its like diahrrea & some days its normal). Normally how long after infection, does the diahrrea symptoms last if I had HIV?

Bob unless you're an M.D. stop trying to diagnose yourself!!!  You can spend everyday looking at your body thinking this and that is related to HIV, but in reality we all know it's not.  Everyone has already said "you've tested conclusively negative."

You don't have an HIV issue, this is a psychological issue.  You need to try and think rationally about this.  You've tested conclusively negative if you cannot accept that fact you should seek the help of a mental health professional.  Anxiety and irrational fears are a very real problem that many people to choose ignore.

Good luck!

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #7 on: August 07, 2006, 08:23:45 PM »
Thanks everyone for the response & I understand that I am not M.D, but just a bit more worried & don't want to spoil the happy married life.

Just to ensure, I am going for an Orasure test tomorrow, because we are starting the IVF procedure with my wife's gynec & he is going to perform all kind of blood tests, so want to just make sure before he does.

The only reason why I am concerned is because since last Aug 05, I have been for nude massage, many times, with happy ending by hand & also feel toes & hand go numb almost everyday & frequent diahrrea.

Also, my doctor did some bloodwork last week & the ALT count in liver test came high. He is going to perform Hepatitis panel test tomorrow & see if its due to hepatitis or some other reason.Do you think this has anything to do with my event in last August.

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #8 on: August 07, 2006, 08:55:34 PM »
You've had a negative result way past the window period. You are hiv negative. Period.. No "what ifs or buts."

Offline ScienceGuy25

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Re: Still feeling symptoms
« Reply #9 on: August 09, 2006, 12:01:18 AM »
Thanks everyone for the response & I understand that I am not M.D, but just a bit more worried & don't want to spoil the happy married life.

Just to ensure, I am going for an Orasure test tomorrow, because we are starting the IVF procedure with my wife's gynec & he is going to perform all kind of blood tests, so want to just make sure before he does.

The only reason why I am concerned is because since last Aug 05, I have been for nude massage, many times, with happy ending by hand & also feel toes & hand go numb almost everyday & frequent diahrrea.

Also, my doctor did some bloodwork last week & the ALT count in liver test came high. He is going to perform Hepatitis panel test tomorrow & see if its due to hepatitis or some other reason.Do you think this has anything to do with my event in last August.

Bob

No one will be able to diagnose you over the internet but one thing is for sure, anything you're experiencing is not HIV related.  The fact that you had protected intercourse, makes it highly unlikely that any thing your experiencing now is due to your previous encounter.

You've spent a lot of time worrying about this issue, even after you've conclusively tested negative.  So i'm wondering in all your stress and worrying about HIV have you neglected other areas of your health?  Are you overweight? Are you exercising regularly? Are you getting regular check ups to look for diabetes, high cholesterol, high blood pressure? All of these ailments are enormously more common than HIV infection and could all be playing apart in your current situation.

Have you spoken with any sort of counselor to address your irrational fears surrounding this event or have you only been going online looking for information to scare yourself? We can't make you take our advice but you might want to consider it, especially if what your doing now isn't working for you.

Best of Luck

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Massage
« Reply #10 on: November 22, 2006, 04:52:45 PM »
I have a quick question. I go to massage often with a lady. I lay down on a table with a cloth on top of it. First I lay down on my stomach. Do you think this is a risk if the cloth on the table is been used by someone else also? Is it safe to lay down like that on a towel/cloth used by someone else also?

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Re: Massage
« Reply #11 on: November 22, 2006, 04:56:59 PM »
Not an HIV risk.  No.
AIDS isn't for sissies.

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Re: Massage
« Reply #12 on: November 22, 2006, 05:17:27 PM »
HIV is absolutely not passed in that manner.

If you haven't already done so, please read the lesson on transmission. You can find a link to it in the Welcome thread which begins this section. Everyone needs to know the basics about safer sex and you can get that in that lesson.

This time you have no cause for further concern about HIV.

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Re: Massage
« Reply #13 on: November 22, 2006, 05:22:53 PM »
Bob,

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.

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Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

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Oral on breast
« Reply #14 on: February 07, 2007, 02:38:43 PM »
I have a question & am worried. Do you think licking a girl's breast & a quick short kiss on her lips (dont know her status) is a risk for HIV?

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Re: Oral on breast
« Reply #15 on: February 07, 2007, 02:50:00 PM »
Absolutely not a risk, Bob.

But what is a risk for HIV is not being well informed about the basics regarding HIV transmission and testing. Please read the lessons on this site about both. You will find a link to them in the Welcome thread which opens this section.

By becoming familiar with that information and consistently following safer sex guidelines you can enjoy your sexuality, protect your health and be spared the kind of unnecessary worry you are experiencing.

This time out you have no cause for concern.

Cheers,
Andy Velez

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Re: Oral on breast
« Reply #16 on: February 07, 2007, 03:39:59 PM »
Not at all Bob.  Lick and kiss and suck on those nipples till your hearts content! 

But do follow Andy's advice and remain protected for intercourse!
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Re: Oral on breast
« Reply #17 on: February 07, 2007, 05:58:32 PM »
Bob,

I've merged your new thread again into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread.

If you need help finding your thread when you come here, click on the "Show own posts" link under your name in the left-hand column of any forum page.

Please also read through the Welcome Thread so you can familiarize yourself with our Forum Posting Guidelines. Thank you for your cooperation.
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Prostate massage
« Reply #18 on: May 30, 2007, 10:47:50 AM »
I had prostate massage twice in last 6 months. The lady told me that she uses a new glove everytime, but who knows that she might be using the same glove with everyone. Do you think this is a risk for HIV? I am a bit worried as I had a viral flu for 3 days (like 1 month ago) & at the same time, my wife also had viral flu for 3 days.

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Re: Prostate massage
« Reply #19 on: May 30, 2007, 11:10:09 AM »
Bob you need to keep all your questions in your original post.  It can be found by clicking the Show Own Posts link under your screenname on the left hand side of this page.

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This would not be considered a risk of HIV transmission.  Please read the lessons in the welcome thread to find out how HIV is transmitted.
LIFE is not a race to the grave with the intention of arriving safely
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Re: Oral on breast
« Reply #20 on: May 30, 2007, 03:45:10 PM »
Bob, first of all, as AC told you, keep all of your entries here in this same thread. Even when you think it's an unrelated matter. I've merged your threads into this one.

Secondly, you've been coming around here long enough to know what is risky and what isn't. Getting a finger up your bum is NOT a risk for HIV transmission and you ought to know that by now. Re-read the lesson on transmission. It's really simple, Bob. Unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse are the risks and by unprotected I don't mean getting buggered by a finger.

This incident was not a risk for HIV. Period. End of story.
Andy Velez

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Oral with condom
« Reply #21 on: November 30, 2007, 08:54:54 AM »
I had posted few questions in past, but needed to ask one last question.

I had an oral with a TS with condom on. First I did oral to her & than she did to me, both times with condom. How big a risk this is for HIV transmission?

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Re: Oral on breast
« Reply #22 on: November 30, 2007, 09:38:03 AM »
I've merged your threads. Please follow our rule and keep all of your entries in this same thread.

Receiving oral is absolutely not a risk for HIV transmission. In the entire history of the epidemic there's never been a confirmed case of transmission to a guy getting a blowjob.

As for giving oral, there have been a very few cases of transmission reported in that manner, but they are not well documented. There is much more evidence through longterm studies that giving oral, especially without oral ejaculation, is not a risk. Your saliva has natural elements which effectively reduce HIV's viability. And HIV is a fragile virus not easily transmitted. So giving oral is for some in the domain of what level of risk you are prepared to accept.

In general we do recommend that anyone who's sexually active ought to have a full STD panel done regularly -- at least annually. Other STDs are much easier to transmit than HIV. 
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Re: Oral on breast
« Reply #23 on: November 30, 2007, 10:43:48 AM »
Bob,

Along with keeping all your posts in this thread, I also need you to stop trying to create new accounts. You've tried twice in the past two days and both attempts have been deleted.

Having more than one account is against our Terms of Membership, which you agreed to when you became a member. You were sent an email about this yesterday. Keep your login information somewhere safe so you have it when you need it in future. Thank you for your cooperation.

And I totally agree with Andy; you haven't had a risk.

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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

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Re: Oral on breast
« Reply #24 on: November 30, 2007, 12:32:29 PM »
Thanks Andy.

But in giving oral, do you think its a risk if I gave oral with a condom?

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« Reply #25 on: November 30, 2007, 12:47:08 PM »
Bob,

Condoms prevent hiv transmission. Giving oral with a condom is absolutely NOT a risk for hiv transmission.

Ann
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"...health will finally be seen not as a blessing to be wished for, but as a human right to be fought for." Kofi Annan

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man. Mignon McLaughlin

HIV is certainly character-building. It's made me see all of the shallow things we cling to, like ego and vanity. Of course, I'd rather have a few more T-cells and a little less character. Randy Shilts

 


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